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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He will not commit but have I put up with this for too long? Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for years I have met his mom and sisters they all know about me. He practically shares everything with me even personal stuff like his habits bank details etc. I literally am his first point of call whenever...

I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

He wouldn't commit so I ended it and bought a house. Now we might be getting back together...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, and for the last year I have been unhappy with the progress we've been making. He asked me to move into his home a while back but point blank refused to commit to/discuss any more of a future than ...

I verbally abuse my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I verbally abuse my boyfriend and I am aware that it is wrong. However, I do it so he can pay attention to me. This time I did it while visiting his job. He ask me for a hug and I told him that I did not want to hug him. Then, I proceeded to tell ...

Loves me, loves me not. Then wants to see me again. Am I expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm not sure about what should I do now. I've been with my bf for 5 years and he's going to marry me next year. We used to be so connected and compatible. Our relationship was great. He made surprises and seriously trying hard to make me happy. ...

What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had a...

I feel I can't do any better than him and will never settle down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3405 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Plz help, I'm so down, and before I go any further information do have a two year old and know I'm lucky to have her.anyway... Everywhere I go my closest friends all seen to b having babies or getting married or even just very happy with the part...

I broke up with boyfriend because if his behavior but now he is changing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I broke up with my bf a few days back because I felt our personalities were not compatible. Time and again we argue over his flirtations with other girls and him constantly texting them (everyday) and them sending him their selfies. I have mentioned ...

Why can't I just end all ties with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3406 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I am still in love with my daughter's father even though went up and down in are relationship We broke up many times because of pass issues such as cheating it was on both of us but we always wind us be back together.Everybody has flaws ...

Why does he keep me on Facebook if he doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1707 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Hi. After having a brief fling with a guy who I met, I called it off as he was losing interest in me and he has moved onto someone else now instead. The thing is - even though we don't have contact like we used to - we are still friends on Facebook...

Moving on from FWB -- do you think he'll understand?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - I sent a goodbye email to a guy in my life that is not healthy for me. We have known each other for 4 years but never had relationship. We only had physical only FWB. I caught feelings he didn't so we decided not to be physical or talk anymore. ...

I can't understand myself

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - So I meet men , we break up and later I find out they met someone else in less than a month. They block me from their lives or harrass me by using the other woman or completely disappears out my life. I am getting so sick and tired of this. I feel ...

I'm devasted after my soul mate dumped me 2 months ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - I am so screwed up. My lovely bloke broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together 3 years and he was my soulmate.unfortunately we had 2 years of abuse from my ex. He stood by me but over last,12 months I saw his personality change and I think he ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I will have nobody!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - My girlfriend complained to me tonight about me not having any friends..we both know it's true, but it stung because we always kept it beneath the surface. I'm an awkward guy and I lack the effort of connecting with people, especially in college ...

Should I tell my ex GF's dad she turned down my proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - Hey guys, my gf and i broke up recently. Her parents are great and i really like them. Just before we broke up i sent Christmas cards for the two of them. ( they are separated) well her dad sent me a Christmas card back and he was asking me if i was ...

She left me at Christmas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been off and on the past year. Everything seemed alright she had been staying at my house for the past week. She got a DUI and has been worried, Christmas time makes her depressed. Any way I woke up at 5 am and she was ...

Her words have me confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - When my ex broke up with me I told her how I wanted to marry her and that I was secretly saving money on the side to buy an engagement ring. She told me “Don’t buy her a ring because she wants a ring, buy her a ring because I want to buy her a ring” ...

My boyfriend broke up with me Christmas night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi there... My boyfriend and I just broke up.. Literally on Christmas Day. And my story is gonna be quite lengthy but I really need some opinion of what you may think of it. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year.. And throu...

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

How can I convince her to wait until I'm ready for marriage and children?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

23 December 2014 (M) - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm looking for some impartial advice and my girlfriend uses this site a lot so thought I'd give it a try. We have been together for 5 years, I am 27 and she is 29, and recently she has been putting a lot of pressure on me t...

Why did he change so quickly? Now he has said we can still talk and we can be friends, but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I really need some advice? ok so I met this guy about 9 months ago, we started texting and then went out for some drinks where I ended up spending the night at his house. Nothing happened because I was a virgin (I know strange as I am 22) anyw...

How do I get over being wrongly accused of cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Greetings fellow souls, Recently, I was broken up with by my boyfriend of around 9 months because he thought I cheated on him. The only problem is that I didn't, nothing. No flirting with intention, kissing, touching, etc. nothing. Just so...

We are working on things but the spark has gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through a bit of a rough patch. Arguing and falling out over petty things. We are okay and have decided to work things out and put everything behind us. However, now it seems the spark is gone and I don't know whether ...

We've got back together but the breakup has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I recently got back together with my then ex-boyfriend. We dated for 3 years before he decided to call it quits saying that he had fallen out of love with me.It was a real nasty break up and he was horrible and nasty to me I hardly recognized him. I ...

13 months since we broke up and I still want him back. What are the chances that we could resume our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - My ex and I split up last year after a five year relationship. Like every relationship it had its ups and downs, but far more ups than downs. We had just moved into a house I had bought. When he asked to split up it broke me to pieces but I had ...

He kicked me out because I cheated. Will he take me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my my boyfriend for a little over two years. This week I had went behind his back and hung out with my ex, my ex would call me beautiful and do little gestures like put his hand on my leg while driving grab my butt randomly and open ...

Does this mean that he stills care about me? Is he angry still?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - About a month ago I found out that my ex got engaged. I was devastated, cry the whole night, and was depressed. I wanted to contacted him but I decided not to let my emotions drive me to insanity. He cheated on me so I broke up our engagement and ...

FWB advice needed. Is she wanting more but isn't being clear, or am I being used and should I should end it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, So I've got a question regarding my "fwb". I can't tell what she wants and wondering if I should end it before I develop deeper feelings for her. First background so you can get an idea of where I'm coming from: We call it a...

Love, or my dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - So i am in serious help and i need some opinions on what to do. Ive been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now! It started off perfect and i was happier than ever! I live in Texas and he is living in Oklahoma. We are actually 15 years ...

Did he ever love me? Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - Hi I met a.man last year and couldn't believe it when he showed interest. Only thing is he loves to drink and always be out, it's not always possible having children and working full time and when he asked he would give.me a ten second window a...

Boyriend locked me out all night -- am I in the wrong or is he?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - Sorry it's really long.The other day I was at my boyfriends place and he was being really grumpy and unreasonable with me but I held my tongue as I didn't want a big row,however just as I left his house to go home he said something really nasty to ...

Three months after we broke up he unblocked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - My ex unblocked me from IG 3 months later and liked several of my pics at 5am so I will know I'm unblocked. It was a really bad break up so not sure what he's doing. Why after all this time? He could've just unblocked me if he thought it was petty ...

She said she will always chose her kids father over me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for about ten years in total, I've known her family longer than that. Four months ago we got back in contact for the first time in eight years and things went from friendship to more quite quickly because of the history we ...

If he wants to break up I accept, and if he just wants to be friends that's okay, but I really want to get back together with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - So I had this thing with this guy, I'm not really sure what to call it. The first day we met, we hit it off immediately and we were holding hands by the end of the night. He got my number and texted me and we hung out the next day with a group of ...

I am back with my ex, now how to let the other guy down gently!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - how can i let a guy down ,id split up with my boyfriend about 2 week ago i went out on a night out with friends to a different town and met a man it was nice having attention and a cheeky snog but i feel thats all it would be hes not boyfriend ...

We bought a home together. Now she's taken up with a new guy and kicked me out of our home. How can I convince her that I'm not the ''controlling'' one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

10 December 2014 (M) - I have lived with this girl for 3 years. She recently started talking to some other guy and left me. The problem is im pretty sure she is being manipulated. This guy kicked me out of the house we bought together and controlls who she talks to. Ever...

Feeling guilty, ashamed and lost. What can I do about my obsession with this 30 year old woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3424 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Here it goes.. I'm a 20 year old girl, I have a 21 year old boyfriend and the woman in question is 30 years old. I met this woman on holiday, we got drunk together, I'd say a little bit flirty but nothing major. She was at a party the other week and ...

I feel like I'm blamed for our break up. How can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3424 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - My Fiance and I have been together for about 5 years. We both hurt each other Bad which lead to us breaking Up for about a year well we decided to work it out but now it just feels like theres a void between us i take part blame but it seems. Lik...

I feel lonely, tired and depressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in long term relationship (3 yrs) and broke up about a week ago, i still think we broke up. Long story short, he became verbally emotionally abusive for past 1 yr, ignoring me for weeks, not spending any time with me, calli...

I've gone a week and a half no contact, how long should I wait before contacting her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

9 December 2014 (M) - Hi there, I began dating a friend of mine who is 40 years old and her and I were together for 11 months. It seemed like things were serious as she moved to a townhouse closer to me so that we could see each other during the week. During the time we ...

I love him but am terrified that marriage with him might not work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend dearly. We've been dating 1.5 years. But, we have totally different personalities. I am very friendly, outgoing, love to get out and do stuff. I run and hike several times a week. I am very affectionate with him. Sometimes I...

He's missed his chance, but I'd like to let him down gently, how do I word it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - theres a guy i went on a date with hes very shy and so am i, he said he is thinking about us starting a relationship but hes taking too long (2 month) and ive now met someone else who knows what he wants how do i break it to the other guy hes ...

I feel like my romantic life is constantly on a fast track to destruction.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I want to start off by saying I have serious issues with self worth. Some was instigated by my family situation growing up and has been perpetuated by guys that I date. I realize that I am typically attracted to a certain kind of guy who i know is ...

Broke up yet.... Is sending him the Christmas gift a good idea, considering that we haven't spoken since the fight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I bought this guy that i was seeing a Christmas gift a few weeks before we got into a huge fight. Things were left badly where he blamed me for things that weren't my fault, and still blames me for something that i did almost a year ago. (i wrote...

Did I over-react or does work consume me? how can I apologize to him if he will not answer my calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I over reacted and broke up with my boyfriend of two years because we were not spending a lot of time together. Now, I realize that I have been working longer hours and spending time with my family for holiday limited our time. I want to apol...

I'm 31 weeks pregnant I love him with all my heart. But now he's not interested. Can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Hi, Sorry in advance for the essay but I really need to know how to cope with my situations. My ex and I met online nearly 2 years ago, neither of us wanted a serious relationship but we ended up falling in love anyway, we got engaged and he mo...

Why do men treat good women bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - So I'm going to give some background before I ask my question. I have been dating this guy for a year now and he has told me that he has gotten cheated on mutiple times before and used by females because of his generosity and kindness to buy females ...

I took my begging ex back but I don't feel good about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - Hello! :) I'm a 19-year-old girl who has a 31-year-old boyfriend. We're from very different cultures and things have been bumpy recently for us. We've only been together for six months, but somehow I feel unhappy when I'm with him. I'm a helpl...

Is it ok to change my mind about staying with my boyfriend who cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I can't get over the fact my boyfriend cheated on me , pure and simple. But I'm so worried about how people will view me leaving him when I took him back only a few months ago. So basically, my boyfriend slept with some random girl over the su...