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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...

We dated for six years, broke up, I still love him, he's with someone else, but calls me 3 times a day, I want him back, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 6 years and I have just recently broken up. Our relationship was strained for about a year before the breakup. I love him and I think he is my one true love. He has since started seeing someone, however he still calls me all of the ...

Dating for six months, he wants to break up suddenly, why, could I have a guy's opinion please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - From a males point of view why is he pushing me away and being so mean i dont really understand? me and this guy have been dating for about 6 months now and monday we was fine not fighting or anything and he calls me and tells me he is moving out ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my frien...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

It's always me who rings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - It's always me who rings!! I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore who is pretty down on his luck - his girlfriend has split with him temporarilly, he is out of work and hence does not have much cash!! This guy knows I love him and is happy fo...

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I ...

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...

A question to those who broke up with their first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - A little question for whoever fits this category. Has a lad ever split up with their first love, hung on and not known what's going on for about 5 months and then been told that you can't get back together by her, that she wants a fresh start at u...

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I want to dump my boyfriend for my ex who is in the same family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - am 18, he is 18 as well we have been dating for five and half months now but i do not love him as much as i did before. i want to dump him, but i do not know how. besides i want to leave him for the guy who is his flesh and blood family member that ...

I would like a girls view on the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago. We were each others first loves. We met up quite abit in the first month or so, then i found out she kissed her lad mate, so i disappeared and didnt speak for about 2 months, in that time i slept wit...

How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends coz I was drunk and I dont know what took me that night. I was always the one against women getting hit or violence period and I'm the one involved in it so please ...

Guys opinions.... does he mean what he says or does he want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So i have recently stopped things with someone i was seeing for a few years, and i have had feelings for someone in his circle of friends, hes not good mates with him but knows him... This guy has made it known that he is keen on me, but has also ...

Should you tell if you were with someone else whilst on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So i have been with this guy for 2 years and i love him completely, but im really confused because lately i have had Major feelings for somone he knows. he isnt really mates with him. He is on his new footy team. I have spoken to him more than my ...

We broke up, now she's dating my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 17 years old me and my fiance were engaged for 6 months, we broke up a few weeks ago but I still love her with all my heart. She still talks to me sometimes she told me when we broke up she wouldn't date no one else that she would wait on me ...

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few ni...

Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for ...

I might be pregnant with my ex's child but he has moved on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he ...

I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect ...

I just don't want to miss a wasted opportunity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi everyone this is my first post, just wanted your opinions on something. I went out with this girl for 2 months, and just ended up getting messed around by her. She changed from hot to cold from day to day, one day would love me, next day would pr...

We broke up so why the constant phone calls?

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29 October 2008 (F) - I'm confused. After two years of being together he breaks up with me. We have had a history of him breaking up with me and getting back with me (which hadn't happen often or I'd say no more). He decides to move out. I hadn't heard from him in a ...

My ex says we could get back together if I change, but chances are slim. What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up. I thought we were doing alright she apparently thought we weren't compatible. When i asked for a second chance she said i had many chances to fix us then and didn't pay attention or listen. She says ...

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...

He breaks up with me...now he calls all the time. What gives ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me one month ago. He said he loved me but needed to see others because he was too young. so he has been and so have i. The last week he has called or txt me every day. It has been about random stuff but it is every day. He ...

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a mont...

I always have bad luck in love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've always had really bad luck with love. I have only ever liked two people in my life, and the first was last year. I liked her for about a year without any hope, and nothing happened, except that she got a boyfriend (and subsequently broke up ...

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex ...

In love with older married man, with his baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - How do I break away from this married man, that I have had a baby with and commited myself to for the past two year? I have never had such a sad issue in my life, how can i leave him.. for good when I am so addicted to him? I feel powerless when it ...

Do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less ...

I'm still in love and missing her terribly, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I'm a married man in a love affair with a married woman. It seems that her husband has an idea of my exitence. Because of this she says she cannot seem me anymore the way we used to!!! But having said that we talk everyday and she tells me how much...

My ex-boyfriend won't move out, what do I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have broken up with my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of him trying to get back with a ex. So as a result of that, I do not want him living with me anymore. He is not on my lease, he does pay half rent and utilities. I told ...

I pushed him too far and now he's gone. How do I get him back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - How do I know? I just DO. I just have a feeling. I've never felt this way about anyone. It's an attraction I can't explain. I don't want to seem desperate, but there's really no way to assure you that I'm not. I will do whatever it takes to ...

He has a gf but is he after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he had a GF so we took the friend road. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things ...

Just out of an abusive relationship, but still love my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hey, my partner and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 2. We have a 10 month old baby son and things have been tough over the past few months due to money problems etc. He has recently come home after training in London for 12 ...

Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight after 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, ...

I feel as if I'm being used and want to end this AGAIN. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I'm engaged to a woman from Eastern Europe who is over 20 years younger than me. (That's a bad sign, I know). I live in North America, so our relationship is pretty unusual and we hardly ever see each other. I have known her for almost three years. ...

How can I get him to give us another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I broke up last week. We were supposed to move in together, but at the last minute realized it probably wasn't a good idea because we have been fighting a lot lately. While he is not perfect, a good amount of the fi...

Why would he sleep over if they didn't sleep together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hi this is based on my mate I'm really worried about her. She's recently been linked back to her old ex the father of her daughter I'll call marc they had been split for 10 months, anyway there not actually going out together but are seeing how they...

We are together 1 year 6 months, but he keeps "wandering". How can I make him fall in love with me again and forget about the other girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 1year and 6months everything was going great, untill he met some girl in another country. we have broken up atleast 5 times and we kept trying because i believe in this relationship, but he is very distant from ...

I've recently split with my boyfriend who I loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me.He still had feelings for on of his past ex's. Now he calls me for long chats. What am I to make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hello, im really confused hear I've recently split with my boyfriend who i loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me and he still had feelings for on of his past ex anyway, are split was his choice but we still talk often,anyway i usually speak to ...

After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...

I am a "Walking Disaster"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - In advance, thanks for anyone who replies to my question; it means a lot to me :). At the moment I am a "Walking Disaster" I broke up from my girlfriend a few months back and I'm still trying to get over it. To me, their was serious relationsh...

We're on a break but he keeps calling!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 2.5 years and I are now on a break. He was the one who suggested it. But when he suggested it he was crying and crying and told me he loved me and wanted to be with me be for some reason he wanted to be alone at the moment. He NEVER ...

I doubt there will be any chance of reconciliation. I need advice to help with this sadness!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am so terribly depressed. I was on top of the world a week ago but when I found out some truths behind the break up between my ex and I, it has sent me downward emotionally. After a rough patch with my ex, a friend of mine for five years named...

Is he playing with my emotions or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I had this boyfriend a few months ago who i was crazy about. He seemed perfect. He was so sweet and nice and everyone said we were the perfect couple. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I found out later that he had broken up with me ...

Does my ex-boyfriend still have feelings for Me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I walk into the libray where I hang out by myself and when I enter the building I saw my ex-boyfriend for the 2nd time looking around for somebody. I pass by him to get a seat and say "hola!" He soon follows me to my seat and notces my sketch ...