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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Should I gave up or wait more time to approach my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - I broke up with my boyfriend one month ago, the reason of the break up was an accumulation of many reasons and things he did. He is 25 and I am 35 years, we had up and down relationship , with great moments and bad moments. I give him a lot, I r...

Married man damaging my reputation.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Previous Post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-out-of-this-relationship-with-a.html About a month ago I ended an affair with a married man that I was having. We texted and called daily and we slept together on the weekend but I told it ...

We've split up,he wants me to move out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2186 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship for three and a half years and my partner split up with me once more and said we are done and that we can still be friends....does friends work? We still live together, are sleeping separately and ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to ...

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends ...

What is going on with me? How do I end this weird relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - I don’t understand what happened. I am in my 30s, I fell in love once when I was a teen 14 yeas old. It was so intense and somewhat had a feel of overwhelmingness and it didn’t end up too well even though we had a crazy run of about 5 years tog...

My well-connected but broke boyfriend has 4720 friends on Facebook but won’t add me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - I probably know the answer to this question, but if anyone has some thoughts, I'm in a long distance relationship with a much older man who is very accomplished and well-connected (flat broke, but always has younger women chasing him). We see each ...

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I calle...

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going ...

Am I meant to tell him to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

21 April 2018 (F) - I'm currently talking to this lad who seems to be interested in me. It would be fine but he has a girlfriend, who I asked about recently. He never seems too happy to see her, says they're distant,she doesn't speak to him much and she has cheated on ...

How do I stop thinking about her being with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

20 April 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of several years broke up with me recently and we haven't talked or communicated since. It has felt like I've had a death in my family - I've lost the person I've spent every intimate detail of daily life with for the last several ...

He said he loved me but then he dumped me out of the blue! Do I just walk away and forget it all?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hi Everyone I have a really big dilemma and don’t know what to do. Long story short. I was seeing this guy for a little over 2 months. Things were going amazing, we got along well, we wanted the same things out of life, we had many of the same ...

I have an ex that wont let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

18 April 2018 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend split up 4, maybe even closer to 5 years ago. In the end, she got quite nasty and I ended up blocking her on Facebook. Fast forward a few years and I get a message request from a previously deactivated account of hers,...

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and ...

My hsband left me for another woman but wont considera divorce.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - My husband left me with other woman his (mistress) it's been 2 weeks now since he left. I'm 37 yr old My husband is 54 and his mistress is 45 year old she's older than me . I want to divorce him coz I don't trust him no more . But my husband ...

I'm still sexually attached to the guy that my ex pretended to be. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - Thank you for reading this. About 10 years ago, I broke up with this guy after a few months when I realized he was abusive. I felt betrayed because we had supposedly been childhood friends. I broke all ties with him. Like most abusers, at first he ...

The man who was my companion contacts me through my daughter after 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - Hello peeps I have a question that I'd like your honest opinions about - please...? I met this lovely, magic but crazy guy in 2016. We clicked. It was very strong whilst it lasted. But he liked his drink and we both got drunk a lot and that was...

Can we really be future friends respectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - Same sex best friends for four years and we crossed the line and had emotional and physical affIr for 4 months. We are both married and won’t leave our husbands and families. We still work together and continue to have lunch and talk at work only ...

Am I wrong for checking his activity on Instagram? Is my not reaching out to him an overreaction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - I have a question regarding this issue I have in my relationship. My boyfriend follows hundreds of “Instagram models”, strippers, half naked ladies etc... and I’ve seen from his activity that he frequently likes their posts. Two days ago, he ...

Does this sound hopeless? Should I try talking to my boyfriend's rigid Indian parents and fight for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

9 April 2018 (F) - Hello all.. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I’ve known him for almost a year and honestly, he is the best boyfriend over ever had. I’m not exaggerating. He treats me with love, respect and kindness. After breaking up with my abusive ...

My boyfriend asked me to move on but then why is he messaging me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

9 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about four months now. Things were starting to get serious but then we had our first big fight. It was all done over the phone and we argued for about a week, both being too stubborn to meet up. He had the weekend ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

8 April 2018 (F) - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

Should I break up with my live-in girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

4 April 2018 (M) - I am in a long term relationship and my gf isnt interested in sex. I've always had a higher sex drive than her but she only wants sex when it is her cycle for a kid. I want a kid but college is starting to get stressful and I dont think I want to ...

He lied about an ex. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - Last night I caught my bf of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told me he had a gf in the summer of ...

My ex is coming back into my life when I have a new partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

1 April 2018 (M) - I need some advice, 4 years ago I started dating my best friend, we were together for about 8 months and it was perfect! However I made mistakes in the relationship such as being too close to her and so i drove her away and didnt handle the brea...