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Why did my boyfriend pinch my nose and make me puff out my cheeks during oral?

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Question - (21 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ollistergirl92 writes:

Tried oral on my bf for the first time a couple of nights ago. It was going well, but, I started gagging and stuff. He pinched my nose and told me to puff out my cheeks. It was kind of embarrassing. Here I was, with my cheeks puffed out, almost throwing up, and with him pinching my nose. The gagging continued, and I had to vomit in the bathroom afterwards. I know I already asked this question, but I guess I didn't specify what I was asking.

Why did he pinch my nose and make me puff out my cheeks? I mean, I guess the pinching of my nose was for the taste, but it was kind of humiliating with the gagging, the pinching and the puffing of the cheeks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

This is almost definitely something your boyfriend has seen in porn and liked the look of but he is definitely being inconsiderate in forcing it upon you in this way. Be confident and ask him politely not to be so aggressive with you. If he wants you to adjust your technique in some way he should be more gentle with his words and the way he touches you. Tell him that you're getting used to it yourself and that it will be better for him if you're allowed to relax, take your time and enjoy it yourself, which is one hundred percent true. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

This sounds like an act of sadism, which in this case indicates his desire to inflict your discomfort and pain for his sexual gratification. You should probably consider a nicer young man for your male companionship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009):

Hate to tell you this, but some guys get off on humiliating a girl that way. He probably saw it in porn somewhere and now wants to do it with you. He of course should have asked your opinion before doing it to you. Seriously, he sounds like a douche.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2009):

Starlights agony auntthe puffing of cheeks suggests he wanted you to catch some air...

have u asked him why he did that to you?

be clear and tell him not to do it again as the first time you felt humilated by it and ended up throwing up.

Good luck

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