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Archived questions from: 21 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Hung up and don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I have a situation with the girl I am in a relationship with. I am 40 and she is 43. Most of the time she is very sweet, has a tone about her that is just so cute to me. But other times she gets in a mood where she just demands that I do things, ...

Is there anything guys really enjoy? I want to please him before I go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey, this isn't a life-threatening problem but I'd still appreciate a little help, guys in particular =p My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and everything has been going absolutely great. I'm doing a language course in France f...

Sexual Frustration!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me cum on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuf...

How do I deal with my sexual urges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I'm a 13-year-old girl, and as I get older, I find myself having sexual urges more and more. I've tried masturbating and I don't really enjoy it. I want to submit to my urges, but, of course, sex isn't even an option because I'm not dating and, more ...

Advice on reacing orgasm during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I would like some advice on how to reach orgasm during sex. I've definitely had orgasms from guys stimulating my clit, however I'm not so sure about actual penetration. I often reach a point during sex where it feels absolutely amazing and I have to ...

Was I sexually abused? And if so is it too late to do something about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - When I was 10 my 15 year old next door neighbour made me touch his penis. To this day (9 years later) I still have no idea whether this counts as sexual abuse. I hated him because he always treated me like a baby (bouncing me on his knee etc.) but ...

Why did my boyfriend pinch my nose and make me puff out my cheeks during oral?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Tried oral on my bf for the first time a couple of nights ago. It was going well, but, I started gagging and stuff. He pinched my nose and told me to puff out my cheeks. It was kind of embarrassing. Here I was, with my cheeks puffed out, almost ...

If he's just trying to get into my pants then can we still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I asked for advice before on Matt now I wanted to ask about the other guy who was mentioned in the Matt post (will call him Jack). Jack is an affectionate guy, likes to hug, dance, snuggle up to girls, really just your typical young guy. To me he ...

Is he taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Okay, well I have been on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about 5 years now. When we first met and started dating things were really good with us, we were almost inseparable. We have very different personalities, but compatible goals and our ...

Sexual frustration!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me come on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuff ...

I don't want to be the subject of my brother's unhealthy fetish!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - This may seem like a weird thing to talk about but i do not understand why my brother is this way. He seems to have an unhealthy obsession or fetish with pregnant women. I few yrs ago i found pictures on his computer of naked pregnant women, and he ...

Am I wrong to leave my husband because I cant live without love and affection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Can you survive in a loveless marriage,just because you have a history together,and raised children together? Am I wrong to wish to leave my security for total insecurity,because I can't live without love and affection? Well,my situation is,tha...

Can symptoms of pregnancy start before you miss a period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Last month i had a pregnancy scare, i honestly told myself i was and got used to the idea that i was. Id taken three tests, all of which were negative and a urine sample at the hospital confirmed i wasnt, the day after the hospital my period ...

How do I get past the expectation of there being something more there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I am gay and this will sound like I am really shallow which I'm not, but anyway here goes... honestly! I have started seeing this guy who is awesome in just about every way but the downside is he has a really small penis. We've only sort of foo...

Why is it yellow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - hai,how r u ? my sperm colour is looking a little yellow shad!(not looking pure white) y its like that and, is it problem for my marriage life?i am bothering about it, please answer me?...

I'm a guy and I can't have an orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I find that i cant come to orgasm or cuming when me and my GF either have oral or when she masturbates me. I just cant do it. Its frustrating, like i can make her come in like 1 min, but me it never happens. Any help?...

What exacly is a fantasy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hello! So, I have been wondering lately: What exactly is a fantasy? Can a fantasy be something that turns you on and you dream or fantasize about but can never actually see yourself doing or participating in? For example, what if a girl has a fan...

Sex while on your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - just a dumb question... Can u have sex while a girl is on her period?...

How can I start to like oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 157 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - My problem is that I would really like to like oral sex, but I don't. As far as performing oral sex goes, I have many, many problems. The first and foremost is that it simply feels awkward and demeaning to me. Sure, I've tried to think of it like...

What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife? Is it something very common,or it isn't? Are most marriages going toward no sexual intimacy? Because its hard to know what goes on, if your life is different from others/ So ,what is REA...

I don't feel happy with him, but I wont feel happy without him...what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Me and boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. He recently asked for a break but i didnt want to. He wanted to hook up with another girl but come back to me. Just the thought of it made me cry and really upset. I was stupid and told him ok ...

He tells me he likes me as a 'friend' and a 'sister' then has sex with me....?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - What does it mean when an ex tells you "I like you as a friend, a sister and the only college friend I still have around" and then has sex with you? I'm not seeing this person any more. he treated me like crap. He offended me in front of his new ...