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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I earn his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I 've dumped my ex-boyfriend twice within a two month period. Honestly, the first time I dumped him was because he hadn't contacted me in three whole days. So I returned his belongings, and I when I did his mother answered the door. He ended up ...

I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so ...

I cant continue this LDR but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi After ten months of a long distance relationship, I can't go on. I love her, love my time with her, but the relationship model is all wrong, it's not working. We have just done the "time to think" thing, I know we are finished, so does she, we ...

Break up after 3.5 years, how does he just move on like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - my ex and i broke up after three in a half years.it was a very unhealthy relationship and i knew he wouldnt change with the overcontrolling jealousy didnt trust and so on...he was my first everything meaning i never gave him a reason to act like ...

What's the best way to get over the guilt of my breakup and start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I live with my x-husband and we have a great friendship and we love each other, but we r no longer in love with each other. He tells me to go out and meet someboy, but I feel guilty. Do I get over this feeling and start dating again. Also what are ...

We haven't spoken in months, but he has kept me very much a part of his life. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 3 years and 8 months. Most of the time our relationship seemed nearly perfect except for the fact that we lived an hour away from each other. We both have children. My daughter lives with me and he likes to spend alot ...

I'm trying to move on but at the same time I have a feeling our relationship isn't over.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of four years broke up with me about two and a half weeks ago. Two weeks before he broke up with me we were fighting. I was accusing him of flirting with a girl we work with. Along with all that he was dealing with a lot in his personal ...

I hate myself and can't forgive myself for what I'm doing to him, the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - This is my first serious break up. we were long distance for years, he in the military, me in college and a little post-college. He got out of the military, we both started law school in the same town. After having been a couple and having trial ...

Should I leave him? Or am I blinded by the stupid things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, everything was perfect. I have the perfect boyfriend, really, but I feel, and have been feeling like breaking up because little things DO GET ON MY NERVES. Here's the problem : - H...

How can I cut ties with this amazing man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, hope you are all well. I need advice on best way to cut ties from a guy. As I'm not liking the person I'm becoming. Ok, so I'm 30 and I met guy who's 27, about 3 months ago. We met in a bar. I'd just moved back to the big city and moved to ...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

Stuck in the past; need help to move forward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Its been a few months since I ended a relationship because my gf was cheating emotionally. Before this relationship that just ended I had a relationship with a woman named Katherine that lasted five years. Even when I was with my last girlfrie...

Ex has just broken up with his girlfriend. How can I get him back without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I ...

How do I get over a married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. I could really use everybody's advice. Can you tell me how to get over a married man I am in love with? I know it should never have reached this point but it did. I am a rational, smart and mature woman. I guess I just let my hea...

How do you forget someone after break up and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - A fairly common question I know- what is the best way to forget someone you have been attracted to (and in love with), who no longer feels the same about you, and you have decided (by default) to move on. I still find myself thinking about h...

My ex wants us to get back together. I want to have a longer break, but I'm also scared of losing the one I love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - My first boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. Within that time he has asked me to think about getting back together with him, even though at the time of the break up it was 'years' until he said we could get back together. I agreed we could tr...

Reflections on my breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of six yrs, my only serious relationship at this point. The most startling feeling I have is after weeks of build up of anger, bitterness, and hurt towards my partner, the ambivalence and second-guessing I'm now ...

My GF broke up with me saying that once she finds someone that has potential for the long run, she no longer wants to be in a relationship anymore!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - One week ago my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of summer. We've been together for some time now and it felt like the breakup came out of nowhere since we had fun with each other earlier that day (interestingly enough, this is the exact ...

Help me, what should I do with this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i m in LDR for the last three years..... we deeply madly inlove with eachother.... sumthing happened 2 years ago that created lots n lots of troubles for both of us ... and eventually we had to get departed cuz NOW our families would nt let us get ...

How I got out of an abusive relationship!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I have noticed so many woman suffer abuse at the hands of there partners and as somone who has suffered a really abbusive realtionship and come out the oher side i want to say how i did it! Firstly if you have a freind that is in a abusive relation...

I'm afraid he'll become more than friends with his childhood pal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 3 years, before our 2 years anniversary, a messed up situation occured between us and I know most relationships encounter this problem. It's not cheating, but we broke up and a friend of mine asked him to hang out ...

Is it better that I am not with him anymore or should I try to get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy. He though seemed to hate himself quite a bit and was really down and depressed. He would tell me about how happy he was to be with me but it got scary because he kept putting me on this pedastal acting ...

Should I contact my ex-fiance?

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29 May 2011 (M) - My fiance broke up with me about a year ago, and just recently i just found out that she was asking about me, if i was dating or still single. I was shocked to hear about that because i never thought to hear from her again, but i can honestly say i ...

How long should I wait to start a new relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding ...

Where are my friends when I need them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i met a guy 12 years older than me, said he loved me (very early on, mentioned marriage etc) he really charmed me, promised me and my son all sorts (without any prompting from me) even though he had not met my son. the things he was saying didn't ...

How do I end the relationship when we hardly speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - hey... everyone, i got this kind of confusion.. about my long distance relationship... am 17 and he's 21 and its been a year that we are apart.. but now i somehow feel that we need 2 end it.. but i dont know how to as we hardly speak cause he is ...

He's trying to cope with our break up..how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Okay I'm gonna try to keep things simple here...Ive liked this guy since 4th grade..and in 8th grade I finally got him. Things were going well for a middle school relationship I guess until a high school boy started liking me..so of course I chose ...

I'm wondering if my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

There's no going back from this split, so why am I so broken up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I need serious help with my mixed emotions. I split from my married man just a few days ago- he betrayed me in the most unforgivable way and it is 100% clear to me that there is no going back. However, he has gone on holiday today for a week wit...

I love him but I'm sure she's after him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia ...

Husband jumping to conclusions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I really need you help here.....please be patient with me as this is very confusing to explain.. here a bit of background.. my husband of 7 years constantly brings up my past, he doesn t believe what I have told him is the truth and thinks I have w...

Boyfriend said he just stopped loving me and broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me. He just said one day that he didn't love me anymore. Then he just started being really mean to me. His whole personality changed and he tried to kick me out of his house. I couldn't believe he was being so ...

Boyfriend stubborn, never makes the effort to say he is sorry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - i have been with my partner for 6 years now, i got with him at a very young age, i was 17 and he was 21, i have always had the same problem with him, his stubborness. Everytime we have an argument, he will NEVER make the effort to come after me and ...

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've brok...

We broke up, he requested to be my friend on a Facebook & apologized, what am I to think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he ...

Does my ex boyfriend's apology mean he still has feelings or is he just feeling guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

I think he's going to leave me, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - What do you do when your pretty sure the love of your life is going to leave you? Im worried that im going to resort to drinking to not feal pain. hes been the love of my life for so long the only one i ever been able to count on the only one who i ...

Girlfriend punched me in testicles, so I punched her in the hip. Now for some reason, she won't talk to me. What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I need your help. I'm 15 and my girlfriend's 14. We're in the same year and basically the other day we were in my house after school just chilling, we were having one of our fun little arguments but then we started toy fighting and I floored her and ...

My bf breaks up with twice a month--and I am always the one crawling back to him to come back! How should I handle this??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Does my boyfriend not love me or does he just like having control of the relationship? Ok so my boyfriend breaks up with me once a month sometimes twice . His reason are that I don't listen to him over little things that I don't think matter. ...

I broke up with her but she wants me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Last wensday, my girlfriend and I broke up. I'm the one who ended it. I'm 18 years old going into college for computer science Right now she is begging me to come back, I really still do have feelings for her, but I can't go back because my paren...

Please help me get my lover back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am married with 2 teenage children. For the last 3 years I have been having an affair with. Beautiful woman 20 years younger - I'm 44. This woman is the most amazing person Ive ever met. She turns heads were ever she goes, her personality shines ...

My old lover has come back and asked me to be with him forever, should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - dear friend, i have to talk to you for an advice, after 2 years brek up of my lover , he returned to me and asked me to be with him foreer, but before this i am going to tell you this short story what happend in the past, he met me at my school ...

Feel so guilty for ignoring her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I cut this woman out of my life some time ago. I did it only after a long effort of trying to talk to her to reach a common understanding. And I did it only after a long period of deliberation and only after I was convinced that she was lying to...

Lots of men buy my girlfriend gifts with "I love you" inscriptions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has a lot of male friends they buy her gifts with I love you inscriptions on the gifts and each time i react she ask that i stay away from coming to her place we only meet at church i called her for a break up but she didn't want a ...

Do you think he is using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

If I am going to break up with my husband what things do I need to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - If I am going to break up with my husband. What things do I need to consider? I think I have enough reasons to do it. Do I have to go to a councillor before I can see a divorce lawyer? I am not sure how this works. Why do I think I have enough r...

Brokenhearted, please help! Should I give it my all to get her back or give up and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hello again I had been goin out with a girl recently for nearly a year and absouloutely adored her.Words cannot describe how much i though we would be together,we fought and rowed and made up and at beginning they were huge arguements but t...

His wife found out about our texting and he's broken it off with me. I'm gutted and don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - am gutted ....im married,my husband is violent and moody but we have a 5 year old boy which is the main reason i am here,plus i have no where to go ,last october i started talking on facebook to a married man who i added thru a mutual girlfriend ,we ...

This guy just asked me to be his girlfriend, but I'm thinking about how devastated my ex would feel.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys, so.. if you've read my questions before, you'll know the mist of my last relationship. we broke up 2 and a half months ago. He broke up with me and used the stupid "it's not you its me" thing.. he didnt know what he wanted.. so then after ...