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30-35,
*yekim1
writes:I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him since right before the break up and I've been hanging out with her ever since the Monday before the break up (break up was on Thursday). The day after (Friday) I think is when I realized it. So here are my questions:Should I tell her how I feel?How should I go about telling her?How should I tell him about this and when?Since I've been hanging out with her, I've been texting and calling her, but how do I know how much of that is too much?How long should I wait before telling her, since she is pretty hurt at this point?
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reader, syekim1 +, writes (14 April 2009):
syekim1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMiami ad-vice. I appreciate your help. that really does sound like something I could do. however, I just fear that if I wait, she might take a liking in another guy. gf or not, she is really special to me, and by her getting with someone else will really drive me crazy.
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reader, Miami Ad-Vice  +, writes (14 April 2009):
I think you should wait a while before telling her, if she knows you like her, she could use you as a rebound guy and use you to make her ex boyfriend jealous. Wait until you know she is 100% over him and then tell him you really like her, ask him how he feels about you liking her and then tell her how you feel.
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