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anonymous
writes:Hey,Right I have a problem.Prom is on thursday! i can't wait. My current boyfriend, of 9 and half months, asked me to go with him, i obviously agreed.So i got my dress shoes ectect..But yesterday [7/6/09] i started my period! Prom is on the 11th of this month! My boyfriend and I had planned on having sex for the first time on prom night, it'll be romantic ectect we even have a hotel room and everything booked. However if i'm on my period i will not want to have sex.Is there any way to shorten or get my period to stop by thursday?I need help fast!Thankyou Anon x
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reader, whoha +, writes (9 June 2009):
planned sex in my experience is deeply unromantic and also places you both under alot of unnecessary presure.The best sort is the sort that happens unexpectedly.
But, having said that there is some essential planning to be considered ie condoms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): periods never come when you want them eh? but they always do when you dont need them. ah stupid maroon liquid mess x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Katy =]
And for the Anon at the top. Don't judge i think it would be romantic, and 'm 16 so it's legal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): We are not americans, I hop brits don't start up the whole lose your virginity on prom night, for one thing the Americans are 18.
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reader, Katy. +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Unless you're on the pill then no they're isn't alot you can do about it that I know of, but if you think about it, you'll have the main part of heavy bleeding hopefully done by then AND there will most probably be bleeding from first time sex anyways.
Tell your boyfriend and decide what you want to do together, use a condom and get a towel down and there's nothing to worry about, there's much worse things to worry about; trust me (:
This is a really annoying situation I know, i was on my period when I first had sex but it really didn't matter, when I think back now I don't even think about that part one bit, just about the actual act itself which I don't regret one bit.
Just because there's abit of blood, it doesn't mean to say it's not going to be romantic, if you really love this guy and he feels the same way, you want this night to be "the night" then don't let abit of mess get in your way, it's all abit clumsy anways so don't panik and just roll with it.
Katy x
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