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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I just ask him to leave my house and be civil for our son or should I try work on things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I'm mortified my partner has gone away for a weekend with a mate we have chatted every day like normal and made plans to go on a mini break together Except tonight he sent me a message asking me if we are meant to be together I asked him why he...

Is it hopeless or could he ever truly love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I am absolutely heartbroken because I've found the person who I know is meant for me, and I know in my heart that I love him more than I'll ever love anyone. He's divorced (I know this for a fact) and has a little boy with his ex wife. I underst...

Any advice on how to handle seeing my player hookup on this very small campus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hey all, It's almost since a year since my ex-fiance broke up with me. I have only dated one guy since then and decided to stop it before it went too far because I couldn't get over my ex. I am a senior in college and have liked this guy ...

Can I get my girlfriend back even though she doesn't want anything to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Has anyone ever wanted their girlfriend back when she didn't want anything to do with you and got her back? If so, how, because I really love my ex and she doesn't seem to like me at all for no reason and I would do pretty much anything to get her ...

What are the chances he'll come back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked t...

I've broken up with my boyfriend but I'm feeling uncertain because I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I've broken up with my boyfriend and I'm feeling uncertain because I miss him. There were so many things we had in common, so on many levels we 'got' each other. Mainly surrounding our love of nature. However, I felt he was controlling and mani...

Can you die of heartbreak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Hey I need help me and my girl broke up were together like a year...we were in love love or so I thought:( she seems fine though and I'm heartbroken:'( like for real guys I know everyone's been hurt including me but I've been depressed since the ...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid I'm holding onto him for the wrong reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Hey everyone, I've been pretty sad today and would like to try and get some opinions and advice. This is going to be quite long and I'm sorry, I just want to explain this as well as possible so please read it all. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 23 and ...

I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we ...

Want to break up with controlling boyfriend but I lost my friends, my support since he told me "you only need me."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey everyone im 18yrs old and i been dating my boyfriend for 3yrs. Its been an off and on relationship for years. At first he was everything i always wanted gave me all his love and affection. We use to have a billion and one things to talk about ...

Did she steal my boyfriend and what should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were together for just over a year. He was my first love, I lost my virginity to him etc. He meant everything to me and was my best friend for a long time. 6 weeks ago he started talking to this girl who was interested in a ...

Ex girlfriend wants to be friends, but I'm not over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Dated exGF for about a year and a half. For a part of it we were off/on but the "off's" didn't last longer than a day or two. Anyhow, she broke off everything almost 3 months ago, but has continued to contact me, saying she still loves me but "can't ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

My guy won't commit, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I met a guy online and we've been dating for 3 months. I have even met his son and hung out with them both on several occassions. About a month ago he asked me if I was happy with the way things are going. I said yes and he told me the reason he ...

An unexpected gift from my ex: keep it or return it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma. I went through a messy break up with my ex. However I received a gift from her in the post. It's something I've wanted for a long time and she knows this. Should I return it or keep it? If I return it I'm kind ...

Help! Unwanted house guest already taking toll on relationship!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Right, well me and my partner have been living together for about 11 months in our own house. His sister has just broke up with her fella on sunday and she has come to stay here.. When i agreed to this i thought it would be for a week or two. Its ...

I'm not sure whether to just hang out with him and see how it goes or just straight up tell him how I'm feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do. Last summer i ended up hooking up with my best guy friend, we both weren't really sure what we were doing so we ended up sleeping with other people. Then when we realised we were wanting to be serious i told him about ...

I feel like I have no other choice. He's unwilling to change. What can I do to salvage this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I dont know what I can do to salvage our relationship. I have been in this relationship for 6 years now. At the beginning everything was great. Then we took the next step and I moved 5 hours away to live with him and his 5yr old daughter. Things...

What do I do about this ring intended for my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hey all, I have what I think is an unusual question. For Christmas 2012 I bought my then girlfriend a ring. Not an engagement ring, but a little bit of an expensive ring that has a heart made out of rubies filled in with diamonds. Well her and I ...

Completely hung up on my ex, how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - So for the last few years I've been pretty hung up on my ex (let's call her Kate). I haven't spoken to her since we broke up over 3 years ago, but I can't get her out of my head, even now. I have a girl I'm seeing now (let's call her Amy) and she...

Cheating, insecure, lying girlfriend refuses to come clean!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hello, and before reading this thank you for taking your time your imput will be greatly appreciate it. Sorry for the typos english is not my first lenguage. I been dating this girl for almost 2 years. The relationship has had its ups and downs. H...

How do I tell my sex-buddy I don't want to sleep with him anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - How do i tell my sex-buddy i dont want to sleep with him anymore? I live in a different city for university and when i come back we always meet up for drinks/cinema or we'l wobble back to each others houses after nights out. We've been sleeping to...

How do I get out of this? I lied and told my friends I wasn't back together with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi Sorry in advance for the long story ... I was with my boyfriend for 5 years when we broke up, it was a mutual break up but when breaking up he did tell me he had been seeing someone else, i was obviously upset, hated him etc, i ofcourse...

Not sure if my BF will come back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi all looking for some input with a crisis at the moment. Myself and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years we split for 2 months last year after being engaged, due to the stress. We got back together and moved in together. We were very ...

Accidental phone call leads to devastating news - he's getting married and has been engaged for 6 years! Now he's ended contact! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, plz i need your advice on this becoz i am going through the worst days of my life. i m an indian muslim girl, been in a long distance relationship with a pakhtun pakistani guy since 1 yr. we met online and deeply fell in love with each ...

My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did ...

I want to give him chance but my mind keep worry about my future with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm confused now and no one can I ask for help. No one understand me. I'm sad and depressed that I'm going oto get through this problem alone. Me and my bf were in love for the past 2 years. But now things changed, and we also changed to ...

I want to make a family with him but I don't like how our relationship is on again off again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I'm a asian girl who fall in love with a europeian boy that younger than me 3 years , we met each other in my country and we definitely fall in love each other , we 're in relationship until 1 yr 8 months then see each other again ..because that ...

My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...

How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio ...

Does he really love me at all? I think I should break up with him because he is not the same person anymore...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I'm 22yrs and my guy is 26 plus we've been dating getting to 4 years, we both love each other very much, he calls, pays me visit at my place of work, he treat me well each time i pay him visit. each time i log in my facebook now if he is online he ...

We've been friends all our lives, so why the sudden hatred? He is ignoring me and has even deleted me from Facebook....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - So a guy I know since childhood has come to my life and started texting me daily, we were always platonic friends or shall I say neighbors, we live in 2 different countries so we texted for 3 months and clashed twice due to his insistance on going ...

I think we broke up yet it's not really bothering me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I texted my girlfriend/ex a few days ago to ask how everything was, no answer. I called, it went straight to voice mail. I called again a few hours later and it went to voicemail again. At first it distressed me that she was ignoring my calling but ...

Help! I want to break it off but it doesn't work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - dear cupid, i need help. ive been in an on and off again relationship with this man that tells me that he does love and honor me. i do see some truth in that but as our relationship went on he became controlling and very insecure. the w...

I'm in pain over someone who doesn't even think of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - hello, well met someone last year lasted 3 month ,treated her like an angel. Wrote poems, dancing, open every door,sweet talker, romantic. her ex beat her all the time. it was going great i thought, fantastic. went on a 3 day trip, that weekend ...

How do I deal with constantly seeing my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (?) - It's been a few months since I broke up with my boyfriend. It was sort of mutual- we both had very different lifestyles and values. However, we go to the same college and run into each other quite frequently. We haven't spoken since the day we broke ...

I've gone from being madly in love with her to wishing our relationship were over. Break up or stay? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - I'm in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (4 1/2 years). I have two kids (13/12) from a previous marriage. The kids live with me. About one year ago my girlfriend moved in with us. We had some problems during these 4 1/2 years. She woul...

I told him this was just for fun but he has fallen in love with me, how do I end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have been with this guy for the past 5 months, (please do not judge me), I have always been upfront with him and told him that I do not love him but cared about him. I have told him about my childhood abuse and previous bad relationships fa...

Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did ...

Considering getting back with ex who cheated. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Okay, this is a very sensitive issue, and well I would really like some advice, i'm in a very emotional state atm so please don't be too harsh guys :L Recently, i've been thinking that I could get back with my ex. ...

We break up constantly but I find it hard to walk away for good because of my young son, and bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - i have been with my partner for over four years, we have a son together who is 2 and half years old. for the last two years all we have done is split up, we have split up well over 300 times! the only reason i have stuck with this man is because of ...

Broke up over a month ago from an on and off relationship but still can't move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I need help. I am a 29 year old male and I was in a relationship with a 21 year old female. I met her about a month after ending a flash in the pan 3 month relationship and when I met her, I tried to go slow for both our sakes. I was her first...

I cheated with my housemate but didn't know how to break up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I realized that I'm unhappy about a year ago, at the beginning of this year I moved into a house with a whole bunch of students because I started college. I started falling for one of the guys I stay ...

What can I do? I Slept with BF's best friend, broke up with BF, but still can't stop thinking about his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I've now found myself in this awkward predicament, please give me some advice. Three months ago I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my now ex-boyfriend with our mutual male best friend. The friend and I have always had a close rel...

Please, can you tell me a way to forget her? She's moved on. I have not. And Still I do love her so much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I am finding I am experiencing a very hard time in forgetting a girl who I loved. We were very good friends and I had told her about my feelings. She was not sure that time. However after sometime we had an affair. I had initially thought she love...

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance...

He was my first love. Breaking up has been so difficult. How can I remove this pit of sorrow from my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Four months ago, my relationship of over a year came to an end. At the time, we both felt that it was the right thing to do as our arguments were becoming more frequent and the general chemistry was lacking. I had been contemplating br...