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26-29,
*andy_Cake_Mush
writes:There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and i have long bleach blonde and black hair, a monroe piercing, and wear tight shirts, leggings, tutus and everyone says we look perfect for each other.But hes a huge player.Heres the trouble though, he goes for the popular girls who he has next to nothing in common with. im not trying to hate on them, they're nice people and everything, its just....ah i don't know.He acts very confident and talkative with them.But with me, he seems more serious and stares a lot and seems nervous.Please tell me what you think of this. i'm at a loss. i don't know if i even stand a chance with him or what to do when i'm around him.Thank you ever so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): I started dating my fiance in 9th grade and before we were together I would call him a player. He was dating one of the cheerleaders on my squad and I would hear her talking about the sex they would have every day and so I thought they were serious, and then right after practice one day we go out and he was in the commons making out with a different girl. So they broke up, he was then messing around with every girl he thought was pretty, and settled on me! I was very happy because he was super hot, but I didn't know what too expect from him, but ever sense then we have been great! So it is possible for some of these players to be happy with the right girl, and if you two are so similar then maybe it will be you to change him.
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reader, lovehate  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 honestly these are harsh words you about to recieve and i know you will be disappointed to hear them - i was and still am disappointed every time i fall for a player
...you need to forget about him seriously. The deeper you get the more hurt you get and believe me i've learnt from plenty of experience.
Yes the players are usually the cool, funny, confident ones which a lot of girls go for a lot but they are not worth it, it is just asking to get hurt! You deserve better than to be another 'conquest' to boast about to his mates.
I'm 16 and a lot of guys in their teens become players to boost their ego or to merely experiment - just try and stay away! i know it is VERY hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): You know a player is very hard to trust. Don't worry about what people say, how you two would look like a cute couple. Keep in mind that he can say things to you when he doesn't mean it, so there is a potential for you to get hurt. I would really hold off on this guy because words mean nothing unless they match up with their actions. You might like him, but is it worth it to get hurt when he may not like you sincerely? It is up to you, but you have to be careful with him as he can be playing games with you. There are better guys out there, and you are young still.
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