A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friends-with-benefits thing with in the past and who I always seem to end up kissing when i'm drunk. Well, we ended up kissing again as i kind of expected, and at some point we also ended up on a sofa where he fingered me. Much later we were all getting into tents in my garden, and i said i wanted to stay in the same tent as my friend, because she was completely out of it and I wanted to keep an eye on her. However when i went up to the house, G convinced her and this other guy to sleep in a different tent so we could have one to ourselves, and when i came back down he said she was much better and was ok. So we got into our tent and i was really tired by this point and kind of wanted to go to sleep, but G took off his trousers and got in the sleeping bag with me and kept kissing me and touching me all over, he was really worked up and offered to go down on me, kept trying to do things while i wanted to sleep. A few times i pushed his hand away and told him to stop but he persisted - I didnt mind too much and i figured it was because he was also quite drunk. In the morning when we woke up we had a cuddle, neither of us mentioned anything that happened and he went home. However this week back at school... he's referred to it a few times and hes been quite touchy feely with me, giving me lots of hugs and kissing me on the cheek and stuff. I've been friends with him since i was very little and I've never really seen him in that way, but we get on really well, can talk to each other about anything and have a good laugh together. He was being so nice to me today i felt a bit confused. I never thought he really saw me in that way either, does it sound as though he does? And would it be weird if we took things further?
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I don't see why it would be weird. Why do you think it'd be weird?
I think you should talk to him about being exclusive. He seems nice.
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