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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

We broke up promising to be "friends", but now she's mad because I called her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

30 September 2005 (M - Me and my girlfriend of 2 years just recently broke up. It was because of one stupid arguement but I guess you can say the separation was a long time coming. When we were together it was perfect and we were both full of love. We even had talked a...

I'd love to end things with my current boyfriend, so I can start anew with my first love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

29 September 2005 (F - I have been dating someone for six months. He is 51 and thinks the world of me. I have tried to finish with him three times because he has done some very dodgy things. Both his marriages failed because of infidelity, the first with his wife's s...

When I'm alone is when I miss my ex the most... but I want to get over him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 September 2005 (? - I have just broken up with my boyfriend and even though we weren't happy together I am finding it hard to get over him. I don't want him to get with anyone else even though I know we dont get on. Does anyone have any good tips on how I can get ...

Not sure if my feelings for my boyfriend are genuine, so I keep breaking up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

29 September 2005 (F - Me and my ex boyfriend have going out on and off for the last 3 years. Whenever we've split up it's been my choice because I just get all confused and maybe want more or something. We last split up in June/July and now I'm really missing him. He ...

I thought he'd chase me, but I'm chasing him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

29 September 2005 (F - Hi,I broke up with my bf of 18 months cos I felt he was taking me for granted and thought he would fight for me. He chased for 1 week and then it backfired in my face and I ended up begging him back. I know he loves me and if I didnt break up with ...

I know I was insecure and I accused him. Now, how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

28 September 2005 (F - I need to know how I can possibly put my realationship back together. I know I messed it up between us because I was a jealous person who always acused him of something that he did not do, due to my insecurity. I really want to get him back but...

Help me decide if my relationship is worth saving...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

28 September 2005 (F - Should I stay with him if...? We were together for 3 yrs and broke up, then got back together for 6 months and I'm ready to call it quits again. To my 3 calls he has one. Sometimes doesn't call for 2 or more days at a time. Is never around when I...

Nothing's right with my boyfriend and I want to split, but we've been together so long!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

28 September 2005 (F - I have been with my boyfriend a year and I don't think I could leave him although I feel like leaving him. I have never been totally happy with my boyfriend. There's something about the relationship and it doesn't feel right. I love him but probably...

When he told me "it's over", he was just having a last fling. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

27 September 2005 (F - I moved 120 miles 10 months ago to buy a house with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 and a half years now. 2 weeks ago he woke up and told me he thought it was over. He cried and was very adamant. I went back to my Mum's for a week. It was ...

Feel like it's time to end it with my partner, but I just don't have the courage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

27 September 2005 (F - I have been thinking about breaking up with my partner now for a few years but can't find the courage to do it. I had several affairs a few years ago and met this lovely man who I have kept in contact with. My partner forgave me for the affairs and ...

The end is in sight for our relationship. Should we just break up now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

26 September 2005 (F - My boyfriend and I met at my Uni and have been together for 7 months. He was away for 4 months this summer visiting his parents in his home state, but we remained a couple. Now he's back, but says he will be leaving back to his home state in 3 ...

Are we breaking up, or just taking a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6758 days ago

26 September 2005 (M - My girlfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. We have been together for close to two years. Our stages in life are different. She has her career started and I don't have a steady job. We live together and she pays for all the bills until I ...

I'm confused over how to act when I have dinner with my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

23 September 2005 (M - Hi all, I am having dinner with my ex (we're on a break) this Monday, and for the last few months, I have made it clear that I am serious about my intentions with her. The last time I spoke with her, she could have told me it was over, or she ...

Breaking up is harder than I expected, because we still have feelings for each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

23 September 2005 (F - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago after going out for 2 years. We just weren't in the same place in our lives- my career is set, but he doesn't have a steady job. He felt inadequate and depressed, and felt that he needed to be on his own. S...

We broke up when he said he didn't want a relationship, but now he's dating my co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

22 September 2005 (F - Has he lied to me about the reason he wanted to split up to protect me? I have just recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We didn't have a bad relationship, well it was a lot of one sided though. He always did what he wanted to do and...

My old ex lured me back from my new ex. Now my new ex won't take me back again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

22 September 2005 (F - hi, I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. Earlier this year, I got to know a guy from work and I really started to like him. I told my boyfriend I needed a break and we split up for 2 months. In this...

He says he needs space. OK, but how much space?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

21 September 2005 (F - My boyfriend told me he doesn't want to break up but needs some space. How long should I wait before I call him? Or see him? I want to respect him and give him time to work out his issues, but not give him permission to leaving me totally hanging ...

We're taking time apart and now she wants to meet up again. Is she going to drop a bomb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

20 September 2005 (M - Hi, Please, help! My girlfriend and I are on a break. It's been 8 weeks, but this is OK since I did the same a few years ago. I know she loves me, but she said at last conversation "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and someth...

The breaking-up with me was bad enough... but the sick lie made it worse!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

20 September 2005 (M - G'day Several months ago my then girlfriend told me her younger brother was dying from recently diagnosed terminal brain cancer. Over the next four weeks i was unable to see her as he was being treated, but spoke to her and her family weekly on...

We broke up because I didn't fancy him, after sleeping with the French lad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6766 days ago

18 September 2005 (F - Help I need advice! I had been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, however, when working abroad over the summer, I slept with an incredibly gorgeous french guy on more than one occassion. I felt it wasn't a mistake as I really liked this guy but ...

I deleted one picture from my phone, and my ex broke up with me over it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

15 September 2005 (F - I Really need help. Me and my now ex-boyfriend were dating for 5 months. Me and him were not speaking for a week and on Friday of that week I left town for vaction. He called me basically every day saying he missed me and sweet talking me. fter a...

I hate our long-distance relationship and the way my girlfriend behaves, but when we're together... things are great!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

15 September 2005 (M - Do I end my long-distance relationship of 4 years because of our different views? First, I should provide some background. My girlfriend and I met via a website for people with contractable diseases. As such, we share something in common that I da...

We keep getting together as friends, so we can't properly break up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

15 September 2005 (F - OK, I'm giving up on my quest to get my ex-fiance' back. We were together for 3 years. We broke up 3 months ago and I couldn't get over him and have tried almost every day to get him back and nothing's working. He is not dating anyone and I am not ...

Trying not to run back to my ex. Any tips for moving on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

14 September 2005 (M - Hello all Briefly, I was friends with my ex for 11 years (Age 14 started). We hung out with each other but nothing serious. She had an affection with me from day one. We eventually got together when we were both 21. We were together for 8 m...

Can't face my boyfriend since I cheated...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

13 September 2005 (F - I have been in a serious relationship for 4 years. My partner and I recently had a break because I cheated and couldn't face him. He doesn't know that I have been unfaithful. Things are not going well, although he has moved back in and we are both ...

When she dumped me, she said she "wasn't paying me enough attention". What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6772 days ago

12 September 2005 (M - OK, so I've been going out with this girl for a while; like a three or four months, and I think I'm in love with her. But she just dumped me because she said that she wasn't paying enough attention to me and it wasn't fair for me. What is she real...

Relationship died 18 months ago, but the sex continued. Now I want to be re-committed again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6774 days ago

10 September 2005 (M - Hi, I was in a relationship but was being insecure by calling her when she was out with girlfriends several times, asking her when she was coming instead of relaxing and waiting for her to come home. This caused her to break up with me but we still ...

Is it fair that he dumped me for sleeping with someone 9 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

9 September 2005 (F - My Boyfriend of three years has dumped me. The reason he cited is that I slept with his best friend 9 years ago and he can't cope with that fact. He says I don't understand the male ego. I think that this is deeply unreasonable, what do yo...

She wasn't able to handle a relationship with school and work. OK, but how long do I wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

9 September 2005 (M - My girlfriend who I've been going out with for about half a year just dumped me. She says it's just because right now her schedule between school and work is just too overloaded and that she doesn't have time for a serious relationship. She also ...

I broke if off for personal reasons... but suddenly people are saying nasty things about me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6777 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Dear Cupid, I just broke up with my boyfriend, and now everyone is saying how nasty I am. I didn't do anything wrong though. I even asked if we could still be friends because I don't want us to be enemies like my other ex-boyfriends (I didn't say ...

Our relationship is in trouble, but I want to fix it. Can it be saved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6777 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - My relationship with my girlfriend is going bad to the point we will most likely break up. I want to fix it, but she does not seem like she wants to. Can it still be fixed?...

My friends say to forget about my ex, but I want to know why we drifted apart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

6 September 2005 (F - Dear cupid, I have just split up with my boyfriend, whom I've been with for 8 weeks, and we are still very good friends. But one of the reasons I broke up with him was because of one of my previous relationships, 'ex', that I had 12 weeks ago. ...

My girlfriend has written me out of her life...and she says there's no chance of changing her mind.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

5 September 2005 (M - Dear Cupid I have been going out with a great girl for just over three years, but she has decided that she doesnt want to be part of this relationship any more, and she has ended it during a disagreemen we had about something very minor. From ...

To reduce the hurt, is it better to just cut off all contact with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

4 September 2005 (M - My ex and I split up in July. We had an upsetting break up when she dumped me for a friend of hers. We went on a break. I suggested it and she was heartbroken. I really upset her. In the break, she got over me and didn't want to risk getting hurt ...

My fiancee is the first woman I ever loved and she broke it off with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 September 2005 (M - Dear Cupid, I'm a 38 year old man and for the first time in my life I fell deeply in love. Eight months ago I met the woman of my dreams. She was everything that I dreamed for. We met online and in a very short time we had developed a clos...

He begged me to come back, but won't forgive me for having sex with someone else...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6777 days ago

1 September 2005 (F - Dear Cupid, I am 22; my on/ off again boyfriend is 26. We have been together for 2 years and we really care about each other, but keep breaking up and getting back together. The problems really started about a year ago when we broke up for the...

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