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Archived questions from: 16 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I help her orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - Hello! this is my first post here, and I'd really appreciate some help. I've had a hard time getting my girlfriend, whom i love very much, to orgasm. we haven't had intercourse (she's very religious and we aren't anywhere near likely to marry ...

Long term or some fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - Just to help, I'm 16 going on 17, still have my v-plates, not a single good relationship because I'm terrible with them, I'm not your typical guy.. Anyway I'm sort of seeing someone who I kind of have feelings for but I just don't see us having a...

Cuts around my clitoris and discharge

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I use the depo injectiong as my form of birth control and usually after having the injection for a few day i got a sort of yeast infection [Thick white discharge around the clitoris but not itching] It usually lasted a few days then left. But ...

He used the pull-out method and I could be pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - well im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we had sex without a condom... he pulled out b4 he came but i found out that i can still get pregnat... im really scared... im confused and i dont know wat to do... i dont want to make my boyfriend ...

Awesome new foreplay tricks without intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - hi , well i know this guy for like 8 months and i like him so much , in the first 4 months we kissed and every thing the problem is that i feel that our relation ship become boring since i dont wanna have sex with him its just that i want to learn ...

What would you label my sexuality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - The last time my boyfriend went down on me in order to cum i had to imagine it was a girl doing it... Ive never been with a girl before but could this mean im bi? I feel bad for my boyfriend... :/...

I am infatuated with a 20-year-old virgin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - this is really weird for me. i am 20 years old; i am the type of girl that has no problem with men whatsoever, i have game, outgoing, flirty, laidback, what most guys want. i met this guy, lets say hes Andy, from my close friend, lets say john. i...

Condom allergies!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - well, me and my boyfriend haven't been going out long, but we've both decided that we want to have sex, but there's one slight problem. My boyfrind is allergic to condoms! what can i do to prevent me from getting pregnant ?! HELP A.S.A.P !! [MO...

I want to put a label on my sexuality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - okay im a 16 year old girl in 10th grade and i know that i like guys but sometimes i get a feeling of attraction to girls and i just dont know if i am bisexual or really what sexuallity i have so i was wondering how you know if you are bisexual ...

I just wanted fun with her, now she loves me...and she has a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - im 24... not sure if im bi. i love men, but occasionally would have "fun" with women. i dont wish to label myself. a year ago i got to know this woman at a birthday bash, let's call her gwen, she's the gf of one of my male friend.. she's n...

I can't climax through oral sex and I don't want her to feel like a failure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - i have this great woman who i have asked to marry me (she said yes). There is just a small problem, she really wants me to climax while she gives me oral sex, I can get right to the edge of no return but cant go over the egde. I have seen a a ...

Why are my periods suddenly different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Just wanting any advice really. I am on Microgynon pill and have been for about 4 years from the age of 17. My periods usually come like clockwork, usually quite heavy and suffer badly from period pains. My last two periods have been ...

Threesome? But it could cause some serious problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this short, but it's really confusing... I dated Amber in college. The sex was great, but we had nothing else in common, so we had a fuckbuddy deal. During that time she started dating my best friend Blaine. Amber and Blaine...

When I have sex with my b/f I often think of other guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - im 24 year old and i m asian. ive dated my bf for 5 years and i was his first but he was not my first. i love him alot. he told me he had cheated on me before and that was a year ago. i forgave him. last weekend i went to vegas with my friends. we ...

Why are the majority of men bad in bed?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - If all men supposedly view porn (which seems to be the consensus on this site) and it is supposed to give you hints and tips to spice up your sex life (isn't this what all guys say), then why is it the majority of men are crap in bed. This was a ...

Was he just looking for a friends with benefits from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - riight this is quite long and weird. i've been texting this guy we'll call him R well i've been texting R for a few daus he recently found me again on facebook i added him a few years ago on myspace. so anyways we got talking we been texting....

I don't want to have sex with alot of people!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a six year relationship, this guy was the first only person ive ever slept with. Im a single mom of two, now and am trying to move on. I am old fashioned, had my ex been a better man I would've been happy having only 1 sex ...

I've realised I married my best friend, not someone I'm attracted to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I'm 26 and just had my one year anniversary. My husband and I have been together for seven years. I've realized I married my bestfriend and not someone I'm attracted to. We have never had a great sex life and now I feel like I'm really losing out on ...

I don't want to fall for temptation, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I broke up with my bf of almost 2 yrs about 6 months ago.I'm a virgin but recently i ve gotten my self involved with very close 2 sex experiences like i went 2 c my ex recently,we kissed,he touched every part of my body,put his penis bw my clitoris ...

Ideas on pleasurable masterbation without a toy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - ive been masturbating for a while. Ive been using my hands... but Ive gotten bored of my hands and my mom found my dildo so I cant have any sex toys a around the house. what else can i use to masturbate and gain pleasure?...

Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...

I've said my ex's names during sex and now my husband doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - my husband and have been married for just over a week. Before we got married i lied about something stupid and ever since we have problems. I never cheated on him nor do i want too. There has been a couple of times that i have said my ex's name ...

Fiance watches porn every day but turns me down for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Ello all. My fiance who I've been with for 5 years and counting has been watching porn EVERY day that I'm not home, which can be 7 days a week. But I'm only gone for about 3-4 hrs at a time. We had this issue before and it seemed to go away but now ...

I'm sleeping with my ex but falling hard for her again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - HI me and my ex GF dated for about a little over a year, it all came crashing down in April when we broke up over her accusing me of being too controlling and me accusing her of not doing enough. well about a month ago we started talking, and we ...

He wants me to squirt but I'm not sure how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - My fella wants to make me squirt, and im really open to the idea. the only thing is, a fair few times ive been really close, (with the sensation of needing to pee) and tensed up because im scared i will. are there any ways to ensure i wont? i...

I have strong discharge and a smell, what could be causing these "down there" issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Hi, erm, well im 17 years old and ive been sexually active for just over 6 months. ive always used a condom, im on the pill and ive only had one sexual partner, who told me i was his only sexual partner too. recently ive started getting a lot of ...

Always left wanting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for seven years and have been together for 13. In the beginning, like all young couples, there was plenty of sex. Even leading up to our marriage we still had what I would call a healthy sex life. However it has ...

Crippling penis insecurity... how can I improve my sex life when I'm working with a thinner dick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - I'm not really sure where to start here, so I guess I'll jump right in. I have always experienced severe, crippling insecurities involving the whole 'size' issue... it has really consumed me as of late. Although my length is slightly above ...