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writes:I was recently a part of a indirect matchmaking. A great friend of mine introduced me to her friend. It was kind of awkward because there was a lot of pressure from friends for us to be together and to advance faster than both of us were ready. We are both old-school style with big hearts and it really was unnatural for both of us. Even though we clicked it was still weird. Unfortunately during this same time we both had major emmotional traumas. These took a toll on both of us. After about 2 months I have fallen in love with the person she is. It's hard to explain how special this girl is. But she has doubts stemming from past relationships about people, their intentions and if it will last. Everyone puts their best foot forward and then tend to be someone different later. She wants to make sure that the person she thinks I am will not change. After growing closer she decided that she couldn't handle the pressure of everything and wanted to back off and just be friends. Over the past couple days she has made the attempt so I know she isn't planning on ditching me but it's really hard. I have been waiting for a girl like this for a long time and now that I have tasted it I want it so badly. But at the same time I don't want to pressure her nor lose her altogether. I need help for every second I'm awake.... please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, RichardJames +, writes (14 April 2009):
RichardJames is verified as being by the original poster of the question Any help out there?
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