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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...

My boyfriend is always waiting for the next best thing. Why is it so hard to walk away?

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30 September 2008 (F) - well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface ...

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to ...

Has she really changed or will she hurt me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up at the end of May, about 4 months ago. I was extremely hurt because of the things she had done that were unfair to me, and I never contacted her over those 4 months. She contacted me a few times about random things, ...

He ended it but wanted to be friends. Will a clean break make him realize his faults and come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hello. My ex boyfriend and I had been together for almost four years. We'd had problems (who doesn't) but I thought things were fine then he breaks up with me because he decides he loves some girl he knows online. He had wanted to remain friend...

I wanted more romance and now she's broken up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I have been seeing a girl the last few months, its long distance of sorts being about 2hours travel apart. We meet as much as we can as our jobs and busy personal lives will allow us. Yesterday things came to a head however after an arugement. ...

I love him, but should I keep working at this!? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I hope you can help. I called the Samaritans but feel guilty, because I feel pretty blue. I met this man when I was 18. We went out and got married twelve years later. Since then we have split up loads of times but always got back ...

Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my be...

My life doesn't seem fixable. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have a brief separation in progress and since being online i dont emotionally feel bothered. I am not sure how much stress im copying with separating from my partner, and this worries me. My need to communciate with other people via inter...

She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...

We broke up and for a change..I was the one that got really hurt! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i just don't know how to deal with this.. usually when i go out with someone i'm in control and i break up with them and they get sad. it's pretty much always been like that. but now i just got broken up with.. and it hurts so much. i've never felt ...

She loves someone else, but I want to be with her! How can I win her over? Or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey everyone, this is my 1st question on here and i dont exactly know how to say it, well in order to understand it 1st off, u need to know the basic story. we are incredibly close, she is the only one who knows what i truly am like, ive known her ...

I let him go because things didn't get any better, but I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I had to break up with him. Although he said he does love me. He never shows it. Never says it...only through a text. Never kisses or cuddles me anymore. Even a non existent sex life. So i said all this to him. and he said he'd try. Just that he ...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he ...

What's the best way to split up when you live together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years and we are currently living together. I know that I want to get married and have a family however I know that I do not want these things with her. She is my best friend and has been so since long ...

Am I too fussy or am I just worthless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship ...

Should I move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I really need some help. I cant handle it that Ive been dumped for another woman by a man who I'm hopelessly still in love with. This happened 6 weeks ago and I still feel as much hurt now as I did when I found out. Initially, I did cry loads an...

We broke up as he wanted to examine his feelings and focus on himself, so we cut all contact! How can I get him back if we don't talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey guys So .. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me month and a half ago. We completely stopped talking and seeing each other. He said, he needed time on his own, to think about his life and focuse on himself. I tried to understand and I...

I got married because I'm a passive person and go with the flow - I hate the majority of time we spend together, so should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I've been in this relationship for 7 years, we've been living together for the past 4 years, and we just got married this past july. That said, I'm pretty sure I should have never accepted the marriage proposal in the first place. In fact, I didn'...

I can't get over this one girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - i had a relationship of three years with a VERY attractive girl,although a loved her and i know she loved me we were going to have to have a long distance relationship and i felt all we had was a physical relationship..so i ended it.now i can see ...

I can't escape seeing him so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So, about 9 days ago my boyfriend(we will call him jack)of three months broke up with me and it killed me, and to make it worse it was homecoming. It killed me but I went to homecoming with my 2 best friends. I started talking to jack again and we ...

I really like my ex bf's buddy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have decided to end our relationship. It's a mutual decision and we're going to stay friends. We're still together at the moment, because we're sorting thing out first... Anyway, the thing is, I've had a thing for one of his m...

I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him ...

I'm very worried, I already have one child, I don't want anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi I had my period 5 days late and my period was not the same, it was lighter and shorter. Could i still be pregnant? I've heard of implantation bleeding but i dont know how often that really occurs... ...if i take a pregnancy test will it show up i...

He picked me over her, now he's dating her. I still miss him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i'm pathetic. im still so in love with my ex, since we broke up in february we've been back and forth, and still having sex. we broke up cause he was trying to play me and talk to other girls, he even hooked up with one! the main problem we had was ...

My abusive boyfriend dumped me and I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with ...

Am I a chump? Why am I even thinking this stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Here's my story. I did have sex until I was 25 with a girl who I had pined over for a LONG time. We then had a 2 year relationship which started off great- both in love, it wasn't just physical I think we clicked quite well. Going into the second y...

I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there. So there were comp...

Please help me on how to deal with family and my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I left my husband, he sent divorse papers to me. He has a girl friend, i don't have a boy friend. Before he gave my family member the divorse papers he told me on the phone he need to meet me to give me my belongings back. he will stay silent then...

Shall I just cut all contact with my ex as it's doing me no good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been thinking an awful lot about my ex boyfriend( we split 2 years ago!! i know, together for 8) i feel down and weepy recently- - yes ive been out with other guys - we split as he said he didnt love me anymore and starting seeing ...

When we have disagreements he insults me and kicks me out of his house. I'm the only one who apologises, every time. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I was with a guy for 3 1/2 months. Things went very quickly and we fell in love. He is 38 and I am 41. He is divorced with a 9 year old son and I am single with no children. When things were good, they were great. We were very compatible. Th...

What do I do? do I carry on trying to get over him or do I try and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi... I'm so low and confused....i feel to old to feel like this, but this is how it is! This is a follow on from a question dated 22/8/08 Sex is starting to slow down. Is this normal so early in a relationship?" if you would please read. ...

Is this all just a game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello, i have a been with my partner for 18 years. We had our 1st child in 2000 after being together for 10 years, who is now 8 years old. Our 2nd child in 2002 who is now 6 years old. The last child in 2007 now is 1 years old. All our chil...

Does he really not care at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my bf of 4 years about a week and a half ago. The reason I broke up with him was because he wouldn't make a commitment to me as in living together or marriage. I've been back and forth with my feelings. Sometimes I miss him a...

She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ...

We break up when we fight but get back together, then the cycle continues. Opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot this week. We have been dating for about 4 months and we live together. In the beginning of the relationship we had a fight in which he called me a fucking bitch. I told him we needed to just be friends ...

I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! Will I ever get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - We're both 18 and after nearly two years, we're over. I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! I have no idea what I'm going to do without him! I based my whole life plan on him! I was in love with him, ...

Do you think there could be any happy ending here? My ex is now with a woman who has done time for drugs, and has a history of domestic violence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Do you really think there could be any happy ending here? It's been a year now that they have been together. Please read. Her name is T****. My man of 9 years left me for this woman he met. He has never done any kind of drugs and is totally ...

I was okay with being the 'other woman' but I have fallen for him. Now he's engaged, I love but I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been in a casual relationship with someone for 3 years. About 2 years ago he started dating someone he grew up with. He never hid the fact that he was dating her from me. Initially I was ok with being the "other woman" but over time I fell in ...

I betrayed my boyfriend's trust but have since come clean, now I need to prove to him I love him and we should be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend and in less than a month of dating I went on vacation with my girlfriends, drank a little too much and cheated. When I got home he asked if anything happened I said no and we continued with our relationship. I never ...

Am I really his number one girl or am I blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for about six months since april almost and now he has a new girlfriend after we broke up we were still dating on and off until the middle of july and we stopped because he found a new girl. now its september and she ...

What I want to know is should I give this another shot? Do I have the right to know if she had sex with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About 3 1/2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had both become stressed from living with my parents, working, going to school, and raising our young son. The relationship unraveled. She says she loves me emotionally but not physically. ...

He's dating another girl because his friends want him too, but he wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up like a week ago. he says it was cuz we argued to much and we did. but now he wants to be back with me but his friends want him to be with another girl and so he's confused an wants me to wait for him and her to break. ...

Did she cheat or is he trying to break us up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - my gf told me a guy tried to sleep with her but she refused she gave me his number i called him after his number was switched off for 3 days wen i got hold of him i threatened him he later called me 2 days later and told me she was cheating on me ...

I know I should break up with him, but it will be harder to do it the second time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend a couple weeks ago and last friday he tried to make me jealous telling me that he had a new gf. i really didnt care but it still bothered me. he keeps asking me to go back out with him and i just felt soo annoyed and ...

Should I get my ex boyfriend a birthday present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up in June we were goin out for 2 months i still like him so much he was my 1st bf,i think im in love with him.But i no he wants to stay friends. Straight after the break up we remained really close every1 thought we were still ...