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writes:OK, I'm not in a relationship right now, and I'm having a lot of trouble lately with, to put it bluntly, being very horny. I can't stop thinking about sex some days, it's rediculous. Some people have suggested that to help with this to try masturbating. Honestly, I never really knew how. Does anyone have good tips on female masturbation? What to do, how to do it? and so on..Thank you all for your advice!!
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reader, JH832 +, writes (21 October 2009):
Honestly I suggest not masturbating at all. It may provide you with some temporary relief but in the long run it won't satisfy the feelings your having. I started masturbating in the 5th grade and over the years it became an addiction I wasn't able to shake until recently (almost 6 years later). I couldn't control where or when I was going to get the urge to do it. My mind was always saturated with thoughts about sex and I miserable. Now is this everyone's experience? Ni, probably not. But for many people around the globe masturbation is more of a problem then a solution. The feeling and desires for sex that your having are normal, the solution you are seeking in order to deal with these desires aren't. I hope that helped.
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reader, JH832 +, writes (21 October 2009):
Honestly I suggest not masturbating at all. It may provide you with some temporary relief but in the long run it won't satisfy the feelings your having. I started masturbating in the 5th grade and over the years it became an addiction I wasn't able to shake until recently (almost 6 years later). I couldn't control where or when I was going to get the urge to do it. My mind was always saturated with thoughts about sex and I miserable. Now is this everyone's experience? Ni, probably not. But for many people around the globe masturbation is more of a problem then a solution. The feeling and desires for sex that your having are normal, the solution you are seeking in order to deal with these desires aren't. I hope that helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Honestly I suggest not masturbating at all. It may provide you with some temporary relief but in the long run it won't satisfy the feelings your having. I started masturbating in the 5th grade and over the years it became an addiction I wasn't able to shake until recently (almost 6 years later). I couldn't control where or when I was going to get the urge to do it. My mind was always saturated with thoughts about sex and I miserable. Now is this everyone's experience? Ni, probably not. But for many people around the globe masturbation is more of a problem then a solution. The feeling and desires for sex that your having are normal, the solution you are seeking in order to deal with these desires aren't. I hope that helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Understandble, it's natural that those feelings build up, don't worry. Masturbation should help, at least some. You can try fingering, but I suggest just starting with rubbing your clit, getting used to your body and what you like. The more you explore yourself that way the better it will get. There's plenty you can do, and it's safer than going out and sleeping with just anyone (I know you wouldn't anyway, just saying) so it's a good release.
Anyway, if you need more advice on it you can message me or anyone about it privately. Oh, and remember to just relax and take things slow, if you haven't really done it before, then taking your time to get used to it is probably a good idea. I know other people will have better, more detailed suggestions though.
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