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Archived questions from: 12 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as ...

He covers my mouth and talks about other women during sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Self Centered In Bed My boyfriend of 9 yrs is 16 yrs older than me. Im 25, he is 42. Throughout the 9 years, 90% of what he does in bed is cover my face with a pillow and have sex with my mouth taking about other women. The othe...

Was it rape or sex?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...

Mom's boyfriend came into my room and played with me..how do I tell my mom?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - okay, last night my mom had to work (as usual). her boyfriend just moved in last week, so he is around when she's not. last night before I fell asleep, he came in my room and sat on my bed. he talked to me about boys and how now i was old enough to ...

I don't really understand about sex, and men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ive been having sex with my boyfriend for around 2 months now, and hes my first. He seems experienced but im really not. He's done everything for me, fingering, oral, sex. And ive given him a hand job but cant bring myself to give him a blow job. I ...

Uncomfortable with my fiance's bedroom preferences

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if my fiance has gay or bi tendencies..When we have sex he wants me to perform anal sex on him with what ever is in sight. He really gets into it. This is weird because he sits up on what ever it is that is in his ass.. Like he his ...

Do I give bad blowjobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - i'm not sure if i am good at giving a blowjob. i gave 2 to this one guy, the first time it didn't seem to be going anywhere. and we needed to finish up, and he said he could not come because he had masturbated the night before. he came, but not a ...

Is it reasonable that I'm upset because my husband doesn't know why he's impotent, and the doctor doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - [Mod note: Assume this is a female poster for the purposes of answering.] How common is that ,when a man becomes impotent with their wife, they can't tell why? My husband does not know why, and he went to doctor and the doctor says he has no medic...

How can I convince him to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. As strange as it might sound, I'm having trouble getting my boyfriend to have sex. - We're both 20 years old - We're extremely attracted to each other I think we're both crazy about each other but I have the bigger sex drive, a...

Does the condom fully protect her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - If I cum inside my girlfriend while I'm wearing a condom, does any semen leak into her vagina? Because I'm really just cumming into the condom but I don't know if it like overflowed or something. Thanks....

13 and I think I'm pregnant! Help

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - help me please im 13 and me and boyfriend have had sex lots of times but once we had sex without a condom and he pulled out before he came but i found out that that doesnt work and im really scared im pregnat... please help me... i dont know wat to ...

I don't want to be faking it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity a few weeks ago to my boyfriend, and it was painful and there was blood. We've been continuing to have sex since, I have the conctraceptive implant (Implanon) so we have stopped using condoms in order to feel eachother properly. ...

Infertility by too much stimulation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - hello frndz....actually me n my bf are together 4 a year now...n we are madly in love...so we decided to get married as soon as we finish our higher studies...we both really like kids and planning to have kids after we get married..but few days back ...

How does sex feel with a woman who was penetrated only once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - how does penetration feel during sex with a woman who lost virginity only by fingering, penetrated only once, or who last had sex more 3 years ago?...

Period problems....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi!!! Im having some period problem. I used to have normal period before but it have been few month Im feeling some problem on it, I feel some blood on my penty and it stops for 2 to 3 days and then normal bleeding starts and it last for 4 days. Im ...

Sexless marriage and fantasies about my mother in law!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - My wife and I haven't had sex in almost a year. Any advances towards my wife were usually rejected, but my advances have lessened. Relationship seems fine otherwise. One thing that others have noticed as unusual in a good way is that I am very close ...

I'm not sure what to think, am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 163 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I think I might be pregnant, but I'm not sure. It's still to early to take a pregnancy test. Today is 7/13. The first day of my last period was on 6/22. Which means my ovulation day is somewhere around 7/5-7/6. [not 100% sure; but almost pos...

Is there something wrong with him or is it me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 157 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - so here it goes...ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im very happy to say that we havnt had sex yet, im not ready yet. he has waited a long time too. even though we havnt had sex, we do have our "fun". our fun consists of dry sex kind of ...

Why can't I feel him but I still get off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been sexually active for about 3 years now. When I make love to my fiance sometimes I don't feel it. I always fake it because I don't know what I am supposed to feel but I will finish. I get wet and I finish pretty much every time but it ...

Should I tell this girl about the spots on my penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - hello every1 im 15 years old.n i was wondering if ya can give me an advise plezz its very ergent?? ok..see i have these spots on my penis there called Fordyce spots. i had these sinces i was 11. at 1st i was like wut ever u now. but then n the p...

My fiance wants to watch me with another woman and I'm tempted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ok, my fiance of 2 years been together 4 years and have 2 kids asked if i was intersted in being with another women, he just wanted to watch.. yeah as life gets shorter i start to get curious and now im kinda thinking about it but i really dont know ...

Bf is hinting at sex! I am scared to do this..any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend is 19 and im 16, he keeps hinting about sex, but im too scared, as i am a virgin and im scared it will hurt and also im body consious so that doesnt help either, any suggestions on anything ??...