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Love at first sight and coincidence

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Question - (13 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *e' writes:

What do you think about love at first sight and coincidences?

How i met my bf was we were both coming from school, i was coming from high school night school and he was coming from college night school, we were at the same station and got on the same elevator, he was the one that held the elevator door for me.

We starting conversation after i caught him staring at me. We found out that we were getting on the same train, getting off at the same destination station and getting on the same number bus to go home.He lived about 3-5 minutes from where i live!

He has told me it really was something to him but i didn't really see it like that.I just thought its a coincidence. But i don't know now because now that i think about it..and he even admits that it was love at first sight for him that's why he kept staring at me (and i was getting tired of him staring at me lol) (now i look back its kinda cute lol).

He says it was something about me. I know love at first sight is possible but its very rare and i never had someone had it for me along with the way we met at the same time..what do you think of all this please??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009):

I think its possible but both people has to feel the same way so ask yourself do u feel the same way about him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009):

YES! Sorry.. i'm excited.. My husband said the same thing.. the first time he saw me there was just something about me.. and the night i met him i felt the same thing. I knew all his friends for years but somehow never met him until 2 weeks after i broke up with my bf of over 3 years.

If i had met him while i was with my bf, then nothing would've come, but i met him right in between our break up and his going away from army basic and infantry training. I knew there was something about him so i waited and i wrote him a letter every day to get to know him. Because he had met me, he didn't volunteer for immediate deployment or to go off to other trainging. He came back and 5 months later we were married.

Now he's deployed.. and he only lived a few miles away from me. Believe it girl.. its out there and it's unbelievable. It's the most amazing feeling i've ever felt.. it's true love.. It's going out of your way to make him happy but not telling him you went out of your way.. it's not even looking at yourself in the picture and commenting on how bad you look because you're too busy looking at him..

It's not being angry at him for more than thirty minutes because you just can't because no matter what you're arguing over, his happiness is way more important.. and he's way too cute.

He's not crazy.. oh and by the way, i believe in fate.. not coincidence.

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