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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Would a man stay with a woman for nearly 4 years if he didn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - If your were scared of commitment, would you be with someone for nearly four years. but not live with her. Get close and then pull away again and then repeat. Despite illness on both sides, the rows maybe a couple days of calming down but...

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / g...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3366 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

Boyfriend has went no contact should I pay for his car insurance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - For a while now I've thought may bf of 4th has been seeing somebody else, he wworks away and I don't really see him anymore, we spoke on the phone or via txt most days,anyway 2weeks ago was the last I spoke to hihim, we spoke about him coming bk ...

My ex managed to hurt me twice and I'm really having a hard time understanding why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Last year me and my ex broke up, I had put undue stress on the relationship which was completely ruined and looking back, it was the right thing for it to be over. However, he just blocked me out of his life, one day he said he'd speak but then he ...

Do all romatic relationships end in breakup eventually? If we lived long enough could we tolerate our partner for eighty years? What happens over time that causes the breakup? Is it inevitable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - After two long-term relationship failed, im beginning to wonder am I at all the cause. Im lesbian for starters, and I connect really well with females. Obviously somewhere I lost connection. My first relationship was 3 years... it ended bc my ex ...

All my friends have said to ditch him but I'm genuinely in love with him. I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy. We started off as friends, but one night we got very drunk and slept together. We carried on sleeping together every time we got drunk. But then we started doing more, so he'd ask me if i wanted to go for lunch or to the ...

He seemed really interested in me, and then vanished off the far of the earth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - Hi there :) I met a guy about 2 months ago and we really hit it off. At first he was super keen and was constantly texting..ten over Xmas/ new year he went home to his parents and I hardly heard from him. As soon as he was back we started to speak ...

Blowjobs, snapchats, and exes! All are causing me to unhappy in our 6 month relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. When we first started dating she spilled her sexual past with me despite my reservations. Initially I hated hearing it because it was much more than my own but I grew to love her and respect her past. ...

I am confused about lots of things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Thought id message in as id heard about this site, feel confused about lots of things so just wanted to see some other peoples opinion on this. Basically i am worrying about the future as i am coming up to 35 years of age and really hoped by now...

He went from being a jerk to Prince Charming overnight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Me and my guy live together for about a year. However I was thinking about moving out because We never do anything special and we never go anywhere. In fact it's usually always on his terms on what he wants to do and even when we argue he needs to ...

He just doesn't get it so I ended it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend over an argument that started 2 weeks ago. We were in a restaurant having a conversation and we started disagreeing on something. He started "calling bullshit" on what I was saying and when I tried to explain what I ...

How can I be the partner she deserves, when my mind is still filled with thoughts of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I came out of a tumultuous 2-year relationship only a handful of months ago. I loved her so incredibly much, but we were constantly breaking up and getting back together (never once was it my decision to split) over petty, insignificant fights, ...

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months a...

Should I stop hanging with my friend, his sister broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - So I committed the sin of dating my best friend's sister. He was surprisingly very okay with it but I digress. The sister and I were really good friends before and she was in a shitty relationship and ended up leaving that guy and one thing led to ...

I really love the new guy but how do I break up with the current guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hello! I'm confused of what to do. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year now. I met a new guy recently through a male friend. This new guy has really been nice to me. He said he wants us to get into a relationship but I told h...

My best friend is dating someone horrible from my past! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hey your answers in the past have helped me a lot so I'm here again with something new that I'd love your feedback on. When I was 15 I started dating a guy and he treated me badly over the 4 years we were seeing each other. He cheated on me wi...

My marriage was broken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3369 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I finally found the courage to leave my abusive husband for the last time.God gave me the strength to open my heart ? eye's and ears to others going through a similar situation in their lives hopefully my heart ? breaking tonight will make at least ...

I'm pregnant and the father wants a termination.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Im pregnant. When I found out my instinct was to become a mother not to have an abortion. The father wants nothing to do with a baby right now because he wants to move and continue to find himself as he will be 25 in May. He’s called me selfish, ...

Motorcycle Picture on Facebook ask to be removed caused a breakup

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 20 months. Both of us are twice married. Her second relationship was very, very bad. It hurts her badly to think of it. It damaged her emotionally and if she could, she has said it was the worse mistake she ...

How do you stop yourself from missing someone that you shouldnt be missing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I've just split up with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do with myself. Since I was 16 I've always had a boyfriend, it's only been a few days and I feel lonely and bored and I miss him. I know I sound pathetic needing to have somebody in my ...

My girlfriend won't let go of her old FWBs and it's very hurtful. Do I need to let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl, its been almost 6 years together, she's lied to me about serious stuff like old " f and @k buddies" she so claims them to be.. Which are dudes.. Our relationship there's no sex I'm lucky if I get any twice a ...

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other an...

I told him no contact and I blocked him, but he got mad. Should I unblock him to send him one last message?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I started No Contact on Sunday so that I could start healing from my ex (of 10 months). Before cutting him off, I sent a one liner email saying "I wish you the best." Then blocked him on Facebook and erased him from my messenger contact list. ...

How should I tell my ex about my new girl friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

22 January 2015 (M) - My relationship is great with my current girlfriend but my ex girlfriend is still in love with me and we are best friends but how do I tell that I'm with someone else without hurting her because I still wish to be friends with her still but he...

Is depression forcing me to break up an already rocky relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - I can barely be civil to my so-called bf. as the days pass, it just gets worst and worst since he stays nonchalant and tries to joke with me. Not once has he asked if I'm okay or what's on my mind. I tried to tell him what was wrong and he cut me ...

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...

Is it time to break-up? My Gf is always sad. But now her depression is affecting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Let me start out by saying my girlfriend is depressed, I believe. And it is staying on me. A little background on me that may be relevant is that I am a 20 year old engineering student. I am a relatively level headed person. Basically on a ...

How do I break up with my boyfriend of five years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend of 5 years but just don't know how to do it. I've been wanting to end it for some time now, but don't know what to say, how to say it, where to say it?? I'm just dreading the whole thing. The thing is we met...

She has changed but I love her and don't want to throw 2 years down the drainpipe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - Here goes, I’ve been with her for 2 years, everything was great, she started uni 6 months into our relationship (i’ve always worked full time), her starting uni never bothered us, we worked through it, didn’t argue and we were good… In September s...

We started to rekindle, but he can't let go of the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Ran into my bf the week of new year's. We instantly felt the connection again and we started talking and went out a couple of times. We live in different states now so it's a little complicated. We decided to try to see each other again and keep ...

Will someone please help me? I feel the worst I've ever felt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I became good friends with a boy a year ago and then we started behaving as a couple, we held hands kissed and cuddled we talked all the time. I really really loved him. A lot . New years day he slept with another girl. I found out from our mutual ...

How do I pick myself up? I've been through a lot and am facing an operation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Hi there I have only posted in here once before. But I need help again as i don't know what to do. My last post related to my ex husband and me leaving him. Well I did eventually do that, but now I want him back.....WHAT you must be thinking...

Do I deserve his crazy behavior towards me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I've just broken up with my boyfriend, again! I desperately want to know if my behaviour is the problem because everything always seems to end up being my fault and I have to apologise. I was seeing him for just over two years and it's been very ...

I'd like to stay friends but I know that'd be unwise currently.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Should you tell your ex you're going no contact, or should you just disappear? My ex and I broke up after almost 1 yr. We talked daily for about a month afterwards. Then he invited me to see him for some talk and possibly sex. I turned him down....

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me ...

Is it worth trying again or should I just let my head rule my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I'm really confused right and now and need some advice please! So background : I was with my ex for 5 months when he asked me to move in with him. I know it was too soon but I was stupid and said yes. We lived together happily for over a year...

Why couldn't we stay friends? LDR break-up. He says the trust was broken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi guys. I just need to understand something from an outsiders perspective. So I met a guy before Christmas online and we got on great. Only thing was he lived over 100 miles away and I did wonder if this could be a problem. However, I wen...

Words that hurt and mind games in response

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I admit I'm not the nicest human being in this world. I have hurt my fiancé with words I said. But he's been playing mind games with me. We've not been the best of terms since 28 dec. I tried to talk to him via text he said to me he wanted space. ...

I said I loved him and he broke it off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I am a libra woman was with a cancer man.. and ended my relationship with a cancer man. Our relationship was very healthy sex, communication, etc... He broke it off because I told him I love him...but yet he said he was happy with me a...

I take an abnormally long time getting over relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - Hi Everyone, So, I am getting over a bad break-up that happened 7 months ago. The thing is, I general take a long time letting go of a relationship. Abnormally long I would say, we are talking several years. I have been to therapy over this issue ...

She will not break up but refuses to see me again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

16 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend will not break up, but refuses to see me again. What is the best course of action as a man? So, the girlfriend of 9 months says that she now has no "free time for anything more than friends." She won't bring up breaking up, but feels ob...

What does this post-sex text mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - I got this text about 18 hours after we had sex for the second time. We see each other several times a month without anything physical happening. I've known him for 6 years and we have always had a strong attraction to each other. He's 43, I'm 35. ...

My boyfriend says he wants to break up due to financial problem. Does this mean he is involved with another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he wants to be friends because his job lower his hours and he is having a hard time paying his bills. Do this sound like he is involved with another woman? ...

Should I sever all ties, or stay with my pregnant girl friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

15 January 2015 (M) - Hey all, I just wanted to get some opinions... i have been with my current girlfriend now for 7 months, I know its not long but it was amazing in the beginning and i felt like i loved her more than anyone before. She had to move back to her coun...

I've been doing everything I'm supposed to in order to move on, but I just can't get there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - I need some guidance. How do you begin to get over someone? I've been doing all that I can to keep busy. I've been taking care of our child. Our child's care is certainly first priority. It's been almost a year, so I've had time to heal. I tried ...

Was I right to break up with my jealous girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

15 January 2015 (M) - I am in desperate need for advice. I've been with my girlfriend now for 8 years, for the past 2 years its not been good on and off with arguments, breaks etc.. I moved into a house a few months ago and she wanted to move in. But because of these ...

Update: I Verbally Abuse My Boyfriend so He Will Pay Attention to Me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - Here's an update. After verbally abusing my boyfriend he broke up with me. But we hung out last week, and everything seemed to be back to normal. Should I ask him if we can get back together? Or should I just let it flow?...

Can a single man genuinely love and accept a woman who has children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - I am in the process of reconsidering my marriage due to a lot of mental abuse. I have told my husband about this. A few months ago I made an acquaintance with a man and he knew I was married and have 2 children. The fact that I have children did not ...

When is it OK to have sex with your ex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - When is it ok to have sex with your ex? I (25/f) dumped my ex (30/m) 6 weeks ago. He' s recently offered me a plane ticket to see him to catch up, check in on each other, and have a last time go in bed. Initially we were both excited, as I'd already ...