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My husband does not want to have sex

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Question - (2 November 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *oveiscare writes:

My husband does not want to have sex. I AM 37 AND HE IS 34, he does not desire any kind of intimacy. ... nor put his head on my shoulder when we sleep, nor any of the normal ... ?

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A female reader, quiet-echo Canada + , writes (2 November 2009):

quiet-echo agony auntI suspect that's meant to be sacrastic.

No information provided but we're supposed to fix it.

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A female reader, loveiscare Australia +, writes (2 November 2009):

loveiscare is verified as being by the original poster of the question

loveiscare agony auntTHANKS!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

Have you actually talked to him about it?

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A female reader, quiet-echo Canada + , writes (2 November 2009):

quiet-echo agony auntThere is very little information to go on here. How long have you been together? How long has this lack of intimacy gone on for? Was it gradual or fairly sudden? Has there been any life altering changes recently? A job loss? Financial strain? Does he spend a lot of time out of the house? On the computer?

Are there any sudden new hobbies? Have any close friends noticed a change in him or is this just behind closed doors? Have you spoken to him about it and if so, what kind of response did you get?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

It sounds to me that he may be getting satisfaction else were. I would be very caution of my health because if he is out there you want to be protected. Follow your intution if your gut feeling tells you something follow it. Best of the luck to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

i had the same problem when i was 19 my boy frnd and i wanted to have sex but we couldnt it was scared. so we laid in bed he i stripped and i lap danced and hee touched me and we spend the night together he kissed on my boobs and everywhere.then like at 3 am he asked that if i wanted to have sex and he said i was skinny and i onley weighed like90lb and then we had sex and got married a week later!!!!

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