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female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe pain is gone now - thanks for your advice :)
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 Urinary tract infection maybe? Go see your doctor. And PLEASE use more then just condoms, they are ONLY 85% safe, if you are that you and having sex I suggest you get on the pill as well as use condoms. Better safe then sorry.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 I want to say to you firstly your both underage and in this country your doing things that are classed as illegal and you both could get into serious trouble if you were ever to fall pregnant, please think very carefully what your doing here, and i sincerely hope you were careful.
Lecture over let us see what the problem could be!
First time sex is going to be sore you will feel a little raw down there and i suggest you take hot baths to soothe the area, and keep it clean.
Because it was your first time you may have picked up an infection from his penis and that could be the reason your hurting so much.
I suggest you need to see your GP asap just to rule out any infections that may need treated, cause if you do have any and you don't get them treated you will be in a lot of pain for a while.
We cant really tell what the real problem is we cant see it as it where, whereas a doctor can, and bear in mind whatever you say to your doctor is in confidence, however be also prepared for the doctor to question you as to why your having sex at this age?
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): If it's a few days, then yes, it's natural to be sore some, but if it keeps hurting just as much, or gets worse, see your doctor to make sure you're safe and things are ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry - im tired. i didnt mean to say a few months ago . i meant to say days! Sorry! silly me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Uncle Phil makes a good point, it didn't occur to me that 3 months ago may have also been the last time you had sex, I was thinking you had had it since then. I suggest you see a doctor still.
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reader, Uncle Phil + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 If you had sex a few months ago and this particular area has suddenly started to be uncomfortable, it's unlikely to have anything to do with having sex.
Go and see your doctor.
By the way, this area is known as the 'tweren't'. The reason being that if 'tweren't there your guts would fall out.
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reader, Natalie90 +, writes (2 November 2009):
Yes as far as im aware it is especially if it was the first time you slept together, if ur still worried pop in to see the nurse just to settle ur mind
hope this helps x
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reader, Natalie90 +, writes (2 November 2009):
Yes as far as im aware it is especially if it was the first time you slept together, if ur still worried pop in to see the nurse just to settle ur mind
hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): There are a lot of possible side effects to having sex. There's sometimes going to be pain even after you're done having sex, but, I think you should talk to your doctor to make sure. That way you can get a real doctor to check it out and find out what's going on. If you need any more advice just post again. Please make sure you use protection if you have sex though, that will help keep you from getting an STD or anything like that.
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