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How do I control my excessive sexual desires?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A male Pakistan age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have excessive sexual desires and I have no idea how to control it. I am 28 years old but there’s no sign of me getting married soon since I am still not financial well off....doing part time jobs here and there. Most of the time , I masturbating imagine having sex with my ex-girlfriend or watching porn. My penis gets erected big time when I see large size Bra in shops over here. Since it’s a closed society, I can’t imagine taking girl just for sex. I have become so obsessed with sex that whenever i meet girl I first look at her lips, tits and butt. Even a girl's nail polish color also gets me erected. I would be obliged if you guys could help me on this! Am I normal person?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

Your a bloke.It would be abnormal not to feel them. But on the end of each arm are your free sex toys.

Heres a tip. Not that i have tried it.

You could try painting your fingernails red on your left and.

Pretend you got a girlfriend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

Try to take ur mind off of sex... I know it is very hard. There are 'sex toys for men' and that might help... I find it helps most men.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

Starlights agony auntYes you are a normal person.

Its very normal to have sexual desire, we are human and this instinct is in all of us.

But dont let this continuous sexual mindset take control of your every living moment.

You need to focus on other things because thinking about sex all day in the society your in would only leave you more frustrated and unhappy.

You should take up a new hobby or sport to keep your mind off these things, or alternatively the other option you have in your society is get married.

I know your not well off but the whole point of marriage in those countries is to relieve sexual urges in a legal way.

Hope this helps! goodluck

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