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*onitashawty69
writes:Soo i met this guy a few months ago and eventually really started to like him. Then a few nights ago we had sex and then we did again last night but the thing is hes not that big 'down there' and the people i been with before were bigger so when he put it in i didnt even really feel anything so i guess you could say it didnt feel good to me. i really like him but i just wish the sex could be better. do you think its possible i'll eventually get used to his size and feel it more? what do you think i could/should do to make it better? Reply to this Question
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (1 April 2009):
 If you like him enough to stick around with him, then help him out during sex. Sometimes you can find angles or a position that really helps you get going.
Guide his hips to what feels good for you and try to get him to penetrate from different angles that hit your G-spot more. Also, I suggest getting a book on Kama Sutra or just other sex positions that are aimed at "fixing" problems like this.
In the end, just try to be light hearted about it and have fun. Experiment with some toys, and see if that doesn't help. But in the end, if the sex just is not working out for you despite your asolute best efforts, then it might not be fair to either of you to remain in this relationship. But help the poor guy out, I guarantee this has been on his mind much longer than on yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Well there is nothing you can do about his size. I been through being with someone that's small and I was miserable. A good one fits perfectly like my man is big but not to big and we love eachother..keep searching but do it safely
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