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His girlfriend, who was his ex at the time, will not let it go! I'm afraid it's going to escalate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - In summer 2008, I met this guy who was a friend of a friend of mine. I didn't know much about him at the time. He really cute, and he showed interested in me, so I was like, hey, why not, right? After a few weeks of knowing him, I was at this party, ...

I think I'm scared of having an orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - My vibrator isn't getting me off... I think it's 'cause I'm too scared of going having an orgasm. I recently got out of a very long term relationship (almost 6 years), and we were each others first and only kiss, sex partners, etc. The sex was never ...

I slept with my best friend! Now what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - my bestfriend is a guy and we have always had a flirty kind of relationship. well one night we got totally shithoused and we ended up having sex, nothing was strange about the whole thing we didnt bring it up at all, all of our friends kept asking ...

He's great but when it comes to sex he isn't the best!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - Hi all. :) I'm new to this site so bear with me... I'm a 21 year old female. I'm currently dating a 34 male. He's a really great lover and turns me on all the time. It's like I can't get enough of him. But... when it comes to having sex and t...

Now that I'm pregnant he wants to have sex all the time and is getting aggressive about it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - alright so im 17 years old and my boyfriend is 28 years old. we have been together for a year and a half. the thing is he used to work at my school as a security guard. he left my school about 6 months ago to move onto another job. we met through ...

Was I used as a one night stand?

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3 June 2009 (? - me and a guy friend of mine was playing around yesterday night and i went down on him... but i haven't heard anything from him since then. was i a one night stand? i feel awful about it he was my 1st and i haven't known him along time or anything ...

If a man ejaculates a lot, does that mean he has not had sex for a while?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - Just wondering if I can get some help on a sex question I have. I have heard that when a man ejaculates a lot that means he has not had sex for a while. Is this true? Thanks for reading....

I went to his house, did not want sex, he insisted, I feel violated, should I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - i kinda have this friends with benefits thing but i hardly see him these days as i wanted more than just sex. Anyway, i went round his the other night and we chilled for a bit but then i decided to go without having sex, for the reason i said ab...

Guys -- how long do you usually last during a bj?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - This is for the guys out there. When getting a blow job about how long does is take for you to ejaculate. I give my boyfriend head but there's no way I'm letting him cum in my mouth so I only do it for a while then carry on with a hand job just in ...

What am I supposed to do when he is playing with me?

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3 June 2009 (F - ok i have been dating this guy for a while now and we are both ready to move to the next level. he wants to finger me and i want him to, but the thing is when he is doing it, what am i supposed to do, do i just sit tere? do i close my eyes? plea...

What can I use similar to a penis to masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (M - i've just begun masturbating.I want to know what can be used as a dildo.something that i can push up my ass, something that feels like a pennis. Please help me....

Female masturbation questions

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3 June 2009 (F - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'd really like to buy a sex toy like a dildo type thing but i'm too scared of how it'll arrive. i've been told like it just comes in a box but i really am too scared to do that and too shy to just go into a shop and ask f...

Her vagina smells! What do I do?

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3 June 2009 (M - Help! I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and we are starting to get sexual. The only problem is her vagina kinda stanks. How do i tell her or what do i do???...

Any tips on masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

3 June 2009 (M - I'm an 18-year-old virgin, and I'm bored w/ masterbating, haha. any fun ways to make it more exciting/better feeling?...

Should I Feel Guilty About Pleasuring Myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - I've just got this little problem, and I don't know why I'm even seeing it as a problem. I'm 18 years old (nearly 19), and I'm still a virgin. I've never done anything sexually active with a boy, but I have done some (no polite way to put this)...

What are these blisters?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

3 June 2009 (? - dear cupid i have a problem about 2 years ago before i started dating my boyfriend i'm with now i found some small painful blisters on my lips of my vagina, i got them checked out at the doctor and they thought that i had herpes but the test results ...

How do I cope with the fact that I was raped by my husband?

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3 June 2009 (F - The thing that I am having the hardest time dealing with is the fact that I was raped... by my husband. Everyone that I know is always saying "how can you be raped by your spouse?" Well, I would like to know if it is ok for me to feel like I am ...

I want to have sex, but I don't want to end up pregnant!

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3 June 2009 (F - i am really in love with my bf, i want to have sex but i dont want to be stuck with a baby or abort it. what should i do?...

Is it weird to call a guy's penis a "penis"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

3 June 2009 (F - this is a really random question and not that big of a deal - i'm just curious... but i read in a girl magazine once that guys don't like for you to call their dick a "penis" when you're screwing around because it's too anatomically correct and ...

Why can I not climax?

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3 June 2009 (? - Last night me and my boyfriend had oral sex, it was my first time but not his. So he started to finger me and all this other stuff to but I couldn't cum. How can I fix this problem? I loved what he done, it felt great but still I couldn't. Even ...

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