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female
age
22-25,
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writes:for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always think about doing it with a girl, I am not attracted to all women just some I am very picky.I am wondering if i should go ahead and do it cause I never stopped thinking about it, when boyfriend performs oral sex on me I feel like he is not doing it right i feel like something is missing and a female would do it better,I sometimes think that a woman would know exactly what I want. am I a lesbian?a freak? I am a bit confused.
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reader, alwayznd4eva116  + ♥, writes (13 November 2009):
 i dont think your gay. i think your curious. as am i. i mean the two people who have given me oral did it GREAT. no complaints. and im not gay at all, but i have been thinking about how it would feel with a female doing it because of all the things i hear, like how they know a womans body therefore they do it better. i want to try it but i never questioned wether i was gay, bi, or what. because i love men and i love what they have. i think im definetly gunna try it once i find somebody, whu i dnt know and is willing to keep it a one night thing. go head and try it girl, it mite be fun. your still young so enjoy life now !!
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female
reader, openmind + ♥, writes (29 October 2009):
I doubt your a full blown lesbian but i believe you may be bi i have had alot of my strait friends tell me men arent so good at going down on women but who is to say just because a woman knows what she is doing and you like it better that you are gay. There is so much more involved than that. I reccomend some experimenting with women. If men turn you on and satisfy you in the bed then like i said you may be bi but honey you will never know until you try so indulge in your fantasies for a night and see what you like!!!!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): well most girls do think about it also just dont say anytthing i do the same but i dont think either u or i r lesbians its just something that turns u on im very picky at my lady too i also have never been with in woman so i have brought up a three sum with my guy but the thing is i couldt pic. him doing her but eveything else to me sonuds fun u know its more bout me ant her doing r thing im very opened minded but i think its something i should do not just for me but my man too i well always need a men just think a woman could turn me on more then a man girls have sexy bobies well most like i said picky so if this the same feelings u have be open to your men and see if he would want to join after u have your fun first lol or just be ok with u trying it he may even like just being in the room pleases his self if u ladys want it all about u but always rember his feelings after four year could make or break u so best wishes its even harder finding someone u can trusth never make it anyone u or he knows that well always be a prom just think it just might be a one time thing and how weird right well would love to hear what u decide
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male
reader, q1605 +, writes (21 October 2009):
 I know just how you feel. I am a lesbian. I am trapped in a man's body.
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female
reader, marieclaire  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 you should tell your boyfriend what you like! if he's doing it right maybe you'll stop thinking about girls.
but there's nothing wrong with thinking about women, you might be bi or a lesbian or you might not. i don't believe sexuality is static.
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reader, called Steve  + ♥, writes (20 October 2009):
 If you're happy with a BF, you may just have an active imagination!
Mind you - I dont think about having sex with a bloke so - maybe you are! LOL
Seriously though - if he's not doing things right - you should be telling him not wishing it was a woman because a woman MAY do it better... teach him, show him learn yourself what you like dont just assume a woman could do it better!!!
Good Luck! - Steve
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