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This hiccup in our sex life is getting to be a big problem...any suggestions?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My sex life with my boyfriend has recently gotten to a point where there's a bit of a hiccup. He is frequently coming too quickly.

In the beginning of our relationship this would happen every now and then, but a lot of the time we'd still have some pretty long lasting sessions.

Even now I basically have to skip giving him any foreplay because that will guarantee he doesn't last at all, and even without foreplay he goes pretty quickly.

It's not like he's a beginner at sex, we're both 23 and have been in long term relationships before so the whole sex thing isn't exactly new.

Up until lately I've been fairly understanding on it, but it's getting to the point where I'm really frustrated, all my previous partners have had a lot more self control than that, but he acts like there's nothing he can do about it - what to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

hmmm I was going to say more foreplay......

I do have a few ideas that might help:

Can he have more than one orgasim? Perhaps he can try and have a second one, thus you get better sex.

Get him a Stamina Training Unit fleshlight, its a rubber vagina that he can practise with. Should help

Lastly climb ontop of him and slowly insert him into you. go slow, and when hes about to come (make sure he tells you), stop. let him calm down a bit and start again, stopping again when he's close, this should work but will take awhile

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