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He's not interested in seduction. Do I resort to a sexless relationship?

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Question - (15 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

i have a fabulous and close relationship with my partner of 16 months. he is unfortunately not interested in sex/love making. the first 2 months was brilliant since then we probably have had 10 minute sessions about 4 times. i probably 'nag' a bit about this but have become disinterested. i really want to feel that closeness with him but he seems to think it is not important and i make too much of an issue about it. i am reaching neally 50 he is 8 years younger and i would really like that closeness (physical) before i fel too old and look too yukk to bother with. he's not interested in seduction tried it all!!! so my question is what do I do and do I have to resort to a realtionship without sex!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009):

Maybe it is your desperate attitude about your age and your body that is turning him off. There is not a reason that I can think of that you should look to "yuk" to mess with....put down the scones and take a walk around the block, focus on doing things that you enjoy, have your own life and meet a man who likes to have sex as much as you do. You have a younger man who isn't interested, I am sure there are other men out there who would be interested in you and having a physical relationship with you.

If his problem isn't medical or physical it must be emotional, as in stress, not happy with the relationship, or just no sex drive. My guess is he isn't happy in the realtionship. Find out why.

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (15 October 2009):

hi

try and talk to him as some men at that age find it hard to get hard, i am not sure if that is the issue only you will know and then they hide this by doing what he is doings. lets us know or pm if you wantto discuss further

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