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female
age
36-40,
*lly20
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, we have a 3 year old son together and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our second child. Just recently I've noticed he doesn't always cum during sex, we usually have sex about three times a week. A couple of months ago we would have sex every day but I've put on some weight due to my pregnancy and I've been very tired so I have not wanted sex as much. My partner doesn't seem too bothered though, I'm not sure how often he masturbates. When we do have sex I always enjoy it and he does know how to press my buttons. Why doesn't he cum all the time? I can feel when he doesn't cum inside me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Snafu +, writes (5 October 2008):
I agree with qcumber1. I enjoy having sex every day with my girlfriend, but I don't cum every time. There is no way I could do that every day, I would be knackered! Withholding orgasm is a great way for a man to develop stamina and experience many sensual pleasures for both himself and his partner. I understand that if a man does cum too often he is liable to lose interest, and the frequency of sex is likely to diminish anyway.
So, as long as you've made sure that he is happy with not cumming every time, there's not too much to worry about right now.
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