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B/f bored with me in bed?

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Question - (1 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Lately I've had this feeling that my boyfriend is bored with me in bed, he only likes to get intimate once a week and it's always on a saturday night, always at the same time and I want it more, even twice a week would be a good start. I'm open to trying new things but I've never really thought about what might be sexy to him. I'm NOT into porn and that's not an option. But he's not into trying it in exotic locations he's pretty bed stricken. If you can help me that would be awesome.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

do you reach your climax during sex. If he sees you having your orgasm during sex, it may turn him on, and he might want to do it more often , so that he can watch you as you clench your vaginal muscles rythmically as you reach your sexual peak.

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A male reader, Tewebag United States +, writes (1 April 2009):

most important rule a couple should know : communication is the most important thing you could possible do. why dont you ask him why its only one a week? tell him how you want it more than that. tell him you are worried that he is getting bored with you. tell him that you would like to try new things with him but arent sure what he would like. tell him you feel unappreciated. tell him you need to be with him more. communicate your feelings and deisres or you will always be like this. i was lucky and leanred that young so most of the time i can fix my own worries/problems and find out what the girl wants me to do to her sexually.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (1 April 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntIt's nice that you take initiative over this. Sexy uniforms sometimes spice up things, or lubrifiant that turns hot and taste like chicken (just an example, there's lots of different taste).

Some man aren't comfortable when it involves tools, such as vibrators and such so that might not be a good idea.

Handcuff are fun... the only limit is the limit of your imagination.

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