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Archived questions from: 22 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need a woman who wants me, not one who just needs me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid-forties and am feeling really down. My wife totally went off sex fifteen years ago when our children were born. She likes me to massage her feet or her arms, but that's it. She's quite honest with me about her dislike for sex, and at ...

Sex - disappointed, hurt, jealous...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I'm a female and have a strange issue in my relationship with my boyfriend. It appears that I am extremely jealous of him in the sex department. I'm becoming increasingly jealous and resentful, to the point where I cry about it all of the time. ...

At what point is sex expected?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Lately I have come into contact with many people who believe that sex is expected after the 3rd date. Since, I have asked some of my friends and other people I know and 3 seems to be the magic number. In some cases, people said they would not have ...

Help! What should I do? I really like this girl but don't want be burned again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi all, I would like to get some feedback on this one.. 3 months back I met this girl. We met for drinks and it was all fun.. From the beginning she insisted that we would be casual. For me this was all good. I was badly burned before so being ...

In bed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hi.. I need some advice please.. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 months. We have good time together, trying to get to know each other better. He is a nice guy, sensitive, serious, we have many things in common. In bed i don't know, he ...

Am I sexually needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I'm sexually needy. I feel very upset because my husband has no desire for sex. It is like this at the last 5 years. I don't know why, and I might never know. I was searching for answers, for years, but now I have no more energy to look for answ...

I'm afraid to have sex because I think I'll die! HELP ME!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So just yesterday I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we were about to do the "deed" and I started feeling light headed so I was going to get out, than my vision started going black and I couldn't see, and I felt nauseated, so I sat down in ...

I really love him and want to give myself to him, but I'm worried it's never going to happen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 3 different times but it never seems to happen as we plan, we're both virgins and 18. I've gone on the pill after the first time he couldn't get the condom on, and he didn't want me to risk us getting ...

Sex is not inherently special!! Am I right for telling a few dates this???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - For some reason we have put sex in a category of being something "special" that happens between two people. The insane part of that is you are letting someone else define what's special to you. Will you QUIT doing that please? There are no acts ...

I'm seeing her on the side...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm seeing this girl who has a BF. We've talked many times that she's not leaving him and I'm not in any rush and I'm just having fun. We have had sex about 3 different times and every time is amazing. She is an awesome girl and we click like no one ...

A couple of sex questions, mostly for the guys!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I have a few questions for the guys. I have a boyfriend and we are very much in love and I have some questions about things he does. My first question, while we are kissing he opens his eyes every once in a while? Can anybody let me know if thats a ...

I'm concerned about my girlfriends sexual past, we broke up. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girl because of things she has disclosed to me about her sexual past. I know that may sound immature but it wasnt just the fact that I had thoughts of the guys she told me about her having sex with. The situation ...

I've never had a sex drive, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I became sexually active at 16, I had a long term boyfriend for 4 years until I was 20. Since then I have obviously had boyfriends, but I've NEVER had a sex drive, it's just something I do because I should. I never feel horny, only during foreplay ...

Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first go...

My boyfriend first had sex at 8, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i were having a conversation on our sexual past, what age we lost our virginity at etc. He told me that he started putting his penis in girls as young as 7 or 8 and actually took a girl into his room at 8 and tried full blown sex ...

Was I his rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I contacted my ex boyfriend who recently had a terrible breakup with his girlfriend who he had after me. He broke up with me because of her and they were togetehr for about 7 months. I have always wanted to get back together with him - we were ...

Seems like she wants me around when she wants some!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi im currently at uni and in a long term ish relationship, i have my holidays at the moment and have been spending alot more time with my girlfriend. i see her at least 3 times a week as oppose to every oher weekend when im studying. T...

How do you know the difference between just a booty call vs someone who has feelings for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - hi all, my question is this.... How do you know when someone is coming to you, booty call iv heard it called lol with just getting what they can from you or just scared and have feelings for you and unsure i hope iv worded this right its took me 3 ...

Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite ...

He says if I don't sleep with him, he won't help with our children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - heres the story: about 5 months ago my live-in boyfriend of 5 years left me. He instantly had a gf (which leads me to believe he was seeing her before the break up, altho he denies it) anyway, we keep in touch bc we have to, as we have children ...

What should I tell him to do when he's in the shower?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to text him things to do while hes in the shower to get him hard. i dont know wat to say. does anyone know wat i should tell him to do? he likes them really detailed!...

Handjob question...What do I do when IT happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has agreed to give me a handjob. The only problem is, as everyone knows, guys ejaculate. Do I tell her to stop when that happens cause I feal like its rude making her have to clean up herself. I know its a weird question, but felt like ...

I am really regretting this "open marriage" arrangement!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm not sure how to begin. Several years ago, my wife and I agreed to an open-marriage. I'm not happy with it at all and feel neglected, and to be honest, I feel less of a husband. She knows how I feel and even has tried to stop several times, ...

My ex is pushing me to have sex...What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - so my ex boyfriend who lives down the street seems like he's looking for a more friends with benefits approach with us. and i've never done anything with a guy because i want everything to be special and he tries really hard even when i say no. but ...

Looking For a Premature Ejaculation Cure? Here Are Your Options

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - If you've ever experienced premature ejaculation ("PE"), then you are familiar with the disappointment and embarrassment associated with finishing too quickly. And chances are that if you frequently suffer from premature ejaculation, you are have ...

Why can't I go through with a potentially rewarding one night stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I am a university student recently out of a two year relationship and have since found that after meeting girls on nights out and kissing I am not in the mood for sex when we get to the bedroom and I have to turn them down. I am happy being single ...

Does he have feelings after losing his virginity to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So,this other guy from my group- he's a total computer geek,but him and i are pretty much best friends,and we slept together a few months ago,and basically he lost his virginity to me.. My question is,for all you guys especially,and g...

Sexual Fantasy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So, i've been sorta CASUALLY dating this guy..and the weird thing is..somehow i get turned on and come when i imagine him in bed with another girl from our group. could someone explain why this turns me on? She is no competition at all..but some...

Love him so much but the sex isn't good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Well, I've been a relationship with my boyfriend for about two years. When I first met him I was instantly attracted to him, but the first time we had sex it wasn't good. I asked him if he was a virgin and he said no, so I asked him how many ...