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Archived questions from: 27 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Did I have a miscarriage or is this a side affect from the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - About 2 months ago i had sex, it was protected and we are sure the condom didnt break. Afterwards my period came slightly late by 5 days. (which is normal after i had sex) and i then went onto the pill during this period. Im on the placebo break, ...

I'm only 14 and he's 19. Should we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...

What does FWB entail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) - Hey Im 16 and the girl i like asked if i wanted to be her friend with benefits what does this entail? I have never had sex before and i know she has had a fair bit....

I'm a lesbian but I'm unsure of how to have sex with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - So, I am a lesbian, and I have kissed girls and made out with them and stuff but, im still unsure about how to have sex with them..My girlfriend really wants to, but i dont know how, so i always make an excuse. with out being to crude, can anyone ...

How would you know if a guy came and could I be pregnant from it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - ok, so i have a question. Don't laugh at me. haha I'm not very experienced so I don't know. Ok, would you know if a guy came? I was giving oral and he was fingering, and I'm pretty sure he didn't cum, but I just want to make sure. I'm kind of ...

Do Jewish men have some sort of weird sexual rituals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - ok I feel completely rediculous asking this question..I am dating a jewish man and is there some kind of funky sex thing before anyhting or I mean I dont think he is orthadox..well he is not so do they have some weird sex ritual or somthing...

Is it safe to have sex on your menstrual cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - is it safe to have sex on 5th day of menstrual cycle...

Going down on my boyfriend makes me gag! Any tips?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Well this is kind of embaressing.. My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms tho...

If I'm pregnant for sure, should I offer the kid to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i didn't get my period this month and i'm starting to really worry because i think i made a huge mistake. i had a threesome with a friend of mine and her boyfriend a while back. when he was inside of me, he used a condom, but he prefers not wear...

Does anyone know of a support group for people like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - When i was 15 i had intercourse with a person i trusted who was 21 i was oblivious to the camera he was filming it with, 2 years later his ex-girlfriend who had a court case against him thats the only reason she showed it to me brought this tape to ...

Why do I never orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we've had sex many many many times. He comes every single time but I've NEVER had an orgasm. Why is this?! Is there something wrong with my vagina? What am I doing wrong? The foreplay is AMAZING ...

Why would a man be prepared to risk his marriage and family for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I’m looking for general views and comments on my situation please. I recently had a one night stand with a married man. He has contacted me again and asked if I would consider a threesome. I assumed that he meant with him and his wife but he said ...

I fancy both men and women and it's distressing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I fancy both men and women (men more at the moment). When I masturbate, it takes me longer to ejaculate when im fantasizing about women than it does men, about 5 minutes. Its really upseting and distressing me, I hate myself so much because of it. ...

I worry about how I taste!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...

I lied and told him that I had an orgasm but I really didn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hi can someone please tell me what i do wrong do i not know what sex like everytime i have had sex with my ex i have not been able to orgasm is it me or is there something im not doing right he always seeems to be able to cum but i have told him i ...

Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...

Caught up in the moment, no protection..forgotten pill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year (he is 17, I'm 16) and we are usually very careful about condoms when we have sex because although I am on the pill I am not the greatest at remembering to take it everyday. But about a week ago we ...

Gf initiated but I feel responsible, Should I wait until she's 18 before doing anything else sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - hey everyone, im in love with the girl of my dreams. its kinda funny cuz we dont do drugs, drink or party and were both virgins. I was at her house today and we did touch but never below the belt, then before i was about to leave she felt below, i ...

Am I naive for believing my ex isn't just after sex? are all guys only after one thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - How do guys think? What am I not getting? I have recently been in contact with a sort-of ex (unofficial relationship) and he wants to meet up to 'discuss things'. My friend, when I told him, was angry at this. According to him, all my ex wants ...

Unprotected sex with two different guys -- could I be pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - three weeks ago i had sex with 2 different guys in 2 days. one of them was my boyfriend, one was a guy i met at a party that i went to with some friend's. usually i don't have sex with my boyfriend unprotected but it was just one time and he told me ...

My porn use and cyber sex obsession ruined my marriage! How do I get my wife back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I have been married 19 years. For 8 yrs I watched porn and engaged in cyber sex, and even Emailed women. This became an obsession. My wife found out about it and I tried to lie my way out of it. I did stop eventually, but she left me anyway. How can ...

Is he in this just for sex? Why would he message another woman? Does he really care? Do I dump him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a pretty big problem right now. My bf and I met through an online dating website. We have been together for about a month and have decided we are exclusive. Anyway I decided to log onto the website we met just to see if he was still using it, ...

Question about "the rod" contraceptive implant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so ive just have the contraceptive implant or "the rod" put in. My question is do you have to wait until after your period before having unprotected sex? or can i just wait for a week? (the time it takes for the implant to kick in) Thanks...

New baby but don't love the father. I still love my ex! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter ...