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writes:I was Involved my a wonderful girl for around seven months.when we were first dating she confessed to me that she was still married with her long time boyfriend.It was an agreement between them two so she could get her green card.she told me that from the bottom of her heart she want it to be with me and had nothing to do with him except stuff concerned with the agreement.on our seven month anniversary right after Valentines, she broke up with me.She said she couldn't be with someone in a relationship because she was afraid INS was checking on her to process her status and she didnt want to get caught by them with another man.she said she still loves me, that I am the best guy She has ever been with,but aside from her INS issues she said she is not ready to be in a serious relationship,because she feels that she doesnt know what she wants to do with her life,that she wants to be friends and that who knows if i am still available in the future that she will look for me.that funny thing is that even though she broke up with me a common friend tells me that she loves but she is confused about life.I am deeply confused and in pain. I really love her what should i do?
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (14 July 2009):
I would move on. She has admitted that it is more than just her green card.People who are confused about life and what they want can be quite harmful as they don't know themselves. She has told you this and to only hear that she loves you and play down the other stuff will only leave you with a broken heart.
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