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Torn between two great guys

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Question - (13 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im really into two different guys and i dont know which one to go with. They are in the same band and they are both very talented, extremely nice and supportive, and cute. Which one should i choose????

Guy 1

six years older than me

mature

sweet and supportive

cute

one of my best friends likes him

best friends with guy 2

amazing kisser

a little intimidating

has a girlfriend (about to break up with her)

dont know if my parents would approve

thinks i am slowly breaking things off with guy 2

really fun guy

ambitious

knows what he wants and has a steady job

Guy 2

younger than me

immature

REALLY likes me (maybe a little too much)

would do anything in the world for me

lead singer in guy 2's band

good kisser

cute

brother of one of my best friends (she is not thrilled bout us being together)

likes me more than i like him

really sweet and a great guy

Christian (we share a common faith)

really good singer

go to school together

doesnt know im talking to guy 1

a bit needy

i feel very comfortable around him

Please help me out!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

hello, well firstly, your bestfriend likes him, would it come in between u 2 and would you be willing to take the risk? he's 6 years older than you, are u sure that he is genuine or is he looking for a bit of fun? Have you even told any of these boys that you like them? Cause you have got to be careful if there bestfriends. I am seeing a boy who's the brother of my best friend and it just doesnt work out if you are planning to have a relationship together. Well maybe thats just in my case, but my friend was not happy one bit and i always ended up in arguments over it with her. Me and her brother dont go out cause it is 2 complicated and i care too much 4 my friend to choose her brother over her.But it might be different in your case. And plus her brother would do anything in the world for me and my mum loves him 2 pieces lol but what i want is someone whos fun and has some mystery to them, but them boys are usually the bad ones lol. You should really consider your options before making any sudden deisions otherwise you might ruin everything and up getting hurt. Get back to me if you need anymore help!!!

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