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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I dont think its going to work out but he is my only friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6294 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. I came over New Jersey on the train last night. It took me 3 and a half hours to get here to see my boyfriend. Besides coming here to see him I also came to go out and have some fun with him cuz ever since I moved to ...

I don't understand how you can you like someone then all of the sudden you don't... !?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6mons. Durning the last month he has been flirting with his best friend of the opposite sex. i didnt think much of it until she told him that she hated me. i know she likes him alot she has for years. i never let ...

I find it hard to move on as I have still got hope we will get back together.Anyone been through this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, this is probably going to be a bit long but i feel that it will do me good to write my feelings down and maybe get some advice from other people! Me and my ex girlfriend had been going out for over 3years. We were both young when we met (i w...

I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...

We've split and I've turned to drinking and occupying my time to cope, but nothing works! How can I stop drinking and how do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I have been through a very nasty break up with my partner of more than 2 years. I am not going to go into the full story of that as I really don’t want to take much of your time, beside it is a very very sad story anyway. Basically I lov...

I blew it with my fiancee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Me and my fiance had a great relationship. Then i said some things I shouldn't have. We havn't spoken in a month. She has a new man. She wont take my phone calls,but she wont tell me whats goin on cause she still loves me. What do I do? ...

He flirts with other women, he has to have his way and he has a huge ego! Do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - i have been with him 8 years. he claims he loves me but i refuse to marry him because he has a big ego and has to be 'the one in the limelight 24/7 and he's always right'.he cannot pass a woman without flirting and gets mad if i say anything. he ...

I keep hoping she'll regret our breakup and come back to me! How do I deal with this heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me four months ago and i just cant stop thinking of her. i do feel better than i did at the beginning but im worried that im always gonna think that i would be happier with her than with any one i may meet in ...

I was prepared for no more conact from her after our split, but she's emailing me! Why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - A few months ago I just got out of a 2 year relationship. My ex and I spent some time in limbo, but then she decided that and space was necessary, so was did not speak for over 20 days. After the 20 day mark, I finally contacted my ex and asked her ...

We broke up but I still love him.. he seems to treat me so bad though!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I went out with this guy for 10months and was totally in love with him and still am.We met at university but he lives abroad.While we went out he visited me all the time. The thing is a few months ago we had an argument and he split up with me, ...

We broke up after 6 years - he wants to work to fix things.. but I want more, what shall I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6296 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have lived together for more than half that time. I broke up with him on Saturday after having decided I couldn't see a future together. There are many issues, things i don't like about him and ...

I don't think the bf wants back with me, because of what his freinds think. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year. well.. he broke up with me. We have problems with jealousy and fighting. I think that we can get past the immature fighting and jealousy. We have had some pretty heated fights... but i think this ...

Would it be horrible to break up with him by text messaging while he is in Florida for a vacation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I had a hard time breaking up with my fiance last week, and felt guilty and gave in and stayed with him. Would it be horrible to break up with him by text messaging while he is in Florida for two months for vacation? I feel like that's the only way ...

Broken up with an abusive man but got some worries about getting together with my ex's one-time-friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I am going through a divorce right now. I have three children from my previous marriage. The father was a very abusive guy in every way. The past four years I had my eyes looking elseware but did nothing with it until a month after I filed my ...

I miss him but my family and friends say not to go back. Should I listen to them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I need help with my love life. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 4 years but it was very on and off relationship with us always arguing. We moved in together last year and not been getting along so i decided to finish it last week. I tho...

My gf wants to return to her homeland far away...how do I convince her I love her and want her to stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend loves me very much, but wants to return to her homeland which is across the other side of the world. how do i convince her that i have true love for her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. at the moment she cannot see me ...

My friend is being negative about everything and eating less since her break up. How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi there! This is more for my best friend from school who has recently been dumped by her bf. She seems to be doing better, but I'm still worried. She had been dating this guy since the beginning of the school year in September, so she really liked ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

Not sure if I have done the right thing or not by dumping him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't ...

Im confused... What could he possibly be thinking about!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Alright, my ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months. We talked this weekend which mainly included me crying and explaining how I viewed the break up. He had broken up with me. He said that he wanted to think about a few things and for me ...

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

He has nasty divorce issues and we argue a lot more. Should we give each other space to clear our heads?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - My partner and I have been seeing each other for 12 months. His divorce has become very nasty and his ex wife is making his life hell. He is stressed out and not coping and therefore neither am I. We argue more often than we have been and now he ...

His gf accused me of messing with him, when all I did was try to tell him to stop texting me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Boy I had dated and behaved like a pig started to communicate back with me on a friendship basis. I notice he has been lying to me for 1 year and sent him message back so he replies telling me he couldn't talk as gf in the house, I get upset and do ...

It's been a year since we split and I am still not over him! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I am still not over my ex. We were together a long time and split about a year ago. He has someone new and see no hope or reason for us to get back together but there is still no peace in my heart. During the day when I am busy it is ok but the ...

I dumped my bf to date another and I feel very guilty-how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hey ppl help me again pls!! a month ago, i broke up wit my bf of 1yr and a half, coz my feelings were fading gradually and coz i really missed being single since he was my first bf and i met him wen i just turned 15. he really didnt wanna break up...

She has a lot on her plate and we broke up! I still want her-should I keep contacting her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) - I'm very very sad and heartbroken. My girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago. She said her reasons were that she couldn't handle the stress of the arguments we have in our relationship because she has alot on her plate right now. She's grievei...

he ended it saying he doesn't feel the same. Will he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6299 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi. I have been with my bf for two years (well, it would have been two years next week). It all started off wonderful, and to the end to me, it was still wonderful. I loved him, and he loved me. We were living together for six months. However, ...

She's having a hard time letting her bf go. How can she dump her bf for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6299 days ago

27 January 2007 (M) - Hi, i recently met this girl up town, she is a mate of my sisters and well we got on quite well but i found out she has a b.f, i txt her the next day as i got her number off my sister...She said best not txt as he might see but she then txt me later ...

He dumped me over some mean texts I sent him! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - hey peeps..im in a bit of a dillemma..iv been 'sleeping with' tthis guy for a couple of months now.and i guess you could say iv fallen for him!!!however, i wen out and got drunk the other nite, i kept texting him, pestering him to come bk 2 my ...

He still talks to his ex and is now just getting a divorce. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I need some help. I have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. He still talks to his ex almost everyday and he wants me to meet her. He just now is trying to get a divorce because he has been putting it off for so long. why is that? And also ...

They both have said they like each other. Should I be annoyed with my best friend or my ex bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - I went out with this guy for 8 months like a year ago now, but we have been on and off since last June, but recently one of my mates told me that he liked her... we have been mates for ages, and she has been with her bf for a year and a half, so she ...

After I helped her financially and the birth of our child, she texted me to say we were finished! I'm devistated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - I met this girl at work. She admitted that she was with a woman with 2 children. we started relationship, got engaged and after 5 months she fell pregnant.7 months after the birth, after I helped her financially, and built our 'nest', she texted me ...

How can I go from A to B?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - i like this girl right..lets name her A.. ok ive gone out with her for the past month or so. i really liked her. i mean REALLY really, loved her she seemd like the perfect person. Unfortunatly there is this other girl..named B..haha i got to know ...

After 2 years we broke up but I still love him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6301 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - ME and my boyfriend have been Goin out for 2years and 8months and we broke up but he still tills me that he luv's me and still calls me but he just dont know wat he wants and i dont want to lose him, i love him so much wat do i do ...

He won't finish it up with his gf for me..he says it's too complicated! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Right, a week ago i met up with a boy that has a girlfriend. (I've known him around 5 months). We shared a kiss and I've felt bad about it ever since but i love him and i would do anything to be with him and he says he loves me and wants to be with ...

He used to allow me to cuddle him, in bed...now he doesn't! How do I get his love back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Right, well I was with my ex for a year and 3 months, and we used to argue a lot, but i loved him so much, and he loved me, then one day he was talking to his boss at work about us, then decided to break up with me, and the next day he went out with ...

He doesn't want to reconcile so how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke a month ago and we both made mistakes , and i want him back and i dont know how because he doesnt want to get back now , only when he forgets everything and when he is ready to start again the whole relationship. how do i ...

My boyfriend broke up with me and got with another girl. But now that he's broken up with her I want him back! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I went out with this guy for a while but then we broke up as a joint decision because I was too flirty with other guys and I have a feeling he liked someone else. Then he got this other girlfriend and moved on which hurt me. Recently they've broken ...

How can I leave my abusive bf w/out sparking his temper and threats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 16 months has a very bad temper. He never HITS me but does shove and pull me around sometimes. Whenever I want to leave him he cries and begs and threatens suicide. I don't want to risk him really doing it so i stay. I really do love ...

Broke up with my girlfriend because of money issues. She said she loved me but it seemed like money was the most important thing to her.I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I hope you can help me with this, Can someone's love be so much that it depends on money? My ex-partner, destroyed everything that we built together over the past 2 years just over money issues!!! She suddenly changed her attitude towards me as soon ...

Im jealous that my ex has someone new, I really want someone new but its not happening!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - im jealous my ex boyfriend has moved on and im still single even though it was me that broke up with him. i really would like to meet guys but since starting college and doing a child care course i havent met anyone i really thought it would be a ...

Is there really any point to trying at a relationship if there is no trust ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - hey guys thanks again. i was just curious as to what u guys thought about trust. i was with a girl and we are now on a "break". and during this time she is talking to any guy that looks at her. now i hear that she "likes" one of them. if hell ...

He said he wasnt ready for a relationship, am I wasting my time hoping he will change his mind ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - my bf dumped me because he says he just isnt ready for a relationship and doesnt want to hurt me. Am i wasting my time hopeing he will chage his mind? And is it possiable to still be good friends, im scared ill always want more?...

She said she just now wants to be friends, but I want to give it another go, any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 January 2007 (?) - just before xmas i asked this girl out. she said she doesn't feel the same and she just wants to be friends now. i still love her, i talk to her everyday on msn. could i casually ask her out on valentines day? i just wanna give it another go. any ...

She said she loves me but cant be with me, as it hurts to much.. Whats going on ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6302 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I was with this girl for 16 months, and had just returned from a month long trip to china, and back into her arms, i slept over at her place for the next week, we fought a lot but no more than usual, we have a fight the day after i get back to my ...

He dumped by telling a friend "that everything was closing around him'...what did he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me, saying i was too good for him. A friend asked him why he did it and he said "it felt like everything was closing around him" what does this mean???...

She doesn't pay me much attentions anymore and I don't want to lose her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - I have a huge problem ! OK, me and my girlfriend are going on 6 months with each other. in the beginning thing were great. We hung out more we talked more and our love life was good. but recently she has taken things down a few notches and ...

I'm in love with my cousin and he broke it off w/ me to be w/ my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - i am still in love with my cousin. i lost my virgity to him and were togther for 2years behind close doors. he stopped everything recently claming he could not take it because he wanted to be with me the way he should and now he's dating a friend of ...

Having such a hard time getting over my break-up...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ago. ...

I feel relief... not tears!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Hi I have finished with my partner, he was a lazy, critical, unemployed pig whilst I worked, did the housework, childcare everything basically! I havent cried yet tho could it be cos Ive cried buckets in the past? I feel relief if anything! ...