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anonymous
writes:I find that i cant come to orgasm or cuming when me and my GF either have oral or when she masturbates me. I just cant do it. Its frustrating, like i can make her come in like 1 min, but me it never happens.Any help?
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Maybe your putting too much pressure on it, instead of thinking i need to stay hard i need to cum when shes doing things to you, just enjoy it...
if theres things she can improvce on point them out to her as she is doing it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Well weve tried that before still doesnt seem to help, its like i almost cant keep hard when shes doing her thing. It gets pretty frustrating, when i can go home masturbate to an image of her and ejaculate in 4 minutes flat, but with my GF doing oral and other things just cant seem to keep hard or reach orgasm. Its starting to make her think im not sexualy attracted to her, BUT I AM!
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reader, Emjo +, writes (21 June 2009):
Well firstly do you masturbate personally?
If yes then what feels good when you do it, you need to direct her, point her to what she needs to do to make you happy.
If no then maybe try it yourself and find out or maybe get her to experiment on you, find out what feels good and TELL HER! dont let her move onto doing something that feels less good let her carry on with that,
maybe get her to find something that hits the spot then experiment with speed and pressure?
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