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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

How can she move on after a mere two months??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hi, Here's my story. I was dating this girl for the past 4.5 years while I was studying overseas. We lived-in together for 3 of those years. I loved her terribly and only saw myself with her. 2 months ago, after the end of my studies I had to leave...

Does he love me? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I really need help! Im seeing this guy who is already in a relationship. I've been seeing him for a year now and im in complete awe of him. I know its wrong and not a day goes by that i dont make me feel guilty but i cant help my feelings...

I need an answer on how to break up with my girlfriend of 2 months...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - I need an answer, I need to break up with my GF of 2 months because I realize now that I wasn't in love with her at all, I was infatuated but not in love. I want to let her down easy but I want to end it soon. At the same time, and I've felt this ...

My friends are angry that I want to break up with him as it was them that got us together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months but I don't think we really have anything in common, my friends fixed us up and I talking 2 them about breaking up with him and they were really mad but I like another guy who my friends hate. ...

I need truthful advice on what you think I should do about Joe.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Okay, so a year or so ago I dated this guy for about 5 months. We were young and he broke up with me because I couldn't get along with his friends, and he couldn't get along with mine. We are older now and recently started talking again. W...

Is there any way I can get my ex to be more cooperative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am in the process of divorce after ten years of marriage,and a beautiful 17 month daughter. My "ex" won't communicate with me verbally, and the occasional email responses I get in response to anything I ask are usually one or two words long. H...

Something I want to share

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

28 February 2008 (?) - JOSEPHS LETTER TO HIS WIFE This is not my own work and at the end of this letter, show the origin, I had to share this with others as I could not have put my feelings any better than Joseph. Dear Whomever I know you are feeling the p...

More on the 'two sides to every story' story

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - in response to replies posted about my previous posts entitled two sides to every story thankyou for your comments.Yes i have admitted i have a a problem emotionally and im glad i am seeking help for it as for my ex partner i think she needs to do ...

He has gotten physical and has abused me verbally as well on occasions, when things aren't going his way he doesn't like it and trys to get control over me any way he can.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have just moved out on my boyfriend of 1 year. We grew really close in this short time and we were talking about buying a house together and getting married and having children. When we 1st got together I was quite depressed. Early in the rel...

My live-in boyfriend wants to move out after 5 years

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. We've been living together for about 5 years. This year we've been talking about marriage and getting engaged. He promised me that 2008 would be the best year ever. But this weekend he ...

My over-protectiveness drove her away and now all I want to do is explain why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - I split up with my gf cos she thought i was possesive, now theres nothing worse than a over protective boyfriend i know, and i have to admit that i was being over protective of her but i really didnt meant to be and it really tears me up what ...

I've just got out of a relationship...but could be pregant...what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I just got out of a long relationship and think im pregant. What do i do! im young and confused....

Is he just being nosy? Is he regretting the split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - So go figure this one out... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We lived together (from 4 months on). He dumped me just after Christmas. I moved out within the week. He'd spent almost £800 on presents for me for Christmas. Then...

I helped him find his mother and she has separated us, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - me and my fiance was together 2 and a half years and planned to get married in june 08, but he wanted to find his birth mum so i helped him do this,anyways we found her in july 07 and in novemeber 07 he went to live with her, ending our ...

I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. ...

Can she really have stopped loving me so suddenly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend went for 8 months together, it was very exciting and we shared everything together. We had the perfect bond of best friends before and also during the relationship. The week of this Valentine's Day we got into a fight..it didn't ...

When I get angry he calls me mad and when I get upset he has little compassion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I just feel total resentment for my boyfriend of 6 years. We don't live together, he is 20 years older than me (43), we have sex maybe once a month. I broke it off last year and he met someone else (just a fling, we got back together and he crept ...

I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with ...

What do I write on my ex's birthday card?... I still love her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Ok, so i dont know how to explain this or anything so here it goes. My ex's birthday is in a few days and i want to send her a birthday e-card. I just dont want to say Happy Birthday I am usually so good with words but im at lost for some here, ...

I left her but she won't leave me! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I was in love with a girl for the last one year and due to her backgrounds i felt like leaving her. I told her that i've already got hooked somewhere else but she insisted that she will not leave me, she will continue loving me. Could you please ...

I think I'm truly in love with my ex. I don't know though!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - dear cupid, does he really miss me even though he said that he isnt in love with me anymore?? i dont know what to do!!! i still care about him though and he still cares about me!!! but just not in love with me like he used to be!! but the thin...

He's dying......And I think I'm going to break....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I fairly recently split up with an ex... I was very much in love with him.... but there was a big distance between us and I very rarely saw him... I was so unhappy I ended things. Since I have found a lovely guy nearer... who I am happy with.... But ...

What can I do to stop my ex stalking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I dated this girl in December only because I felt sorry for her and didn't want to turn her down, I know it was a dick move but it seemed right. We only dated for a week then I told her I didn't have time for a girlfriend and we should just be ...

Why does my husband treat his family this way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive ...

Why has he never contacted me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Why would a guy tell you that he'll contact you as soon as he's free / has some time, then he never contacts you again - Is it just a polite way of cutting you off or does he intend to come back to you at some stage or you are his 'back up'. I know ...

More MMF fun - some advice needed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Didn't think it would come to this and I probably know the answer but need to be told it from outside observers. Anyway, I'm in my thirties, and I'm pretty sure that I've fallen in love for the first time (I've been in relationships before, but not ...

How can I get back together with him without my parents getting mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Ok, I have broken up with my BF over silly arguments two times this week. They have been more than breakups just stupid fights... but I'm a drama queen so I blow everything out of proportion (this is embarrasing to admit =/). So both times I broke ...

Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities. I am never told, I have always found out by accident or phone numbers clumsily left out. This has been going on for almost two years. I am always told that these names are ...

She went back to her abusive ex. How do I get her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I met this girl on the internet. She is 28 divorced and has two boys. When i met her she said she came out of a abisive relationship that she was in for 4 yrs. I am 40 and have a son. I know i took some of the retionship for granted because she said ...

Why does a man just cut contact with you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings ...

It is definitely not over...so why don't I feel bad??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, my ex girlfriend and I had been together for 3 and a half years, and about a year ago we went through a "near breakup" because of the way we treated eachother. Since then it never quite felt the same, even though I did still want to be with her ...

HEEELLLLPPPPPP!!! 19 year old guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Heeeellllppppppp hi, I am a 19 year old guy. There is this girl I like, she is 16 nearly 17. Well, we met at work a few months ago but she had a boyfriend at the time. We never used to text much, but lately we have text each other loads. ...

Should I call it quits or try to work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I haven't talked to my boyfriend since Friday. He's mad at me but I don't know why. Everything was fine on Friday then all of a sudden he's mad. He always does this and it frustrates me so much and he never tells me why he's mad. He just goes on ...

Could he love her and love me but can't choose? Help me understand this guy!.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i have been seeing this man for 22 months now. everyone turned their back on him even his girlfriend she put him out of their house. he moved in with me 3 months ago i was by his side the whole time i met his family,friends and he told them that i ...

I unloaded my stress on him, so he broke up with me and started to drink. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do, I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. We have always had a very exciting relationship, with really strong emotions. But last week I was so stressed out and I took it out on him, which I felt so guilty about. ...

My gf, to whom I offered everything, told me she likes someone at work. What next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I just dont understand what went wrong, but my girlfriend of 4 years had just told me today the worst news I could possibliy ever hear. She told me she liked someone at work and that she wanted to be with him. I have never expected this to happen ...

He isn't sure what he wants, and it's making ME confused. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am 17, and me and my boyfriend have just gone though serious trouble. It started when we argued over soeting stupid, i was drunk and overeacted, and threw my phone at him. He got really angry over the next few days although i tried to apologise ...

He just returned from Afghanistan and ended it with me but he won't tell me why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My other half is a soldier and has just got back from afghanistan, he has been strange since he came back but now he has finished me and he wont tell me why. What do i do?...

He ended our relationship quite abruptly, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i was in a realionship with my partener for seven years. we have a 5 year old daughter together 3 weks again he telephoned me and told me it was over and hed meet someone else he has started a new relationship with her and i'm totally heartbroken i ...

My girlfriend returned home, can we ever be back together in the future even after others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Last year in August 2007 I met a girl through a friend I met at my job. She was from japan and had been here 6 months prior to meeting me and had 6 months left before completing her year of English school study. I am learning japanese and I know ...

I asked my husband for a break because he is always out but now he's found someone else... will he ever come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I asked my husband for a break as he is always out. I want him home and he says I'm not coming home. I ask is he ever coming home and his reply is I don't know what the future holds. He wants me to move on but I can't until I hear the words I'm ...

Any advice please on how to reach my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I want to get in contact with my ex, i have a boyfriend for a couple of years now and he later moved on to a new girlfriend after realizing i was with someone new he knew he was done in my eyes. I broke up with him but he beg me to stay with him but ...

My ex was not right for me, my new lover lied to me and I had to terminate my pregnancy. How do I cope with these burdens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am going through some major anxiety and i believe its because of my most recent loses. I was pregnant with my ex of 2 years' baby. We were supposed to get married but when we shouldve been growing together and being there for one another is w...

My ex cheated and then begged for me back, I seem to always go for the wrong guy...!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 ish weeks ago, I had gone to visit him (we live about 3 hours apart) and he didn't even turn up. Then I find out that he was sleeping with his ex at the time. He really hurt me and I have been finding it stupidly...

The pain I felt then is just as strong now...what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - Me and my ex were together for just over 8 months. We broke up 3 months ago and she's been with someone else for 2 months. I can't get over her. The pain I felt then is just as strong as it is now. What should I do?...

He broke up but he will not explain why until he considers I am ready to know! Should I give him a b-day present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - well this guy told me that he liked me during the Christmas holidays last year, we got to the same college , but we broke up after a week. i still dont know why he broke up with me, he wont say it because he said that hes going to tell me when im ...

I think I have fallen for my ex again after his visiting me. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Okay im 14 and about a month ago i split up with my boyfriend. And apart from the odd 'Hello' in the street i never thought bout him, but then last night he texted me saying hi and then we got talking then he came round to see me and i think i have ...

Can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - If a FWB arrangement ends for whatever the reason (ie couldn't handle other people being involved) and the person got hateful and then apologized does the FWB ever have a chance in restarting? What makes the other person come back to the one that ...

Am I gay for breaking up with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - my friends have been saying i'm gay because i broke up with this girl because she told me she loved me the second day we went out i am very sensitive and compassionate am i gay for breaking up with her? my friends said i should've told her i love ...