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writes:I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Hasden, it's not a competition. Sex is a personal act, it doesn't matter how old you are or if there are people younger than you that already have. There are millions of people that have had sex at an even younger age than her and there are millions of people that are older than you and still haven't had sex.
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reader, Hasden +, writes (15 October 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the question But It dpresses me, she's younger than me though.
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reader, LallaZine  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Dont worry about her, just do whatever you want to do. If you dont want to have sex, then dont. And if you do, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons - you care about whoever you're with and you actually feel ready.
Dont do it just because your ex has done it before, its a personal thing. Let her get on with it and anyway...some people make stuff up to impress other people, or make them jealous. Think about it.
Someone nice will come along and you'll know when the time is right. Put your feelings about what your ex has told you aside, she is history right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Just because your ex girlfriend has had sex doesn't mean you have to, that's not a very good reason.
What's important is that you wait until you're ready.
I think you've gotten the wrong idea why she thinks you should wait, you think she's trying to keep all the fun to herself or something, but in reality she probably regrets having sex so young and thinks you'd be better off waiting.
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reader, queenbee21  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Someone very smart once told me if you're thinking about doing something you couldn't tell the world about, you shouldn't be doing it. If you had sex would you be ashamed? I think it's dumb and unrealistic for people to expect teenagers to wait until they're married. It just doesn't happen. But if your ready, you won't feel embarassment about it. Also, it should be with someone you love and trust.
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