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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want to lose my marriage because of this problem.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - Is it possible that a man who can't make love to his wife, due to erection problems from undiscovered psychological problems, can make love to an other women if he falls in love? I mean my wife thinks, if I get turned on from someone else, I will g...

Did my masterbation habit ruin my sex life?1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - Ok I have this big problem..I'll try to make it short When i was a kid(8-9yrs old) i use to have sex with my neighbor daughter(she was 11). We continued this for 3 years and then they moved. When i was 8-9 yrs, strange thing is I use to be horn...

Can guys be in the mood for sex if they did it the day before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - Hi, i'm 20 years old and I had great sex the night before with my gf for a good 40 minutes, but the next night she wanted to do it again, and i wasnt in the mood, i couldnt get aroused, is that normal? Can a guy really not be in the mood for sex ...

I can't stand him touching me but feel guilty when I tell him to get out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for 5+ years. About 6 months ago I decided to move out and into my own place. He would not work and I paid all the bills. I finally could not deal with it anymore and moved out. He still calls all the time and stops by. ...

How can I feel more confident doing a strip tease for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says he'd really like it if i did some type of dance for him like a strip tease, but i have no idea what i should do. I feel really embarrassed and put it off all the time and tell him i'll do it another time. I told him i feel ...

Might be pregnant but bleeding after sex. Whats going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - I had my period on tHe 27th of last month and last night (on the 7th) Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. It didnt hurt or anything but after we finished i started bleeding. About 30 minutes later tHe bleeding completely stopped then a hour ...

Romantic sex on Prom night but I got my period! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Hey, Right I have a problem. Prom is on thursday! i can't wait. My current boyfriend, of 9 and half months, asked me to go with him, i obviously agreed. So i got my dress shoes ectect.. But yesterday [7/6/09] i started my period! Pro...

Want to do more with my boyfriend than making out, what is the next step/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - okay, like i wanna step up in my realationship, but what do you do, my boyfriend and i only make-out. what do you do to have him do more with you? thanx. [:...

My gf is not very sexually minded and I feel only like a friend to her! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - right here goes.....I’ve been with my girlfriend for half a year now and whilst I am absolutely head over heels for her, I’m finding that we don’t have much sex. Roughly once a week at most usually, more than once a week (and not much more) on very ...

No time for sex with me as he studies too hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf are in a relationship 7 months now. He loves me an all but he is really into studying and i hate it! He never has time for me! but its ok... i try to handle it. i tell him sometimes that he should relax a little, but it's no use... but ...

Worried about oral, impetigo "school sore", pullout method, herpes and pregnancy, help please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - hey im 16 male and i think i got impetigo, some kind of herpes, not a cold sore. i gave my girlfriend oral for the first time about 5 days ago and again last night. ive recently had this little blister pimple thing im not exactly sure when i got ...

Is something wrong with me because I don't want to or like to masturbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Im not sure if i have a problem or not, i cant masturbate, its not because i dont know how but simply because i dont want to and i think the thought is so dirty so i never do it. my boyfriend always tells me i should do it and that it will des...

Sex life is going down the tubes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Hi All, I am 30 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we have a 1 year old son and baby number 2 on the way. My problem is our sex life. From the beginning of our relationship our sex life hasnt been brilliant. After...

How can I fix our sexual situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. In the beginning sex was almost nightly. Then his roomate put restrictions on how much I could be there. That stressed him out and he felt as if he was being controlled. Sex began to dwindle ...

He was my first love so should I talk to him or not, now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - When i was fourteen i had a massive crush on this boy from the first time i met him, One day i found out he moved in by me and i was so excited. He was my first crush, first kiss, basically he is my first love. We hung out all the time and things ...

Do all men masturbate even if they have frequent sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - do all men masturbate even if you have frequent sex? my boyfriend does fairly often, and it makes me feel very insecure, unattractive, un needed,and unwanted.(should it make me feel that way?) he says he loves me and wants us to be together. he also ...

I like my fiancee to wear sexy clothes, is this strange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - when my fiance and go out or have sex i like her to wear sexy clothes. It excites me more during sex, does this make me pervert? ...

Was this rape?? What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - I have a problem.I doubt anyone will want to help me but I hope so.I took a girl out on our first ever date, and we went clubbing..we preceeded to get horribly drunk, and had to get a motel because I didnt want to risk driving her home...there was ...

How can we get her to join us in a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years have thought of having a threesome with him and another girl. and this was basically all my idea, but i am bisexual, and i think this would make my fantasy come real as also give him good pleasure, but we don't ...

It's all kinds of messed up! He likes my close friend, I don't want to lose both of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 163 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - So I'm 16 and I've had this weird relationship with this guy for about 9 months. We tried being together but he never actually wanted a relationship with me. I lost my virginity to him recently and we have always been close. He has never really ...

My wife is so upset by my erectile problems! How can I help her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - Why do woman, gets so upset from erectal problems of their man? My wife is in emotinal pain because I lost my sex drive after ,I lost my erection. The doctors couldn't tell us waht was going on, and now she says I have no medical reason, so she t...

I can't trust my girlfriend because she lied to me. She turned out to be a slut. Should I break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - My cousin went to skool wit this girl that was litterally known as the skools whore. even tho she had never slept wit anybody at that school, e. I had my eyes on her ever since I saw her at the movies one day and I got her number from my cousin just ...