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Archived questions from: 5 June, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Wife very upset that I have lost my sexual desire

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I totally lost my sexual desire,and I don't know why? My wife is very upset about this,and she is not understanding about it. How,is it effecting usually a woman,when their husband losing sexual desire? Is it always that gloomy feeling ,that the...

What next when sex happens too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I had a question about sex happening too soon. I've been friends with this guy for a few months. On my first date with this guy he took me back to his place. I've been resistant with other guys for years about sex. I wanted to be in a nice ...

Sex with my ex but he has a pregnant girlfriend, I feel I'm going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Help me please im really messed up i split with my guy last year but im still in love with him we where only together for 8 months, The thing is he now has a gf and sees pregnent and i wish it was me that was having this baby, and the other day i ac...

How can I not be so excited?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - how can i not be so horny? Okay, so i've always been like this, when a girl tells me she's going for a shower or getting changed im thinking about it, but today i reached a new one. I was sat in class, and this attractive girl asked to go to t...

Do all girls think that masturbating is gross?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Hey, im a male 16 and i had a question to ask, i know all about sex and stuff like that and i do myself masturbate, but when girls i've gotten close to have asked and i've admitted they've said it was gross, and that they would never do something ...

Is it ok to stay in the girl after orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Is it ok and safe to stay inside a girl for a bit after coming? We haven't been having sex very long but I always wear a condom.It says you should pull out staight after having the orgasm but I stay inside a bit longer because I want to pleasure...

Haven't been taking the pill properly...am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - im 17 and on the bc pill but i tend to miss it, but this month i seemed to miss 5 tablets, first i missed the 6th or 7th non sugar tablet on the thursday or friday had sex on sunday night, i missed 1 tablet again the next day (monday) then missed it ...

I don't want him to know I am inexperienced

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm don't know whats wrong with me, I am so uptight when it comes to guys. I have never had a boyfriend but this really good looking guy hit on me and we kissed and it was great, he was very upfront and said that he doesn't want a girlfriend he ...

How do you know if the woman has had an orgasm?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - How do you know if a woman has orgasmed after sex/penetration with a man? Are there any signs to look for? ...

Will my boyfriend notice that I slept with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I have a problem that needs some answers. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we don't have sex all the time because we don't live together. But when we are together we do. But I had sex with someone else and it was really good. I know when ...

Is it ok for me to strip online for other men, if he uses porn... it's the same right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Since it is o.k for a guy to look at porn daily because they are "visual creatures" and need that release. Then isn't it just the same for a girl to go to chat rooms and talk since they are "emotional creatures" and need a release too. The guy on ...

Does this make me gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - i'm a weird? I get turned on by the smell of my own penis, i like to rub my finger over the tip and the sniff it whilst wanking, does this make me gay??? help :(...

Snuggling...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Does anyone have any tips on how to 'snuggle' with a girl? And maybe while 'snuggling' lead onto other stuf? thanks,...

I go to swingers' parties alone and it can mess up my marriage if it's found out!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Although I love my husband dearly and he is the best father to our two children, he doesn't satisfy me sexually. My biggest fantasy was to have sex with many different men. Finally I brought up the idea of bringing in a partner. I even said he ...

How can I have sex with her without her knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - hi am a boy,i want to do sex with my friends sister.She has a boyfriend but she likes me also.She always gives me hugs and kisses but never gives me permision to do sex.She says "DO whatever you want while am sleeping but i should not get any ...

Is it normal to expect satisfaction from married sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I am getting married soon. My fiancee is divorced and I have always been single. She is also almost 2 years older to me. I have very high desire to have sex. She does let me love her not the way I want. My question is : Is it not my right to seek ...

Should I be worried about this vein on my penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I am freaking out! I have made an appointment to see a doctor but couldn't get in until four days time. Hope someone can give me some advice to tide me over until then. Today I noticed that a vein through the head of my penis seems swollen, a...

Does he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - me and this boy have been communicating for like almost two months, but our first hookup was like 3 weeks a go. we usually like text for 2 hours eveyr night, except this week we barely have. whenever we do though, he says real cute things, and ...

Guys, would this scare you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a very large penis and intercourse has always been somewhat painful. A few time's i've even bled or had a vaginal tear. I don't think he's ever noticed how painful it is for me and i've never expressed it to him. today was the firs...

Should I just get it over with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I’m 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss. All my friends tease me about it and I’m just not that type of girl to go on dates and kiss. Plus I want my first kiss to be special and with someone I really like. And I also am a virgin. Sometimes I ...

Our affair has been like a roller coaster...what's his deal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm a married woman and I had sex with a married man. I was looking for no strings attached sex (the "why" is understandable, but not relevant here) on a regular basis. After our first encounter, I didn't hear from him till 2 weeks later when he ...

My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I am 62 years old, my partner is 40. I am tired, she wants to party. I understand that, I was there. WE ARE GAY. My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. I am scared of the future. Help me. ...

Maybe I shouldn't have left like I did...was I wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - So I am 17 and my boyfriend is 19. A couple of nights ago me and my boyfriend slept together for the first time and the next morning I woke up before him and left. It was my first time but it wasn't for him. When I woke up I honestly felt like I h...

I bought a vibrator...should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I love each other very much and have tons of sex, and I enjoy it a lot. He has been trying REALLY hard to get me to orgasm, but I just can't ever seem to get there (haven't ever had one). We've gone to visit our families...