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Sex! Where can we go and not get caught?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 11 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I want to have (protected)sex with my bf tomorrow. But we can't go to my or his house.

Any suggestions to where we should go and not get caught?

And if we do get caught by the police and since I am 18 and he is 19 will we get in trouble?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

uuh, i have the SAME probablem.

we use cars.

his car, my car, his parents car (makes thinks kinky) haha

we are lucky, cause both m,y prents work, so at times he comes over and we have like quikies.

bathroom stalls?

in an act of desperation you could ask a freind whos parents are travelling.. personally i find that wierd, but i had some freinds who did that (used some others freind house)

but cars is good. like, go to a corner, or a pubic garage at night, and go to like a corner. but be careful which garage you pick. Ours or the builiding where i live garage ..

i always use a condom though..

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A female reader, colourmekorean United States +, writes (18 April 2009):

for one you have to be 21 to get a hotel room so neither one of yall can go to a hotel room.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

Your both adults, get a hotel room. If you want to make it special, get a nice one, get some room service or go to dinner in the hotel resturant, make an evening out of it so its not just sex in a motel, but something loving and special.

Or, if you can't afford all that, then a motel, but be careful when you choose, because some of them are nasty and lets just say maid service seems to be like once a month or something. Ick.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

pebble agony auntCouldn't you two rent a hotel room for the night?

If you get caught by the police doing it in public then you will be arrested for inecent exposure, probably given a hefty fine, and your parents will be called to pick you up as your under 21.

Use a condomand good luck.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 April 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYou are both apparently of consenting age, depending upon the state, but if your boyfriend cannot afford a moderately priced motel or hotel room, then you may want to reconsider your choice here. It is possible to be arrested for such activities in public locations even inside a vehicle if caught.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (18 April 2009):

Fatherly Advice agony auntOk since you are so adult and are ready for this. Take some of the money you have been saving from your jobs by living at your parents homes and rent a hotel room.

FA

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

No, you're both legal adults, as long as you're not doing it in public. I think cars count as public. We dont know what's around you or where you live, but the woods are great. I have gotten a couple tics that way, but.. totally worth it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

Have you thought about getting a hotel room for like one day? Would be like $30 for a basic room in my area.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

ya just do it anywhere u can be alone evan a car is fine have fun

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (18 April 2009):

Danielepew agony auntI can't help you about a place to go, but this much I can say: I understand you can have sex with your boyfriend as you're both past the age of consent. Check if this is true in the state you live in.

Use a condom.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

you want get in trouble with the police unless you are in public doing it. i did it in the woods a couple of times like down a side road that was really crazy to. but we both had a good time. and it was fun because of the chances we took doing that. good luck

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