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Archived questions from: 17 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Ladies, is "friends with benefits" ever NOT an attempt to lure an unattainable guy into an exclusive relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - I've been in a FWB before. I am being offered another one now. Let's get real. Is this ever something girls do and they're NOT just settling for it? Wouldn't they ALWAYS really rather have an exclusive relationship with that guy if he was ...

Sex just DOESN'T happen with us any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - Me and my partner have been together for about 4 years, the last 18 months or so 'sex' does not happen! Well it does but once a month at the most. I dont know why and it could break us. Its as if she just dosnt want it any more. What could be the ...

Is it safe skipping the pill for 7 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Hiya, i'm on the pill at the moment and due on this weekend but i've got a big weekend planned so i don't want to be on. I've heard that you can skip the 7days of taking no pills but instead just start a new pack and start taking them again straight ...

We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or...

I run away from intimacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I’m 24 - feel really silly even writing this but hey if some people can give their view then why not, you don’t know who I am - I haven’t so much as kissed a girl in 4years. I enjoy going out and speaking to new people but as soon as I sense ...

He never wants sex anymore now that I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - ok well.. im 6 months pregnant, been going with my boyfriend for a year and a half and our relationship is great hes really excited about the new arrival, hes loving caring and affectionate towards me, he tells me how much he loves me all the time...

Problems with orgasms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for some time now, and as far as the relationship as a whole goes we are great, he is an amazing man, and after all this time i still stand by that, however, we do have little problems in the bed room..... there ...

I don't want sex anymore with my wife! What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - I wonder,if you guys can help me out here.. I don't feel like having sex anymore with my wife.. I'm 47. Is it ok to not want sex in this age? Does it happen a lot to men? What does my night erection mean. I'm healthy, just not with her? I don't...

Ideas for masterbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - i want to masterbate! but i can only do it when im alone in the house but always doing it with my finger gets boring and i dont and do not plan on getting a vibrator. what r other good ways to masterbate?...

10 years on and after so many time of saying she will give me oral it just doesn't happen!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - I know this has been asked many times. I've been with my wife a little over 10 years, she has never even tryed to give me oral, never touches me. She says she will and wants to but still won't. She knows I like oral etc. I always do for her. What ...

How can I talk sexy back to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy ...

Does he have me wrapped around his little finger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - okay well im 15 years old and just left school after my gcse's which is why im slightly worried about things that could happen over the summer :/ a boy in my year whos 16 has like me for longer than a year now and we were always texting and chat...

Do I need to be worried about my husband visiting our neighbour?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - i've been crying all day. i really don't know what to do. let me explain. my hubbie and i went to a neighbor's party this weekend. there were about a dozen people there including my good friend vicky and her husband carl. it was good at first ...

How can I turn snuggling into something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - I have a friend with benefits and i am wondering how could i turn good snuggling session with her into something more? like while snuggling, try and lead on to other stuff, like sex or something.... we have only hooked up, but we 'kinda joke' around ...

Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy? My husband does not want me in bed. What is wrong? He says, he has no idea what happened. Should I divorce him? He does not want to go to therapy. What else can I try,before divorce?...

His penis stinks!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I just can't take my husband's penis in my mouth as it stinks. He washes it before we begin but it still does. What should he/I do about this?...

Is there a product like lady secret serum to make me tighter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years With a wooden tool due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, what ...

Every time we spend time together we have sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Hi there, i guess my question is simple one.... Sometimes he will just ignore me with out giving an indicataion of What i done wrong. He will break my down so badly, and later on I'll tell him about it, and then he will say i never meant it like ...

Why cant I get over him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - i broke up with him around december and to this day i still think of him all the time. i can't get over him. i cry all the time thinking about what we used to be and what i am now. why cant i get over him. he has a new girlfriend and he's happy. so ...

Sex & older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I am 17 an i am attracted to a 32 year old man with cerebral palsy. And I want to have sexual relations with him when i turn 18. is that bad?...

What do you do to shave yourself down there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - im a 14 year old girl. ive been shaving my vagina for about 2 years now. first i use this trimmer thing thats originally made for the moustache but whatever and then i shave in the shower. the thing is i only shave up to were the lip is about to ...

Is it all about the sex no matter what the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - So, I really should know better but I need impartial advice. I met a 31 year old guy May 30th in a bar, through mutual friends. We chatted and he asked me out on a date, later during that night we kissed and returned to his house for more kissing. ...

Anal sex getting me pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - so here is the thing, i had anal sex with my boyfriend, without a condom, he came, and everything w.e nothing happen. but then like i went to the bathroom to clean myself and instead of wiping normally (like when u go to pee) she wiped from her butt ...

Are we incompatible sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Are we incompatible? My boyfriend and I have different tastes sex wise, he loves the porno raw/release type sex all of the time and whilst I can get into this most of the time I also crave the sensual foreplay/after-play type sex that we had at ...

What can we do to spice things up; and how can I convince my mom to let him stay over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we have not had sex and we aren't going to until we are both ready but i want him to be able to stay over night at my house with my mum being okay with it. How can i convince her to let him stay ...

My husband says if I engage in a threesome just once, he'll stop the flirting and porn...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Please Help if you can! My hubby is overseas til September..since he has been gone he has been signing up on singles sites as single, going to porn sites and even sent a sex letter to a gal that is supposed to be my friend..now, I know he has ...

So confused by ex boyfriend's signals.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - Help! I have an exbf who keeps texting me to have sex. He is seeing someone else for the past month. I think he was cheating on me before. Anyway, he says he and this woman have just been kissing the whole month. It disgusts me that he is with ...