A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, Im 18 years old. I have been sleeping with my bf for almost a year now. The first time We did it (which was dumb on MY behalf), and everytime after that, we did it unprotected. He's a lot older then me..31. And has a 4 year old daughter. We have never talked about each others past sex life. Do you think its important to know about your partners past sex life? I want to ask him how many partners has he had, because of his age Im sure hes had a lot more then I have. Should I ask him even though its been a year? Do i have the right to know??
View related questions:
sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): You're not even comfortable enough to ask him this question, but you're sleeping with him?
A
female
reader, Emjo  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 You should defninately ask him! Its very important! Also you should be asking yourself why your having unprotected sex? Do you want to get pregnant? 'Cos if not then i suggest you visit you GP about contraception of some sort. Also you will probably need a STI test, just to check!
Best wishes :)
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2009):
You don't have a right to know. And the truth is, do you really want to? I also don't think it's important. Accept him as he is. After all, what if he's had a lot more and you can't take it? Accept that he has a past, and accept that you are the one he's with now.
...............................
|
