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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I met this guy and I just want to know if I am going into this FWB thing with the right mindset...really, all I want is someone to mess around with and stuff, maybe occassionally cuddle afterwards. I mean, a boyfriend would be nice but at this point in my life I have so much going on and there's just too much in my life for me to have one. So am I headed into this FWB thing with the right intentions or will this spell out disaster in the future? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (5 October 2008):
 I don't know too many guys that want to cuddle with a woman they don't love. Personally, I wouldn't want to cuddle with someone who didn't love me. That is something you do with someone who desires you completely.
Sex is sex. Don't forget though that as a woman you're the one giving up everything in this relationship. This is a great arrangement for a guy. The reason I say you're giving up everything is because guys are usually the ones on the hunt. To find a woman who just wants to hook up makes it easy. I'm not saying you're wrong but just be aware that most guys will do anything for sex and when you're giving it away, don't expect integrity.
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