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Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

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Question - (19 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female Virgin Islands - U.S. age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me want to be all over him, why?

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A female reader, jeslet992 United States +, writes (20 October 2009):

It's pretty simple. Don't grind, or come to the realization that we are all human and at a certain age, we all develop strong hormones. You seem a little young to be having sex, so the best solution is to just chill and really think about your priorities. These feelings ate absolutely natural, you just have to develop the selfcontrol to handle them.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (19 October 2009):

tux agony auntSimple solution to your problem is to stop grinding, or simulating sex with others... Remove the temptation before you fall and regret it later.. because the way you are going is that this temptation will get the best of you and next thing you know is that you are naked, he is naked and now you are scared that you can become pregnant.

But the whole feeling is natural because your body is saying it's ready to have sex to procreate.. the problem is that your body does not know when you are mentally or financially ready to become a mother.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009):

Thank you, this is the same person who asked the question. Do you have any suggestions on how to control these better?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 October 2009):

Honeypie agony auntHormones my dear. Learn to control your impulses. And there is NOTHING worng with feeling turned on my a guy, it is how well you control yourself that determine the outcome.

Might be a good time to talk to your mom ( or another adult you trust) about "the birds & bies"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009):

It is perfectly natural to feel that way at your age. You're probably going to be feeling that way a lot more often actually, especially if guys are touching you in that way. I suggest you be careful not to let them go too far or anything, don't ever do more than you're ready to do with a guy. Talking to your mom about these feelings may help, but I know that's awkward sometimes, but still a good idea. :) Otherwise, you can message me or anyone on here for more advice, or just post a question. Don't stress about it.

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A female reader, countrygal462 United States +, writes (19 October 2009):

countrygal462 agony aunti agree with CaringGuy. never act on impusle. find a guy u trust and care about. is veeeery normal to have those feelings. i also think you shoudl talk to your mom or to someone close to you and that you trust.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2009):

You're turning into a young lady. It's perfectly natural. The important thing is that you don't act on these feelings until you have reached the legal age in your country, and that you've found a good guy who you want to be with and who won't hurt you. Also, it might be a good idea to have a conversation about it with your mum.

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