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How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009):

I don't think you need to use an enema, but if you do, do so several hours before you have sex. This is NOT something you do right before, and you should only use tap water, not the laxitive that comes in these, or you'll have a serious mess on your hands (so to speak).

I'd recommend eating a light meal, take a poop, then a shower, or better a warm bath. Your man needs to take his time and gently loosen you up. I recommend several play sessions where he's only using fingers before he trys inserting his penis. Use plenty (that means ALOT) of good lube- KY jelly at a minimum. Anal sex should be exciting and amazing, and NOT hurt. There are plenty of sites to get good advice on specific how-to's. Do your research...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009):

i dont think you really need to worry about it if it's not completely clean. have a shower or a bath to make sure it doesnt smell. if you are really lubricated and relaxed, it will be okay. just make sure he doesnt pull out really fast or it could act as a "plunger." MAKE SURE he wears a condom. and DO NOT let him back into your vagina if he was in or around your bum. you could get a really bad infection. if it hurts too much, make sure you stop. another big thing is, make sure you trust the guy you are with 100%.

seeing that you are only 16-17 you may be a little young to be experiencing this. just be very careful, you could really hurt yourself. tearing your anus and getting a really bad infection.

alls i say, is be very safe and careful!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009):

Take an enema. Make sure you have lots of lube and your partner needs to go slowly.

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