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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why am I always being dumped?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Why are the girls in my relationships the ones who finish it? And why so early in to it?...

I really thought there was chemistry between us. Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 216 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - So I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and I were together for what would have been two years next month. We broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until February when I cut off all contact. He broke up with ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, ...

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by ...

We're broken up but I still can't stop thinking of her..wondering what she's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My ex and I dated for a year and four months and during that time (and a few years before that even), she's been obsessed with British guys. She talked about one day marrying one but I didn't think she would actually leave me for one! We'll just ...

We broke up because he is playing around!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We broke up because he is playing around!! He told me he loved me and would never break up with me and leave me and he'll never love any another girl. I loved him so much but lately we've been fighting so much because he's lying to other girls and ...

How are you supposed to know who you can trust???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in ...

Why do I care that my ex has someone else when he was so horrible to me when we were together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a simple problem, one that I pretty much buried myself in and that even typing seems child-ish, but I can't help the way that I feel. I dated a boy for almost 2 years before we broke up because he had gotten out of hand (ie. yelling at ...

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...

I can't believe he broke up with me because he was overworked. Is this something guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I got into a relationship (my first) last year and really clicked with the guy. I thought it was going great. Problem is he was a postgrad student with lots of work to do. We broke up after 5 months because he just couldn't physically handle a ...

He left me and I'm heartbroken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - He left me, and I'm heartbroken. Here's the deal, sometimes we'd had our arguments, sometimes we've broken up before, but we obviously got back together. Well now,yesterday I found out about his ogling habit with his friends at uni. I guess it's ok ...

Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 223 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I would really appreciate a guy's perspective here. So im in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and i were together for what would have been two years next month. we broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until ...

Have I made a mistake in the way I treated her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I was wondering if someone can help me with a difficult situation that I have. I have recently broken up with a great girl, however I decided to end is with her, at which point she was really upset and very pleading to get back with me. There is ...

Boyfriend became horrible after our breakup!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Have you ever broken up with someone and had them turn really nasty??? I recently ended it with my bf of 5 years, telling him that I just don't feel the same way I once did. I care deeply for him and do love him, but not in that way anymore. It ...

How the heck has society become so shallow!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - How the heck has society become so shallow!! What right does society have to make us so insecure about ourselves when on an individual basis we don't care about the appearance or ideals of others. I wouldn't judge anyone at all and think everyone is ...

My girlfriend and I don't know how to resolve this difficult situation

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I just had a very interesting conversation with my gf. Lately I've been bothered by a lot of stuff in our relationship. Let me preface this by saying that I love her very much and vice versa. I grew up in a nice little white bread town where ...

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me ...

Basically I want to be single, I'm only 15

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My gf and i have been together now for a 1 year and 5 months. I love her but recently i have started to get bored and love her less. Basically i want to be single,im only 15 so i dont want to be with one girl practically all my teenage life. My q...

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couc...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...

My husband chose his family over his affair. But now we are "lost"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband had an affair, he broke up with her and chose to keep his family, but I feel he is a different person now, he is a broken hearted, he is absent minded when we are together. it seems he loved her, I am lost! help!...

How do I chose between the two women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - so I've been dating this girl, "K" for about 7 months now. i do love her, my first love. and she's in love with me. but I've lost interest since she never wants to come see me. it's been 6 months. (she lives in Brighton) it's heart breaking, and i ...

Can someone help me stay strong and keep my word...to leave this guy alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey aunts i finally did it...i broke it off with the committed guy...it's been two days and i almost fell in today but by the grace of God ive stayed strong and haven't contacted him... this is how i did it: i called him with the thought of us me...

I'm heartbroken. Now he says I'm a fake and that I'm just wasting his time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - im 17 and im talking to this one boy that im truely in love with and last night we got into it because he strongly believes that i dont love him and my feelings that i tell him, that i have for him aren't real. all because he ask me if i want...

I love horses but have never learned to ride one!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I people connect emotionally with their animals (like family members), so I imagine it's relevant. Not a romantic relationship question, I know, but it really means a lot to me. What do you do...

Why can't he just be a man and face me rather than treating me horribly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suddenly started treating me horribly. I feel like jumping in front of a bus just to see if he'll show up at the hospital. Why can't I just break up with him? That would be the logical thing to do. I feel like he's mentally terrorizing ...

How to get rid of a girl???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot.... how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if t...

Tell me how to give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - im so in love with him, he doesnt have time and keeps on telling me he loves me.sometimes i think i am putting more effort and giving him a lot of pressure. i want to give him space, which is a bit harder, tell me how to give him space? n how do i...

Should I continue liking her, or will I just get more hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Basically, there's this girl called Js, I've really liked her for about 3 and a half years now, we've been with each other on and off due to various petty reasons. More recently I realised how much she does mean to me, I need not explain myself, as ...

I need to place a divide between sex and the emotions behind it to look at things differently.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm not nearly as sexually experienced as I would like to be. When I think about any of my high school experiences with girls it's mostly all either bad or non-existent. Since high school I've had some minor success with women. I'm currently ...

My ex g/f's behavior was horrible! Did I handle things correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I finally ended my year and a half relationship with my gf. I have done the best I can. I brought her along with me on Saturday night with my friends to a local festival. I knew this would be the make or break. I warned her about her behavior from ...

I love him but he can't keep a job..and I don't want things to continue this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - 3 1/2 years ago I felt that I had found the love of my life. When I met him he didn't have a job with predictable income, so when he wanted to move in with me I told him he must find another job. He found a sales job, hated it, and cried and begged ...

Husband shut down emotionally and broke things off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi i would really appreciate any advice on what to do when your husband has shut down emotionally and broken up with you suddenly.i really want to work things out but im too scared to try,i dont know what to do anymore. before when he broke up with ...

How do I stop comparing myself to the new guy? How to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - We were together for 2 years and it was the most important relationship I have ever had because we started as friends first.(we also did and do work together), we both had issues, tried to work through them and ultimately it ended up that it "just ...

I am afraid he will be gone by the time I get home today.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Can some please give me some advice. I am living with my partner and we broke up on Saturday after a lot of fighting over stupid things. I am devastated and I don;t know what to do. We live together but I own the house. He is still there living o...

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am...

How would I win his trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey there , to day am kind of happy because we finally had a heart to heart talk with my ex........... recently i was worried about his decision of breaking up with me but now he spells it out for me last night.. apparently he broke up with me ...

I don't think it is worth keeping this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - i am 21 and my girlfriend is 17...we are in the relationship since a year now ...she has been very responsible and extremely caring and so am i ..but there is a lost spark in the relationship and i am not that crazy for her and have liked her only ...

Is it over for good or just a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last ...

He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he ...

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he ...

I don't know if I can trust him again, even though I love him as a brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating...

Any connection we used to have seems to be gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time lef...

HE acted as if I was invisible.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hoping people can help here and will appreciate any feedback. I was at a party last night and my ex, who I have not seen in six months was there. things and When I walked in the door and said hi, he just looked away. He went out of his way to get ...

I know deep down he has returned to her. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I know deep down he has returned to her - but what do I do? I have been seeing a guy who I am deeply in love with. He knows I would do anything for him - but I also know that he still sees his ex and would probably like to get back with her ultimate...

I like her but I don't want to go out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her and every time i see her or even talk to her over the internet i get butterflies. i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she ...

Should I move on or wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (S) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day S and me hanged out pret...

The girl I dated recently is with somebody new. I feel upset for some reason. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out that the girl I dated recently has started seeing somebody else. I only dated her for a few months and we split up about three months ago, but for some reason, I feel like this has upset me a little. That seems unusual give...