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anonymous
writes:hey im 16 male and i think i got impetigo, some kind of herpes, not a cold sore.i gave my girlfriend oral for the first time about 5 days ago and again last night. ive recently had this little blister pimple thing im not exactly sure when i got it, hasnt been long though, but i dont think its a pimple. it has most of the symptoms of impetigo and my mum rekons it is, she said i have a "school sore" as soon as i came home from a 2 day party today. it was almost as soon as she saw me so im pretty sure shes right.i mentioned the oral thing on here because i think it might be related. would my girlfriend have herpes? im pretty sure she'd tell me and we've only done "things" in the dark so i wouldnt have a clue if she has herpes. shes also reluctant for me to see her "down there" but that might just be an insecurity although i assure her that shes beautiful and i wouldnt leave her even if it was messed up or something. im pretty sure her face is clean, no impetigo but im not sure if i just havent noticed it or thought it was a pimple.i dont know this seems a little suss, could she have given me impetigo when i gave her oral? would she have herpes if she did give me impetigo? also stupidly we were drunk and had unprotected sex so im a little worried, i did the pull out thing which ill never do again because its too risky. i was so paranoid so i pulled out with some time to spare but the precum thing is making me stress out. i was really drunk and didnt really want to but she pretty much did it all herself though i pulled out and just went along with it being stupid.could i have gotten herpes or even gotten her pregnant?i never thought i would do this.shes had sex before me, she was my first and only so far, this info might be important.
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Taking the morning after pill more than twice will NOT 'screw her up' at all. She's paranoid and misinformed and that needs to stop. If you have unprotected sex again, she absolutely needs to take it or else you might have a baby on your hands in 9 months! I doubt either of you want that.
Pap smears are not that bad. Yes, they're unpleasant, but not knowing if she might have an STD is MORE unpleasant than a ten-minute exam at the doctor's office.
You both need to own up to your mistakes and take responsibility for your actions, RIGHT NOW. She has to go to the doctor, and you two HAVE to start using more than one method of birth control. Condoms plus hormones, like the pill, injection, patch, something.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 duude you can't get impetigo down there this isn't from doing oral.calm yourself.it's just an infection in the skinmaybe an open pore you don't know it just happens. i've had impetigo it's just an infection it's like a coldsore but not. just go to the doctors to get the cream and it'll be fine. but use a separate towel because it's HIGHLY contagious and you can spread the infection to your family. Doctor will tell you that also.and if you still are paranoid about if it's from Oral speak to your doctor but it's nothing to do with that. it's just one of these things. just because people get coldsores doesn't mean it's from going down on someone just can be caused by anything.(Mod note: there is no reason to separate each sentence on a new line.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have no idea how i got it, none of my friends have it and im pretty sure i havent put anything really dirty in my mouth, i think anyway. so you cant get impetigo from oral? unless theyre really dirty?.
im kinda freaked out how my gf wasnt at school today or replying to my txts, i think she mightve gone to the doctors, i hope, and she has no reception at her house so im hoping thats what happened. i know not using a condom was stupid, i never thought i would not wear one but i guess my judgement was severely impaired. i never wanted to, i told her no but then just went with it.
im going to get her on the pill but she just doesn't want the pap smear, but it would be worth doing, but i guess i wont have a cotton bud put in my vagina so i can see why she wont. unless she doesnt want the test for another reason. im probably paranoid.
she mightve gotten the impedigo "down there" and im pretty worried about that.
also she considered the morning after pill but shes done it once before and she said if she does it more than twice itll screw her up.
is any of this right/wrong?
thanks
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reader, satindesire +, writes (8 June 2009):
One: You two obviously should not be drinking. Alcohol has led you to be irresponsible and rash about your choices. Do you really want to potentially have to tell your future son or daughter that they were concieved by accident because when you were EXTREMELY young (underage and illegal to drink) you drank too much and had unprotected sex? You both need to stop drinking RIGHT NOW and wait until you're both grown up enough to make mature and rational choices.
Two: We can't tell you if she's pregnant or if either of you has an STD. We can't examine you, take blood tests, or anything like that. This is a website. Please go and see a doctor.
Three: The "withdrawal method" is not safe AT ALL. If you two are going to be having sex, then you MUST use a condom and she needs to get on some form of hormonal birth control RIGHT AWAY. Using at least two reliable methods to protect against STI's and pregnancy is the only way you're going to guard against ruining both of your futures. You both are too young and immature to have kids...you two can barely make good choices, and you're risking having to raise children right now.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (8 June 2009):
 Impetigo is not the same as herpes. Impetigo is an infection by streptococci and staphylococci, which are bacteria, while herpes is an infection by a virus. Impetigo is visually different from herpes. Herpes stays with you forever, while impetigo can be cured. You should see a doctor to determine whether this is really impetigo, and what treatment would work best. Also, whatever the blister is, you might or might not have caught it from your girl, but you could be giving it to her. The doctor is a must.
Having sex without a condom was not the best thing to do. You could indeed make her pregnant and none of you is old enough to become a parent. We don't know if she's pregnant. You will have to wait to know that.
I suggest you take it easy and think more before you act.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): The best thing you can really do is to get it checked out at a Doctors and you can be given the required treatment if you have any of the following suspected.
If your girlfriend has had more than one sexual partner, she should contact them so they can get tested for any infections aswell, and for her to get a pregnancy test to be sure if she's pregnant or not. It's good that you've reassured your girlfriend that you'll be there for her.
For the future, it's important that you take precautions - contraceptions such as condoms and the pill; which are most effective of preventing pregnancy and STIs
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reader, freddo2007 +, writes (8 June 2009):
relax a little i dought shes pregnant and if she is then im sure shell tell you but for now stress less and about the herpes thing well i aint a doctor but if i was you id be down the doctors right away good luck
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reader, ilovecookies  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 If its impetigo, you might of have just caught it because of germs that have got into your skin through a crack. It coud be caused by a bug bite or jst regualr germs. Might have nothing to do with her...and I doubt it has. Im not a doctor so I suggest you go see one, but apprently its really easy to treat.
If its impetigo, then it should be oozing liquid and have a crust soon enough.
Go see a doctor, its really common so dont be emabrassed.
You already said you'll never not use a condom again but just remember to keep this promise :D
Hope it helped a little
Sarah xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (8 June 2009):
yeah it sounds like impetigo
but it's an infection in the skin not related to you giving oral
it can start as a spot and maybe if you popped it got infected.
just go to the doctors and tell them you think you've got impetigo and becareful as impetitgo is HIGHLY contagious.
they'll tell you to use a cotton wool pad run it under warm water dab it and put a cream they'll give you on it.
DON'T SCRATCH IT!!!
it will spread otherwise.
hope this helps :)
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reader, Leah Ellen +, writes (8 June 2009):
 In my opinion and complete honesty i can not help you with the herpes bit as there is not enough background information to go on, for me.
I can though help you with your Paranoid pregnancy problem.
"the pulling out method" can work but is obviously not 10% safe, Before you ejaculate, little bits of specimin can come out before which you can't feel. If you have strong specimin this could impregnate a girl.
There for, in your case your specimin will not have been strong as it sounds as if you had drunk a lot of alcohol over the weekend, this will have weakened your sperm and you were probably unable toimpregnate (get a girl pregnant) even if you wanted to.
Wearing protection can be very important, especially if she has had sex with other people before you, if you are so worried about getting STI's (sexually transmitted infections) then you really should wear protection.
This why you can have your plessure and wake up in the morning not feeling paranoid about wether you have picked up an infection or worse a disease of someone, or wether you got someone pregnant!
My top advise for you would be:
Wear protection!
Hope my advise helped
Good Luck :)
Leah Ellen :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits located half way between my bottom lip and chin btw, really need answers. thanks
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