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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My parents will be upset if I go back to my ex girlfriend. What should I do?

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31 August 2011 (M) - Hi there everyone, Me and my now-ex broke early january this year. Our relationship turned to a year last November. I feel that I am not over her. I know I am. The thing is it has been 8 months and i'm still dwelling back to the past just to fin...

Why had my boyfriend dumped me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just dumped me completely out of the blue! We enjoyed a long weekend together and when I said goodbye to him on Monday evening we kissed and arranged to chat in the week. Then he called me today and said ' I just want this ...

I found out b/f has been cheating all along. He's going to be deployed. Do I break up with him or wait?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - I few days ago i found out my boyfriend has been seeing another girl. A few nights ago he was in the bathroom and his phone went off. I looked at it and it was a text from a girl i'd never heard of saying "Hey, looking forward to seeing you too x". ...

Why can't I leave my boyfriend when he doesn't even care about us anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I'm 26. been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been thru the death of my son, thru drug habits and have come out together quite alright. He has been there for me at my lowest point of my life ever. I feel like this is something I cannot let him ...

He doesn't want to break up but keeps on cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me, is over friendly with all his gal pals, always hugging them, getting drunk with them, calling them sweet names, always wanting to be with them, sharing everything with them. He has cheated on me with some ...

Why I am still stuggling to get over strange ex-girlfriend?

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31 August 2011 (M) - Is it possible that a girl spent 2 years with you and still not sure about her feelings for you? I was a in LDR with a girl who belonged to rich family but I was from middle class. Whenever, we would meet she would sit down on distance from me. She ...

I gained weight after we broke up, and now I'm terribly unhappy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I really need help I dont know what to do in my life i feel confused I really miss my rx boyfriend I would love to go back with him but I gained lots of weight I use to weight 120 and now im 200 I go on diets but I end up eating junk food again I ...

I'm devastated. He left me because he is still in love with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hey guys , My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago And I'm absoloutly shattered ..when we got together he had just come out of a relationship of 6 years (I wasn't aware of the duration ) ...he knew i liked him so he asked me out , everything was ...

How do I break it off with my online guy? I simply don't have time anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi all!! so basically i met this guy online. and we've been chatting lots for about 4 weeks now. i really like him and we get on well. and of course at some point we were hoping to meet up. but the thing is recently my circumstances at uni...

I don't even know how to react! After 7 years part of me wants to move on, but then another part of me cant let go.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Bear with me this is a long one. Alright so 7 years ago a friend of mine introduced me to this girl over the phone while I was in summer vacation in my home town, we immediately hit it off and kept in touch through the phone, a few days later I...

Seeing photos of him makes me sick! How can I handle it in person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I had a relationship with a guy about a month ago I've been finding it really hard to get over him and move long (usually I move on quite quickly but this time it's been hard it was a really messy split). The thing is we go to the same college and ...

Family pressures made my boyfriend end our relationshp.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - can anyone tell me why in lebanon and the middle east there is a bad attitude towards an older woman with a younger man. is it the same throughout all of the middle east or mainly in lebanese society. my relationship of 2 yrs has ended because my ...

Confused and heartbroken are an understatement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am not entirely sure what my question is. but I would love some advice..actually really need some advice. Anyway 3 years ago my friend introduced me to a friend of hers online, I never met him but we'd talk often over msn etc. He was looki...

I want sensual affection. He wants to take it slow. But is he really into me this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - my partner broke up with with me 3 months ago due to not being able to handle his life-- it seems as though he wanted a simple life and getting rid of me would eliminate one stress. I acted desperate- crawled back a million times and got rejected ...

I feel like I'm losing my mind because of my cheating boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy 8 months ago, things went really fast and I fell so in love with him and unfortunately still am despite the hurt he gave me. After a month of being with him I discovered he lied about a few things and I made it clear that I wan...

I know he truly wants us both!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - hello, I'm not sure what to do about a situation I've been involved with for two years and need other peoples advice! i met a man by accident two years ago. from the moment we started talking we couldn't leave each other alone. texts run into at ...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

The one that got away. Did he care? What could I do to get him back, if ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So I’m sure we all have a story about someone we loved and it didn’t happen or wasn’t meant to be for circumstances beyond our control but for me, I messed up a good thing completely. So it’s the same old story girl meets boy, girl likes boy like...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

How can I overcome all my doubts and get my dating life re-energized again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I'm a shy guy and about two years ago I was having a six year period without a single date. Then I met this girl and started dating and we clicked quite nicely, kissed, finally, on the 5th date. But she was from a different background, and since my...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...

Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up? My ex left me a yr. ago after 7 yrs. together basically, for someone else although, they did not get together until after he ended it. He also, denies she was the ...

My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

I cant get myself to break up with my nightmare of a BF!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - What should I do with my life? I feel I have a boyfriend who doesn't deserve me. He has cheated on me with many women but I still gave him a chance, but he continues to treat me very badly and I just cannot pucker up the courage to break up. What...

Should I give up on him? He hurt me in the past. Now he refuses to do what he promised as a condition of coming back to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My ex and i have have been trying to work things out since April. he came back begging for another chance. we have been broken up now for almost a year, but since we started working things out it has been going great. we have been able to get past...

Is this a reason to breakup again? Is a rebound relationship after breaking up really cheating once the former relationship resumes after a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I lately found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for a whole year with many other girls. When the truth came out, he asked me not to leave him and pleaded for 3 months to take him back and bought me many gifts to win my love ...

At a low point in my life. how can I get out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hi all, I guess i don't know exactly how to explain how i feel in any other phrase but low, incredibley low. The guy i was interested in, screwed me over and thanks to all my attention being for him i messed up my a levels real bad an have only just ...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

How do I end a 7 year old relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hiya. I am 26 and I have been in a relationship for 7 years now. It isn't a healthy relationship, and for the past couple of years I have been waking up at night, from dreaming about meeting somebody new and falling in love. At the weekend I me...

He says he needs a break but regrets it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - WTF he asks for a break in our relationship and says he regrets needing one or having to do it but still does it. Then can't explain it to me. WTF what does that mean??? Can any male here explain this to me please. A little light here would be very ...

Why do I push guys away? I find one fault and look for more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I have a real problem staying in a relationship. I'm 31 years old and have had lots of short relationships. I meet a guy who im really crazy about and within a couple of months im bored. The guys i have been with have been totally different from...

Can she change or has she got used to making fun of me being "middle" class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - For the last three years , I have been in a relationship with girl who is from extremely rich family whereas I am from middle class family with good educational background but not having decent job matching my qualification . Her parents are down...

I don't get it! Am I being unreasonable? He excludes me from parts of his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Ive just ended my relationship with my boyfriend because we want different things but now im doubting my decision! Weve been together nearly a yr her 30 im 28 I have a daughter and he has a son. The thing is he doesnt want no more children and I do...

Is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - This is just something that I'm confused about and would like some insight on. A week from today, my girlfriend and I broke up. I first suggested that we take a break to see how we can work together to meet each other's needs. We talked about it and ...

How do I get over it and not keep telling myself how foolish I was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am in the process of ending my 2 year relationship. The main issues were alcohol abuse and money. The soon to be ex boyfriend still owes me money. When he phoned last week he cut short the call because his son (previous marriage) had called him. ...

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Huge jealousy problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - ok so i was in a realtionship for so long and we both had trust problems and a lot a lot a lot a lot of jealousy to an extreme point. Thats how i am and thats how she is. I got used to being jealous. Now the realtionship has ended. But everytime i ...

I cant get back with her because I know she will keep lying, so how so I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 2 months and in the first year and a half it was great then some lying from her part started coming and a lot of lies and big ones. Nothing with her exs just stupid lies and i talked to her about it and ...

How can I be happy for my ex when he's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - So, i could go into major details, but we'd be hear forever, so i'll put it simply. I went out with this guy when i was 15 and it was my first proper relationship and lasted 6 months until we broke up. I wasn't sure how i felt so i ended it and ...

I feel like I have a grudge against my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Ok so I will try and make this as short and simple as possible. Me and my boyfriend went out for 5 months, after that somthing came up that made him really upset( it did involve me being a bitch and a half towards him ) . So we broke up. BUT after...

My parents are headed for a divorce and I am afraid if we will financially survive. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. This is not exactly a relationship question, more so a divorce question. My parents have been having problems for about 4 years. My dad has changed, doesn't treat her like he loves her, and has been borderline emotionally abus...

My ex wants to move near by. Is it to be closer to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I need some advice please guys me amd my boyfriend split up 2 wks ago he moved in wth a friend miles away, now today he told me hes moving up the road with a male friend to be closer to work and the kids, im not sure how to take this as we have more ...

My ex kissed another girl. Should I forgive and forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys, basically I have been seeing my now ex boyfriend for 8 months, he is the most caring loving honest person ever. I have trust issues due to my past and I accused my boyfriend almost everyday of cheating on me, fancying my friends and even ...

How do I get her back forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Hello everyone I'm a 23 year old guy and my girlfriend's also 23.Well,to start off with, I got to say I'm probably going through the toughest phase of my life till now. My two year long relationship is in turmoil and I'm really feeling low and ...

Tricked by a man - again!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...

I miss him. We just broke up. What do I do to get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up. It has been three years. I do not know how to cope or deal with this,how is he moving on so fast? He is already talking to other girls,dating them. I know this because of Facebook. I need help,my identity feels stri...

I don't whether to give-up in 'us' or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - I dated my ex for a little over 3 and a half years. I broke up with her because things were not going good. I guess i just needed time to figure out what i really wanted. I told her to move on and she kept trying to get back with me. I love her a...