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writes:My cousin went to skool wit this girl that was litterally known as the skools whore. even tho she had never slept wit anybody at that school, e. I had my eyes on her ever since I saw her at the movies one day and I got her number from my cousin just to get laid really quick. I called ehr and told her I loved her and all types of things, and she actually believed me. I met up with her and within 30 minutes she grabbed my hand and jammed it in her pants. I was really shocked because she wasnt drunk or nothing so i didnt excpect her to actually let me do that to her so quick. I had this girl classified as a whore who just liked sex and didnt relaly have feelings like other girls. After four days she came to my house, and we ended up havein sex even though she refused at first, but it looked like she did it just to make me happy. I was shocked but it just got worse we actually ended up talking and cuddling for hours. She told me all the bad things that happened to her like rape, and other thngs ur not supposed to open up to people u just met. And she gave me this look like she actually loved me and believe all my B.S. I felt like a jerk and decided from dat moment on I was going to have a serious relationship with her and deffend her from all the jerks that treated her bad(which is basiclly her whole skool).I asked her how many guys shes had sex with excpecting a huge number and she told me only too, and Like a dumbass I actually believed that, even though it sounded mad fishy. Now we've been going out for about 4 months and everythings going not just good, GREAT. It's probobly the best relationship that I have ever ahd with a girl. I got people around her skool keeping an eye on her and she doesnt let anybody touch her anymore, shes always talking about me its going great. then one day were talking on the phone and it comes out that shes slept with another guy I didnt no about. then its another and another and now its like 5 or 6 instead of 2 but shes almost making it slip out on purpose like as to come clean. Then she admits to have had a foursome with three other guys on one occasion.Ever since then my image of her has been destroyed. I cant look at her the same, all i can imagine is her and three guys taking turns. I feel like fighting the guys for disrespeecting her like dat, 2 of them go to my skool, but i dnt want it to get out that everybody was right about her and him and his to homebois gangbanged my gf. Also I cant seem to trust her anymore even though she has not giving me any real reasons. Every time she doesnt answer her phone for a few hours I think its cuz she with someone else. Its really making us grow farther apart and she seems to not love me as much anymore. It really doesnt help wit people talking trash about her. what do i do, should i get over it or move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): She might have been taking advantage of you?? Using your good nature to help herself?
Personally i do think its hard to deal with if a girl tells you she has slept with 2 people, and then that number changes, HOWEVER, in her case you've mentioned a foursome and rape? These activities could cause her to be embarrassment?
You should try and talk to her about them? Was she drunk? Did she only intend to have sex with 1 guy and then it turned into a foursome and she was too scared to stop?
This help mate? First piece of advice I've given on here!
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reader, Alfredo1400 +, writes (8 June 2009):
Alfredo1400 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason I say she dnt let anybody touch her, is because she always let almost any guy just grab on her and stuff. Also she still lies to me about the number of guys, I really believe theres more because she dosnt even try to hide it because she will tell me of a time that she slept with a guy that she has never mentioned I dnt no whats going through her head. And sometimes she just lies about the most ridiculous little things that make me not want to believe anything she says. At the same time I doubt she would cheat on me cuz it feels like she just acted freaky to get attention because at soon as I got serious with her, she stopped being freaky almost completely. She just does things to make me happy adn says things like ill do anything to make u happy but isnt really into it. I just cant figure her out shes like a closed book and its driving me crazy because she doesnt even tell me how she feels. Sometimes it feels liek im dating a robot cuz she doesnt show me almost any emotion anymore.
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