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Archived questions from: 18 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will this heal on its own, or should he see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i was giving my boyfriend a blow job, and must have got a bit carried away, and now he has a sort of.. scab on his mister, like you would get on anywhere on your body after a scratch. he complains its sore but didnt hurt at the time, in fact he ...

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

Guys..If you have just split with your girlfriend do you miss them when you think of sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - My question goes out to guys most especially but girls' opinion are also welcome. If you've just broken up with your girlfriend, do you miss them when you think of sex? I was watching "the reader" and can't stand watching the sex scenes. I...

I had a dram my wife was engaged in sex with a stranger. What could this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I dreamed I came home and found my wife in bed on top of another man riding him crazy wild. But rather than becoming angry and violent I found myself hiding from them yet watching and enjoying it. What could this mean and is it common? I would never ...

Friends with benifits but I feel more for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - how do you keep a sexual relationship from escalating into more? i will start off by saying that i am involved with a man who i thought was the man of the dreams. i fell in love with him instantly we have been together almost 4 years and we have 2 ...

I can't orgasm through intercourse!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hey, I find it really hard to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, and by hard i mean practically impossible. I can cum fine through personal masturbation or if my boyfriend goes down on me, its just the actual sex that doesnt make me orgasm. ...

Sex life isn't what it used to be, Hes changed.. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am a 26 year old female. That is very concern about my love life with my true love. My boyfriend does not have sex with me like he use to. we use to have sex all the time but now we only have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month. I have asked him what ...

Should I have sex with him even though we are both going to collage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I'm pretty much best friends with my boyfriend. We've been "best friends" for more than a year, but we've only been going out for 3 monthes. I really trust him and love him, but i'm not sure if we'll have a future since I'm going off to college in ...

Spotting after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i am worried. my boyfriend and hadn't any sex in about 3 weeks. when we did it hurt me a little, and he said i was feeling a bit tighter than usual. when i went to use the bathroom i discovered that i had bled a little. i thought initially ...

My boyfriend was a bit rough with me and now I'm in pain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was kinda rough last night when he was fingering me and I've been extremely sore ever since. I think his nails might have scatched me, is there any way to ease the pain? It's honestly so bad Im avoiding even using the washroom as long ...

I think he is just using me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - ive been sleeping with this lad for ages now n he always slags me off to his friends but tells me he dosnt meen it n thats what they wanna hear my friends say hes just playing me but hes gorguss n i cant help but go back for more i realy like him ...

What makes a woman good in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - One for the guys here! just a general question. We all know what meakes a man bad in bed right? Well what defines weather or not a woman is good in bed? It's not that I have any probs in this department but I'm really curious lol. Will be asking my ...

Itching after anal... Should I see a Doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I tried anal sex for the 2nd time last week and it was protected and everything but now I freaking out that I may have a STD or something. It initially hurt the first day, but have a slight itchy feeling there every now and again but nothing ...

Why did it hurt when I touched myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - im a virgin, and i was fingering and when i started i wasnt wet, then i was touching my clit and it began hurting. then i was still doing it but then i started getting this burning /fire feeling and i kept going. then i got really really wet, and ...

Taking birth control pills, but worried I'll still get pregnant if he doesn't wear a condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay so, my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. He and I used to foreplay and sometimes have sex but it all stopped a few months ago when I got on birth control pills. I don't know why but I Just was never in the mood. The thing is, I've been ...

I have a tickling fetish!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm young, but I've always known what I like. I have a tickling fetish, and I prefer to be the 'ler and not the 'lee. So I kind of have two questions here. First, is it even remotely normal? I've always felt kind of freaked out by it. Like, it...

I don't let my husband see my breasts because they are too small!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im ...

She got mad when I tried to touch her breasts during sex...what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (who was a virgin before I met her) and me had sex for the time first. Well it was great when I'd to take off her bra she slap my hand away and she got really mad at me because she doesn't like when I touch her breasts. Then I talked ...

Is it normal for a guy to use a strap-on dildo on his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have 2 kids. Sex is wonderful, when we have it, 1 to 2 times a week-work, kids, busy schedule. My question to both men and women, my wife has hinted at the use of sex toys. Apparently she has been ...

I can't orgasm, and it's ruining my relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - So a few months back my boyfriend and I broke up. The main reason was sex or lack thereof. I'm ok-ish with the breakup...we are still friends. Anyway the reason we hadn't been having sex was I didn't want it. I wasn't enjoying it as much as I used ...

He feels different down there...where's his other ball?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay so this is a weird one, hang in there with me... I just started seeing this great guy a few weeks ago, he's such a sweet and goofy guy, I feel really comfortable with him (not to mention he's smoking hot). Well we were cuddling and mes...

During sex, I either feel nothing or I feel pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and we have had sex over 30 times but during sex i dont feel anything or i feel pain. once we had sex and i was on top and it was okay but i think that was because my clilt was rubbing on his stomach. ...

Tips for the best way to be on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (?) - my boyfriend wants me to be on top when we have sex but i don't know how i go about doing this. do any of you have any tips to help me? ...

Should I have sex with this ex, or will he just dump me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i have recently got back in touch with an ex that i have been split up with for almost two years we had sex once when going out with him. we have been getting closer and closer and he has being staying at my house but the other day we were messing ...

Any advice on sex toys...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - hey guys, i posted a question about learning to 'squirt' for my fella, and a fair few answers came up with try on my own first, which im more than willing to give a go although i can orgasm by myself it takes AGGGGES and i can sometimes get...

I am so afraid of karma, but it just happened. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I have put myself in a veryyy uncomfortable situation. Basically i have this ex with whom i went out with when i was 16 years old, we were in a relationship for a year, i am currently 19, and well ,between us ended for a very stupid reason, these ...